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MrsMerlot
Unconditional Love

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Chrissy

Vent...People making comments....

I received a nice gift from a family friend about a year ago (handbag) and have been using it a lot more lately since it does not good sitting in my closet.

Last week a co-worker of mine stated "great bag, I bought my wife the same one, and she loves the fact that she hasn't seen any knock-offs of it since it's such a unique bag." I thanked him for the compliment, we chatted a bit...not a big deal - moving on.

This morning one of the heads' of our department came over to my area and said "Wow, didn't know Christine was so high maintenance." I said "Hey, it was a gift." He said "from the hubby?" I said "No, from a family friend." He then quoted the price of the bag OUT LOUD so my entire department raised an eyebrow!

I know I'm a little on edge this week about my spending/values being announced (DH telling his mother about my spending habits) but really...is this necessary?

Posted 2/9/07 11:12 AM
 
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CowgirlChick97
Nike. Just do it.

Member since 5/05

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Brianna

Re: Vent...People making comments....

not necessary at all. people are rude......

someone commented on my coach bag once n i said "if i was paid enough here, i would be able to buy it for myself". that shut them up REAL quick.

Posted 2/9/07 11:14 AM
 

Tracey
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Re: Vent...People making comments....

Chat Icon Wow, that was a stepping over the line.

Posted 2/9/07 11:14 AM
 

2PreciousBlessings
The Perfect Pair

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Re: Vent...People making comments....

I hate when people can't mind their business. Someone did that to me before at my job and I pulled her aside and tell her I did not appreciate her behavior.

Posted 2/9/07 11:14 AM
 

MrsMerlot
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Re: Vent...People making comments....

Posted by BellaPaige

I hate when people can't mind their business. Someone did that to me before at my job and I pulled her aside and tell her I did not appreciate her behavior.



I wanted to do that...but then I didn't want the "issue" going any further ya know???? I commend you for taking her aside, and I hope she didn't do it again.

Posted 2/9/07 11:16 AM
 

2PreciousBlessings
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Re: Vent...People making comments....

Posted by ChrissynRicky

Posted by BellaPaige

I hate when people can't mind their business. Someone did that to me before at my job and I pulled her aside and tell her I did not appreciate her behavior.



I wanted to do that...but then I didn't want the "issue" going any further ya know???? I commend you for taking her aside, and I hope she didn't do it again.



She sure did not.

Posted 2/9/07 11:16 AM
 

MrsPorkChop
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Missy

Re: Vent...People making comments....

comments like that are so annyong...


alot of people ask if my bag is "one of those fabulous fakes" - just because its not typical LV style that you see on every street corner

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Posted 2/9/07 11:24 AM
 

Chatham-Chick
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Re: Vent...People making comments....

I wouldn't sweat it.

Sounds to me that the Dept. Head just wanted your co-workers to think he's a big spender since he knows the cost of such items.

I don't think your co-workers would think any different of you, but I would imagine they think that Dept. Head is a jacka*s. Chat Icon



Posted 2/9/07 11:27 AM
 

CrankyPants
I'm cranky

Member since 7/06

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Re: Vent...People making comments....

This is so rude-I cannot stand when people make remarks like this, especially publicly.

Posted 2/9/07 11:28 AM
 

Smileyd17
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Re: Vent...People making comments....

Rude and jealous that you CAN spend that amt and be ok with it!

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Posted 2/9/07 11:35 AM
 

JennCo
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Re: Vent...People making comments....

Some people say such stupid things - but don't let him bother you b/c at the end of the day - he looks like an azz for saying that in front of everyone!

Posted 2/9/07 11:41 AM
 

angnick
Life is So Wonderful!

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Angela

Re: Vent...People making comments....

i think people are jealous, plain and simple.

Posted 2/9/07 12:14 PM
 

MsMBV
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Re: Vent...People making comments....

OMG ta-cky. What an a$$Chat Icon

Posted 2/9/07 12:16 PM
 

Beth
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Re: Vent...People making comments....

I once had a customer stop a business meeting to ask about my rings- I was beyond Chat Icon

I just smiles and laughted if off- b/c I didn't know what else to do

but for the rest of the trade show my rings were the topic on conversation - and all the lights didn't help-

it was so annoying-

Posted 2/9/07 12:18 PM
 

Kissy331
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Re: Vent...People making comments....

People just don't THINK before they speak! It is NO ONE's business how much something is & to make it noted is even more rude!!!

Posted 2/9/07 12:19 PM
 

Waste06
Waste not, want not

Member since 6/06

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Re: Vent...People making comments....

If they notice your bag and feel compelled to comment on it, why can't they just say, "Wow, that's an awesome bag! Wear it in good health!" ?





Posted 2/9/07 12:24 PM
 

Hi-Fi55
12 years...wow....

Member since 2/06

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Re: Vent...People making comments....

People are just rude and don't know when to keep their mouths shut. It's a combination pure jealousy and stupidity.

Posted 2/9/07 12:43 PM
 

MrsERod
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Re: Vent...People making comments....

someone is always going to have a stupid comment to make Chat Icon

and i agree with Chatham - i think he just made himself look like an a** Chat Icon

Posted 2/9/07 1:18 PM
 

MrsNaunie
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Re: Vent...People making comments....

I think he was just passive aggressively coming out of the closet.

Posted 2/9/07 1:26 PM
 

MrsMerlot
Unconditional Love

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Re: Vent...People making comments....

Posted by MrsNaunie

I think he was just passive aggressively coming out of the closet.




Chat Icon i puffy heart you nauns

Posted 2/9/07 1:29 PM
 

MrsNaunie
Kai helps my father dump out.

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Lauren

Re: Vent...People making comments....

Posted by ChrissynRicky

Posted by MrsNaunie

I think he was just passive aggressively coming out of the closet.




Chat Icon i puffy heart you nauns



Right back acha.
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Posted 2/9/07 1:30 PM
 

lvdolphins
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Re: Vent...People making comments....

Posted by Kissy331

People just don't THINK before they speak! It is NO ONE's business how much something is & to make it noted is even more rude!!!



Exactly what I wanted to say!

Posted 2/9/07 1:48 PM
 

QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: Vent...People making comments....

maybe it's the guy in me, but i just don't see this as a big deal at all

i'd actually be flattered because you're basically promoting to the world that I can afford this kinda stuff, and who cares what everyone else thinks

but that's me

Posted 2/9/07 1:50 PM
 

curliegirl
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Member since 3/06

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Gina

Re: Vent...People making comments....

I wouldn't make a big stink.

I should take my own advice and not let things bother me so much.....

Posted 2/9/07 1:52 PM
 

BabyAvocado
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Re: Vent...People making comments....

Posted by CaptainCharisma424

maybe it's the guy in me, but i just don't see this as a big deal at all

i'd actually be flattered because you're basically promoting to the world that I can afford this kinda stuff, and who cares what everyone else thinks

but that's me



I agree.

But actually it speaks nothing to what she can or can't afford - it was gift. So really, who cares? If anything, that Dept Head just made himself look silly.

Posted 2/9/07 1:59 PM
 
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