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NervousNell
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Re: Unpopular opinions you have
Posted by TheDivaBrideandTeddyFrog
I don’t want to go to Disney. There. I said it. And I never got the billy
Joel hype
You couldn't pay me to go to Disney. I work hard...I want to spend my vacation relaxing, not walking 100 miles in a theme park, battling crowds and standing on lines. Sounds like the 2nd level of hell to me actually
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Re: Unpopular opinions you have
Posted by NervousNell
Posted by TheDivaBrideandTeddyFrog
I don’t want to go to Disney. There. I said it. And I never got the billy
Joel hype
You couldn't pay me to go to Disney. I work hard...I want to spend my vacation relaxing, not walking 100 miles in a theme park, battling crowds and standing on lines. Sounds like the 2nd level of hell to me actually
We're biting the bullet and going to Disneyland (NOT world) in the spring, mainly because BIL and SIL live in LA and we've never been to see them.
I don't know which I'm dreading more, BIL or Disney.
You couldn't pay me any amount of money to go to Disney World in FL.
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NervousNell
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Re: Unpopular opinions you have
Posted by LuckyStar
Posted by NervousNell
Posted by TheDivaBrideandTeddyFrog
I don’t want to go to Disney. There. I said it. And I never got the billy
Joel hype
You couldn't pay me to go to Disney. I work hard...I want to spend my vacation relaxing, not walking 100 miles in a theme park, battling crowds and standing on lines. Sounds like the 2nd level of hell to me actually
We're biting the bullet and going to Disneyland (NOT world) in the spring, mainly because BIL and SIL live in LA and we've never been to see them.
I don't know which I'm dreading more, BIL or Disney.
You couldn't pay me any amount of money to go to Disney World in FL.
We actually considered (and still are) DisneyLAND.
i figure at least then I cam piggy back a west coast trip.
So yes, I should have clarified that. Disney World. Or Orlando in general. No fuking way
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Chai77
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Re: Unpopular opinions you have
My unpopular opinion is health care is a human right.
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JME78
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Re: Unpopular opinions you have
Posted by NervousNell
Posted by TheDivaBrideandTeddyFrog
I don’t want to go to Disney. There. I said it. And I never got the billy
Joel hype
You couldn't pay me to go to Disney. I work hard...I want to spend my vacation relaxing, not walking 100 miles in a theme park, battling crowds and standing on lines. Sounds like the 2nd level of hell to me actually
I hate Disney. I had to go to a wedding there a few years back and I am never going back. I just don't get it at all. Nothing about it says vacation to me.
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Sash
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Re: Unpopular opinions you have
Posted by NervousNell
Posted by TheDivaBrideandTeddyFrog
I don’t want to go to Disney. There. I said it. And I never got the billy
Joel hype
You couldn't pay me to go to Disney. I work hard...I want to spend my vacation relaxing, not walking 100 miles in a theme park, battling crowds and standing on lines. Sounds like the 2nd level of hell to me actually
Oh please.. never will I go to Disney lol. It’s worse because we took my stepson but I refuse to go again.
My son tried to play the “you took my brother card”. I told him, he can ask his bro about it and when he is an adult he can Disney all he wants. Lol
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Jenn79
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Re: Unpopular opinions you have
Posted by LastLightGlow
I will not be paying for my kids college. I might buy them books, send them grocery store gift cards, smaller things like that. If they are serious about school, they should be able to handle the monthly bill of paying back student loans from a state school when they graduate and get their first job. I will do everything in my human power to deter them from the expense of private colleges.
100% I say this allll the time!!
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klingklang77
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Re: Unpopular opinions you have
I don’t like Billy Joel.
I don’t think Disney looks like a good place to visit. It seems like it would be hell.
I’m extremely liberal, almost socialist, so I keep a lot of opinions to myself.
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mrsrainbow
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Re: Unpopular opinions you have
Posted by Jenn79
Posted by LastLightGlow
I will not be paying for my kids college. I might buy them books, send them grocery store gift cards, smaller things like that. If they are serious about school, they should be able to handle the monthly bill of paying back student loans from a state school when they graduate and get their first job. I will do everything in my human power to deter them from the expense of private colleges.
100% I say this allll the time!!
I agree, and I also have no problem recognizing if my children are more inclined to work in a trade or vocation and encouraging them to go to school/training for their field. Blue collar workers get a bad wrap at times, but they are some of the most hardworking people and many of the jobs can be quite lucrative. College isn't for everyone and I truly think that by the time my kids are ready for college, the entire for-profit diploma-mill higher education system will be radically different than when we went to college.
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Re: Unpopular opinions you have
Posted by LuckyStar
Posted by NervousNell
Posted by TheDivaBrideandTeddyFrog
I don’t want to go to Disney. There. I said it. And I never got the billy
Joel hype
You couldn't pay me to go to Disney. I work hard...I want to spend my vacation relaxing, not walking 100 miles in a theme park, battling crowds and standing on lines. Sounds like the 2nd level of hell to me actually
We're biting the bullet and going to Disneyland (NOT world) in the spring, mainly because BIL and SIL live in LA and we've never been to see them.
I don't know which I'm dreading more, BIL or Disney.
You couldn't pay me any amount of money to go to Disney World in FL.
Don't dread Disneyland!! It is sooooooo much better than Disney World! I think you will like it! And I really liked California Adventure also! enjoy! I haven't been to Disney in FL in about 20 years now, and after reading these boards, I don't think I'd ever go there again.
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Jenn79
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Re: Unpopular opinions you have
Posted by mrsrainbow
Posted by Jenn79
Posted by LastLightGlow
I will not be paying for my kids college. I might buy them books, send them grocery store gift cards, smaller things like that. If they are serious about school, they should be able to handle the monthly bill of paying back student loans from a state school when they graduate and get their first job. I will do everything in my human power to deter them from the expense of private colleges.
100% I say this allll the time!!
I agree, and I also have no problem recognizing if my children are more inclined to work in a trade or vocation and encouraging them to go to school/training for their field. Blue collar workers get a bad wrap at times, but they are some of the most hardworking people and many of the jobs can be quite lucrative. College isn't for everyone and I truly think that by the time my kids are ready for college, the entire for-profit diploma-mill higher education system will be radically different than when we went to college.
Yes! My dh works in a trade. Great job! And I have a masters with no job. I ended up staying home with my kids because I couldn't make enough money to make it worth the daycare costs. I'm in school debt and dh is not. It's crazy.
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LIRascal
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Re: Unpopular opinions you have
Posted by NervousNell
Posted by TheDivaBrideandTeddyFrog
I don’t want to go to Disney. There. I said it. And I never got the billy
Joel hype
You couldn't pay me to go to Disney. I work hard...I want to spend my vacation relaxing, not walking 100 miles in a theme park, battling crowds and standing on lines. Sounds like the 2nd level of hell to me actually
I'm not running to Disney anytime soon. Dreading it, actually. It's not a vacation. It's work. I don't want to work on vacation. Or move. I want to sit lazily on my fat ass and eat and drink. I absolutely love seeing everyone's pictures because I really feel like I've seen everything, and I'm ok with that.
Unpopular opinion: I love it cool. I can't stand the heat, hot weather, saunas, hot tubs, socks. This is why I'm not into Disney. It's work and it's hot work.
Why is it a "thing" to request donations for a charity on Facebook for your birthday? I find it obnoxious, as if the person were expecting gifts 
The whole "reclaimed wood" and "rustic script " are ridiculous. I can't even get a basic photo card for Christmas without planks and burlap 
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stinger
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Re: Unpopular opinions you have
Posted by LIRascal
Posted by NervousNell
Posted by TheDivaBrideandTeddyFrog
I don’t want to go to Disney. There. I said it. And I never got the billy
Joel hype
You couldn't pay me to go to Disney. I work hard...I want to spend my vacation relaxing, not walking 100 miles in a theme park, battling crowds and standing on lines. Sounds like the 2nd level of hell to me actually
I'm not running to Disney anytime soon. Dreading it, actually. It's not a vacation. It's work. I don't want to work on vacation. Or move. I want to sit lazily on my fat ass and eat and drink. I absolutely love seeing everyone's pictures because I really feel like I've seen everything, and I'm ok with that.
Unpopular opinion: I love it cool. I can't stand the heat, hot weather, saunas, hot tubs, socks. This is why I'm not into Disney. It's work and it's hot work.
Why is it a "thing" to request donations for a charity on Facebook for your birthday? I find it obnoxious, as if the person were expecting gifts
The whole "reclaimed wood" and "rustic script " are ridiculous. I can't even get a basic photo card for Christmas without planks and burlap
I was same about disney but finally planned a short 4 day trip with my daughters who are 15 and 12. Dont regret waiting or taking them!
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stinger
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Re: Unpopular opinions you have
Posted by Chai77
My unpopular opinion is health care is a human right.
With you!
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Sheena
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Unpopular opinions you have
I think prostitution should be legal. Sex is one of the basic needs, like food or shelter. If both parties consent, they should work out a deal, in the same manner as going to a restaurant or getting an apartment. It shouldn't be called prostitution, as that has a bad connotation. Sex worker is better.
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NervousNell
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Re: Unpopular opinions you have
Posted by Sheena
I think prostitution should be legal. Sex is one of the basic needs, like food or shelter. If both parties consent, they should work out a deal, in the same manner as going to a restaurant or getting an apartment. It shouldn't be called prostitution, as that has a bad connotation. Sex worker is better.
While I agree about legalizing and regulating prostitution, I don't think sex is in the same category as food or shelter. You will die without food and shelter... you won't die without sex.
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mrsrainbow
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Re: Unpopular opinions you have
Posted by NervousNell
Posted by Sheena
I think prostitution should be legal. Sex is one of the basic needs, like food or shelter. If both parties consent, they should work out a deal, in the same manner as going to a restaurant or getting an apartment. It shouldn't be called prostitution, as that has a bad connotation. Sex worker is better.
While I agree about legalizing and regulating prostitution, I don't think sex is in the same category as food or shelter. You will die without food and shelter... you won't die without sex.
Agreed - sex work should be legitimized and destigmatized if the people engaging in sex work are consensual adults. It should be treated as a business transaction. The illegality of it should extend to the sex trafficking industry but not sex work on the whole.
I also think pot should be decriminalized. I smoke pot and rarely drink - alcohol to me is far worse and addicting.
I think a lot of what we deem as unsavory is based on really, really old prejudices that shouldn't be perpetuated in 2018.
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Re: Unpopular opinions you have
Posted by mrsrainbow
Posted by NervousNell
Posted by Sheena
I think prostitution should be legal. Sex is one of the basic needs, like food or shelter. If both parties consent, they should work out a deal, in the same manner as going to a restaurant or getting an apartment. It shouldn't be called prostitution, as that has a bad connotation. Sex worker is better.
While I agree about legalizing and regulating prostitution, I don't think sex is in the same category as food or shelter. You will die without food and shelter... you won't die without sex.
Agreed - sex work should be legitimized and destigmatized if the people engaging in sex work are consensual adults. It should be treated as a business transaction. The illegality of it should extend to the sex trafficking industry but not sex work on the whole.
I also think pot should be decriminalized. I smoke pot and rarely drink - alcohol to me is far worse and addicting.
I think a lot of what we deem as unsavory is based on really, really old prejudices that shouldn't be perpetuated in 2018.
Agree on all points.
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Sash
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Re: Unpopular opinions you have
Posted by NervousNell
Posted by Sheena
I think prostitution should be legal. Sex is one of the basic needs, like food or shelter. If both parties consent, they should work out a deal, in the same manner as going to a restaurant or getting an apartment. It shouldn't be called prostitution, as that has a bad connotation. Sex worker is better.
While I agree about legalizing and regulating prostitution, I don't think sex is in the same category as food or shelter. You will die without food and shelter... you won't die without sex.
Speak for yourself
Im kidding. I agree with the sentiment around why people think prostitution should be legalized but would never want this to happen.
My fear would be an even bigger rise in sex trafficking or creating a legal loophole for rape. Im nervous that with it be legal, it would be easier for sex traffickers to say oh well she consents to doing it. And since the prostitution part is no longer illegal there is nothing we can get them on.
ETA: I am not a lawyer or know the legal system. So this is all my theory and I could be way off base.
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mrsrainbow
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Re: Unpopular opinions you have
Posted by Sash
Posted by NervousNell
Posted by Sheena
I think prostitution should be legal. Sex is one of the basic needs, like food or shelter. If both parties consent, they should work out a deal, in the same manner as going to a restaurant or getting an apartment. It shouldn't be called prostitution, as that has a bad connotation. Sex worker is better.
While I agree about legalizing and regulating prostitution, I don't think sex is in the same category as food or shelter. You will die without food and shelter... you won't die without sex.
Speak for yourself
Im kidding. I agree with the sentiment around why people think prostitution should be legalized but would never want this to happen.
My fear would be an even bigger rise in sex trafficking or creating a legal loophole for rape. Im nervous that with it be legal, it would be easier for sex traffickers to say oh well she consents to doing it. And since the prostitution part is no longer illegal there is nothing we can get them on.
ETA: I am not a lawyer or know the legal system. So this is all my theory and I could be way off base.
I hadn't thought of those aspects. Definitely want to do more research on it, it's legal in the Netherlands so I'm curious to know how it works there.
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NervousNell
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Re: Unpopular opinions you have
Thought of another: I don't believe in Christmas decorating, Christmas music, and Christmas movies before Thanksgiving.
Apparently that's a very unpopular opinion lately...
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Sash
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Re: Unpopular opinions you have
Posted by NervousNell
Thought of another: I don't believe in Christmas decorating, Christmas music, and Christmas movies before Thanksgiving.
Apparently that's a very unpopular opinion lately...
Me either.. but I also didn't even realize Thanksgiving was next week, that is how much of a bad/late planner I am. So I hate when each holiday is rushed. I just got through Halloween, let me breath.
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| Posted 11/12/18 6:44 PM |
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NervousNell
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Re: Unpopular opinions you have
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Posted by NervousNell
Thought of another: I don't believe in Christmas decorating, Christmas music, and Christmas movies before Thanksgiving.
Apparently that's a very unpopular opinion lately...
Me either.. but I also didn't even realize Thanksgiving was next week, that is how much of a bad/late planner I am. So I hate when each holiday is rushed. I just got through Halloween, let me breath.
I know. My anxiety is bad enough, I don't need to feel any more rushed and crazed
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| Posted 11/12/18 6:55 PM |
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Re: Unpopular opinions you have
Posted by NervousNell
Posted by Sash
Posted by NervousNell
Thought of another: I don't believe in Christmas decorating, Christmas music, and Christmas movies before Thanksgiving.
Apparently that's a very unpopular opinion lately...
Me either.. but I also didn't even realize Thanksgiving was next week, that is how much of a bad/late planner I am. So I hate when each holiday is rushed. I just got through Halloween, let me breath.
I know. My anxiety is bad enough, I don't need to feel any more rushed and crazed
OMG I didn't even realize that Thanksgiving was next week either!
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ChilisWife
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Re: Unpopular opinions you have
Here are a few of mine....
I think it's perfectly acceptable for people not to want any children at their wedding.
It's totally fine not to breastfeed. Or even try.
I'd rather have root canal then spend a fortune on a non-relaxing "vacation" to Disney.
I despise cupcakes and don't get the hype at all. They are just oddly shaped pieces of cake with too sugary frosting that are awkward to eat.
I feel like if you don't RSVP to a party you are either very mean or very lazy.
I think expensive destination bachelor/ette parties are completely ridiculous.
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