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VENT people who get tired of their pets...

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jgl
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VENT people who get tired of their pets...

over the summer, my cousin (she is in her early 20s) came to me asking if I wanted her rabbit- I honestly forgot her reasoning but I remember it not really being a great one, but she is ADHD and loses interest in things quickly. I told her that I was sorry and I wouldnt be able to take the rabbit. (I already have a rabbit, a cat and a turtle) As much as I would love to have another, mine is already trained, gets along with the cat and if i get another pet my husband may run away (hehe). She did end up finding him a home and gave it to a pet store.

Fast forward to a 2 weeks ago when she tells me that she got a kitten.

I was trying to be nice, but I was PO. I kept my mouth shut, mostly because that side of the family in general annoys me and I really didnt want to start a war at a family event, but I really wanted to tell her off.

How dare she get a kitten after getting sick and tired of your rabbit. I am sorry but they are family, how do you just get rid of something for no valid reason. I can understand if you are allergic or it is dangerous, but come on???


vent over.. even though I am still PO about it

Posted 10/19/09 5:37 PM
 
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Re: VENT people who get tired of their pets...

I know someone like this, except she does it with dogs. The lucky ones get to go live with family members. I don't know where the unlucky ones go.

It's sickening and I can't even talk about it without getting upset. No amount of reasoning, talking, or fighting from me has made a bit of difference.

My only revenge is to never, ever mistreat or neglect my own dog and to give it a better life than the ones she's thrown away like confetti.

Posted 10/19/09 6:04 PM
 

ToTheFuture
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Re: VENT people who get tired of their pets...

Posted by greenfreak


My only revenge is to never, ever mistreat or neglect my own dog and to give it a better life than the ones she's thrown away like confetti.




very well said!

Posted 10/19/09 8:46 PM
 

chrisnjoe8108
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Re: VENT people who get tired of their pets...

I seriously hate hearing stories like this. It really makes me so upset.

Posted 10/19/09 9:09 PM
 

PennyCat
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Re: VENT people who get tired of their pets...

I can't imagine losing interest in a pet.... As a kid I used to get attached, even to my goldfish!!

In any case, I hope her fascination with the cat lasts longer than the rabbit!! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/20/09 5:54 AM
 

BriBri2u
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Re: VENT people who get tired of their pets...

I will NEVER understand any reasoning in people giving up their pets...sorry thats JMO. My pets are like my family - they aren't "just a cat" or "just a dog" Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/20/09 1:27 PM
 

DirtyBlonde
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Re: VENT people who get tired of their pets...

I know someone who does this with her dogs. It makes me SICK how many she's had and given away.Chat Icon

Posted 10/20/09 1:59 PM
 

anonttcer
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Re: VENT people who get tired of their pets...

I just can't imagine "getting tired" of my pets.
From the first second I saw them they were my babies. Period. End of story.
Every single day they bring me joy- how can you get tired of that? Chat Icon

Posted 10/20/09 2:36 PM
 

Lisa
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Re: VENT people who get tired of their pets...

Posted by anonttcer

I just can't imagine "getting tired" of my pets.
From the first second I saw them they were my babies. Period. End of story.
Every single day they bring me joy- how can you get tired of that? Chat Icon



the same for me!!

Posted 10/20/09 4:59 PM
 

jgl
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Re: VENT people who get tired of their pets...

Posted by PennyCat

I can't imagine losing interest in a pet.... As a kid I used to get attached, even to my goldfish!!

In any case, I hope her fascination with the cat lasts longer than the rabbit!! Chat Icon Chat Icon



I hope so as well.

Posted 10/20/09 5:13 PM
 

jgl
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g

Re: VENT people who get tired of their pets...

Posted by Beaver2be

I will NEVER understand any reasoning in people giving up their pets...sorry thats JMO. My pets are like my family - they aren't "just a cat" or "just a dog" Chat Icon Chat Icon



exactly! i just hope my cousin grows up!!!!

Posted 10/20/09 5:15 PM
 

Goobster
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Re: VENT people who get tired of their pets...

Posted by anonttcer

I just can't imagine "getting tired" of my pets.
From the first second I saw them they were my babies. Period. End of story.
Every single day they bring me joy- how can you get tired of that? Chat Icon



I am always right with you on these issues. People like this DISGUST me. Chat Icon

Posted 10/21/09 9:31 AM
 

yourenotme
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Re: VENT people who get tired of their pets...

i knew someone who got rid of a poodle puppy because the color of the dog didnt match her carpets. pretty pathetic!Chat Icon

Posted 10/21/09 6:46 PM
 

Nik211
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Re: VENT people who get tired of their pets...

omg i can't imagine that!!! ugh....i just posted about how it would kill me to give away my dog if she gave us problems with a baby (meaning aggression or trying to hurt the baby)....im worried sick over it and im not even ready to start trying for a baby! i'm thinking of getting a trainer to see if there is anything i can do to help my dog so that we can have a kid....

people are sickening...i dont understand how people can do that to their pets...

Posted 10/22/09 3:00 PM
 

belladi
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Re: VENT people who get tired of their pets...

What happens if she has kids.. Weird.. I could never give up my pets and I have allergies Id rather suffer...

Posted 10/23/09 1:11 PM
 

GioiaMia
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Re: VENT people who get tired of their pets...

My cousin got a LARGE dog even though she is away from home most of the day. We all told her not to. After a few months of this dog chewing everything up ( because he was home alone for 12+ hours a day ) she brought him back to North Shore.

I knew it was for the best, even though I felt horrible for him. I went to her house to cry with her and support her because I knew it was for the best and a hard decision.

Then. . . through her TEARS she looks at me and says "well at least now I can get the small puppy that I really wanted in the first place."

I got up and walked out.

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I will NEVER think of her the same again and honestly, I will never forgive her.

Posted 10/28/09 7:18 AM
 

Goobster
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Re: VENT people who get tired of their pets...

Posted by Tilde

My cousin got a LARGE dog even though she is away from home most of the day. We all told her not to. After a few months of this dog chewing everything up ( because he was home alone for 12+ hours a day ) she brought him back to North Shore.

I knew it was for the best, even though I felt horrible for him. I went to her house to cry with her and support her because I knew it was for the best and a hard decision.

Then. . . through her TEARS she looks at me and says "well at least now I can get the small puppy that I really wanted in the first place."

I got up and walked out.

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I will NEVER think of her the same again and honestly, I will never forgive her.



OMG, I will refrain from saying what I really think...I too don't know if my relationship could ever be the same with someone who thinks like this. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/28/09 11:48 AM
 
 

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