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UGHHHHHH, Long, but please read!

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julz33
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Re: UGHHHHHH, Long, but please read!

I would probably just ignore the IM!

Posted 9/6/06 9:32 PM
 
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MrsPornStar
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Re: UGHHHHHH, Long, but please read!

She's nuts but no threat to you, sweetie. Just watch out for boiling rabbits in potsChat Icon

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Posted 9/6/06 9:47 PM
 

lvdolphins
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Re: UGHHHHHH, Long, but please read!

I can see why you'd be upset. I'll be honest, I'd be pizzed too.
Your married, your dh loves you and she's a pycho.
I was going to suggest having dh change his number, but I read the post where you said he's had it for a while and a lot of people have it.
Understandable.
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Posted 9/6/06 10:24 PM
 

Marcie
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Re: UGHHHHHH, Long, but please read!

All I have to say is - wow - this girl has a set on her to contact you or your DH.

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Posted 9/6/06 10:28 PM
 

Crismicka
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Re: UGHHHHHH, Long, but please read!

Have faith in your relationship. It sounds like your DH knows what is important in his life. I would not let her get to me. I know it is annoying and frustrating, but you have to look at it like this...you have him...she doesn't...no threat there!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/6/06 10:32 PM
 

JTK
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Re: UGHHHHHH, Long, but please read!

sounds like a psycho and i don't think you've seen the end of her.. just remember your DH has been honest and open with you about it.. don't let it come between you.!

Posted 9/7/06 12:18 AM
 

Jesaroo
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Re: UGHHHHHH, Long, but please read!

wow! thats crazy!

i wouldnt feel threatened, and im sure youre not.... but i would be annoyed if she kept trying to contact him.

if she IMs you again just be like "thats great, now LOSE his number and leave us alone"

keep us updated!

hey, did u look her up on myspace?

Posted 9/7/06 12:24 AM
 

JTK
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Re: UGHHHHHH, Long, but please read!

can he change his number???or maybe just block hers?

Message edited 9/7/2006 12:27:12 AM.

Posted 9/7/06 12:26 AM
 

Shelly
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Re: UGHHHHHH, Long, but please read!

Posted by JTK

sounds like a psycho and i don't think you've seen the end of her.. just remember your DH has been honest and open with you about it.. don't let it come between you.!



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Posted 9/7/06 6:54 AM
 

CouponKT
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Re: UGHHHHHH, Long, but please read!

Thankfully he is on your side. It's going to be two against one (psycho). I think she's just doing it to annoy you.

Posted 9/7/06 10:15 AM
 

joenick
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Re: UGHHHHHH, Long, but please read!

Nutjob!Chat Icon

Posted 9/7/06 10:18 AM
 

skew
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Re: UGHHHHHH, Long, but please read!

what a psycho. i agree w/ the others in that you should just ignore her. however, the b!tch in me says to respond w/ a sarcastic comment.

to be on the safe side, i would make sure that your home # is unlisted. don't want to make it easy for her to find out where you live.

Posted 9/7/06 10:26 AM
 

nferrandi
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Re: UGHHHHHH, Long, but please read!

IM her back and say "Good luck with the move. Now please move on with your life and stay out of ours."

Posted 9/7/06 10:30 AM
 

MrsERod
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Re: UGHHHHHH, Long, but please read!

what a wackjob!!! Chat Icon
don't let the beyotch get to you mama!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/7/06 11:43 AM
 

LAMGAJ28
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Re: UGHHHHHH, Long, but please read!

Posted by dpli

I thnk that any response to this IM or future messages will only feed her need for drama. Try to ignore her and hopefully she will stay away.



I couldn't agree more with this statement.
Even if she contacts your husband, he should do the same unless it becomes so unbearable with her calling or IM him. If I were you, I'd not either IM or call her. He was your husband's friend and not yours. I'd speak to your husband and let him know so that he's aware of what's happening and can be prepared to ignore her when she tries to contact him. If she gets any type of response from either you or your husband this will only feed to have her try more. She will eventually get tired once she sees it's not working and she's not getting the attention. If she doesn't, then ask your husband to give her a call to tell her if she calls or IM him one more time, he's getting a restraining order for you and him against her.

Posted 9/7/06 11:52 AM
 

CouldNotAsk4More
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Re: UGHHHHHH, Long, but please read!

i know its hard to do
but i wouldnt worry about it and not reply to any more IMs fromher

i thikn crazy people like her live for drama andd interaction and if she has none - she is more likely to go away

plus it sounds like your husband will tell her off i if she contacts either of you again!

Posted 9/7/06 11:58 AM
 

nrthshgrl
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Re: UGHHHHHH, Long, but please read!

I woudl tell me DH that I im'd her an apology & she said she's moving back to NY. I would also say "I have no interest in befriending this girl, what do you want to do?"

I would say that from DH's past actions, he's more than a stand up guy & that I have no worries. Yeah for DH for dropping her. She's a bad friend.

Posted 9/7/06 12:05 PM
 

BabyAvocado
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I would not even reply to the IM. Any attention paid to her - negative or positive - will feed her psycho-ness

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Posted 9/7/06 12:17 PM
 
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