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UPDATE: No Sperm

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OrganicMama
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UPDATE: No Sperm

Hi Ladies,
I've posted on this board before and everyone said that my DH and I should see an RE. I made the appointment, went for testing (blood, sono, etc) and my DH had SA done. We found out a month ago that his testosterone levels were really low so he was referred to a urologist also for a SA and bloodwork. On Thursday I had the appointment at RE, he had appointment at urologist same day so we didn't go together. RE went over SA........but there was nothing to go over. He had ZERO sperm. Not one. So for 3 days I've been devastated, not even wanting to leave my bed. From what I've read online, there's a 50% chance of him producing no sperm. If he does produce it, there might be a blockage, and they could do surgery and get some and then do IVF, so there's a chance. Now we're waiting for another urologist's office to call us back (he specializes in male IF) to set up the appointment, and I feel like I'm going to go out of my mind!!! Sorry so long, just needed to vent.



Update:
DH did second SA on Thurs at my RE's office, and he saw Dr. Mellinger today and we got results. He has sperm!!! His counts are still pretty low, but much better than zero!!! His count was 1 million, with 20% motility, although I'm not exactly sure what normal is. He does have a variococele in both testicles with is why his count is low. Thanks so much for all of your prayers!!!

Crissy

Message edited 2/9/2009 8:25:59 PM.

Posted 2/1/09 12:51 PM
 
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WNA01
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Re: New to this board.....devastating news

O no! i dont even know what to say... Hopefully the other urologist can help u out bc he specializes in this. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/1/09 12:57 PM
 

OrganicMama
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Re: New to this board.....devastating news

Posted by WNA01

O no! i dont even know what to say... Hopefully the other urologist can help u out bc he specializes in this. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon




Thanks for your prayers......I just did a search on these boards and it seems like it's possible that it was a fluke. I feel a little better now that maybe there's some hope.

Posted 2/1/09 1:27 PM
 

CaseyGirl
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Re: New to this board.....devastating news

Hi..I FM'd you. We had similiar issues and now here I am 12.5 weeks pg....take it one step at a time. My DH was not producing any (or barely) any sperm and for IVF#1 he had to have TESE done where they went in and extracted it.
eta Also I forgot to mention both times, we did ICSI, where they inject the sperm directly into the egg. Chat Icon

Message edited 2/1/2009 2:12:25 PM.

Posted 2/1/09 2:11 PM
 

Blu-ize
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Re: New to this board.....devastating news

Posted by CaseyGirl

Hi..I FM'd you. We had similiar issues and now here I am 12.5 weeks pg....take it one step at a time. My DH was not producing any (or barely) any sperm and for IVF#1 he had to have TESE done where they went in and extracted it.
eta Also I forgot to mention both times, we did ICSI, where they inject the sperm directly into the egg. Chat Icon



My cousin's Dh had a vasectomy and they went in and got the sperm. She now has a baby boy. Don't stress out yet, there is hope.Chat Icon

Posted 2/1/09 2:57 PM
 

Peainapod
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Re: New to this board.....devastating news

how many SA tests were done?

we had 2 b/c the first one went awry. they told us that there was almost no motitlity. good count, but they werent moving.

2nd test showed great results. So if you only had one done, i suggest getting a 2nd, maybe at a different lab just to be sure.

I was going bonkers for days thinking that DH's guys werent swimming and what we were going to do if that were the case.

Hang in there. technology is amazing and im sure there will be a way for you to work this out.

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Posted 2/1/09 5:54 PM
 

-BabyMiracle-
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J

Re: New to this board.....devastating news

I was in the same boat as you last year. Do not lose hope just yet. Its possible your DH has sperm and there is just a blockage. As other posters have said, they can do a TESE/biopsy if there is a blockage and retrieve the sperm for IVF. That is what I did and will do again.

How many SA did your DH have? Mine had 3 plus a retrograde ejaculation test and a scrotal sonogram.

I know you are going to see a urologist, but if you ever want another recommendation for one, please FM me. Our urologist is just wonderful and I feel completely content and confident with her.

There is a lot to learn and go through at this point. Please feel free to FM me anytime since I have gone through/still going through the same thing.


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Posted 2/1/09 6:44 PM
 

ynot2
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Re: New to this board.....devastating news

Unfortunately I know what you are going thru... We were going thru this last year and I was totally in your shoes!! There is hope!!! If you want to FM me I can let you know the urologist that we are going to...

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Posted 2/1/09 9:35 PM
 

SecretTTCer
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Re: New to this board.....devastating news

It could be a testing error! 10% of test results from labs are errors.

Posted 2/1/09 9:46 PM
 

Sassyz75
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Re: New to this board.....devastating news

Posted by SecretTTCer

It could be a testing error! 10% of test results from labs are errors.



That is true- lab errors happen all the time- earlier this year my lab test came back that I had chlamydia! Nice, right? I didn't- I retested right away and it was negative- and then I retested AGAIN.... so i would totally have your DH get another SA at a different lab.

Posted 2/2/09 12:07 PM
 

Wishing4ababy
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Re: New to this board.....devastating news

I FM'ed you, but I just wanted to let you know that it could be a blockage or an error in his results. I know it's stressful, but just take one day at a time.

Posted 2/2/09 4:17 PM
 

OrganicMama
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Mama

Re: New to this board.....devastating news

Posted by Peainapod

how many SA tests were done?

we had 2 b/c the first one went awry. they told us that there was almost no motitlity. good count, but they werent moving.

2nd test showed great results. So if you only had one done, i suggest getting a 2nd, maybe at a different lab just to be sure.

I was going bonkers for days thinking that DH's guys werent swimming and what we were going to do if that were the case.

Hang in there. technology is amazing and im sure there will be a way for you to work this out.

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We had only one SA so far, my RE wants him to repeat the test in his office. I'm praying that it's an error at the lab. We have an appointment to see Dr. Mellinger next Monday, so we're hoping for the best!

Posted 2/3/09 2:37 AM
 

rose825
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Re: New to this board.....devastating news

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I can only imagine how devestating this is. But they are doing amazing things with TESE and ICSI so dont give up yetChat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/3/09 7:20 AM
 

OrganicMama
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Mama

Re: UPDATE: No Sperm

Updated at top....

Posted 2/9/09 8:26 PM
 

-BabyMiracle-
When will my ship come in?

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J

Re: UPDATE: No Sperm

Good news! Chat Icon Now you have something to "work" with. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/9/09 9:06 PM
 

skinny
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Re: UPDATE: No Sperm

Good news!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm sure this makes u feel like u have hope!

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Posted 2/10/09 9:55 AM
 

Kissy331
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Re: UPDATE: No Sperm

Dr Mellinger is the best Chat Icon That is who DH saw too. I am glad you got more positive results. He will work with you & get things moving Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/10/09 10:02 AM
 

WNA01
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Re: UPDATE: No Sperm

Great news!!! Definitely going in the right direction! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/10/09 11:59 AM
 
 

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