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MrsMerlot
Unconditional Love
Member since 4/06 6005 total posts
Name: Chrissy
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Vent...People making comments....
I received a nice gift from a family friend about a year ago (handbag) and have been using it a lot more lately since it does not good sitting in my closet.
Last week a co-worker of mine stated "great bag, I bought my wife the same one, and she loves the fact that she hasn't seen any knock-offs of it since it's such a unique bag." I thanked him for the compliment, we chatted a bit...not a big deal - moving on.
This morning one of the heads' of our department came over to my area and said "Wow, didn't know Christine was so high maintenance." I said "Hey, it was a gift." He said "from the hubby?" I said "No, from a family friend." He then quoted the price of the bag OUT LOUD so my entire department raised an eyebrow!
I know I'm a little on edge this week about my spending/values being announced (DH telling his mother about my spending habits) but really...is this necessary?
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Posted 2/9/07 11:12 AM |
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CowgirlChick97
Nike. Just do it.
Member since 5/05 3303 total posts
Name: Brianna
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Re: Vent...People making comments....
not necessary at all. people are rude......
someone commented on my coach bag once n i said "if i was paid enough here, i would be able to buy it for myself". that shut them up REAL quick.
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Posted 2/9/07 11:14 AM |
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Tracey
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Member since 5/05 6297 total posts
Name: Tracey - brideinapril
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Re: Vent...People making comments....
Wow, that was a stepping over the line.
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Posted 2/9/07 11:14 AM |
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2PreciousBlessings
The Perfect Pair
Member since 5/06 19861 total posts
Name: Best Wife & Mommy
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Re: Vent...People making comments....
I hate when people can't mind their business. Someone did that to me before at my job and I pulled her aside and tell her I did not appreciate her behavior.
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Posted 2/9/07 11:14 AM |
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MrsMerlot
Unconditional Love
Member since 4/06 6005 total posts
Name: Chrissy
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Re: Vent...People making comments....
Posted by BellaPaige
I hate when people can't mind their business. Someone did that to me before at my job and I pulled her aside and tell her I did not appreciate her behavior.
I wanted to do that...but then I didn't want the "issue" going any further ya know???? I commend you for taking her aside, and I hope she didn't do it again.
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Posted 2/9/07 11:16 AM |
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2PreciousBlessings
The Perfect Pair
Member since 5/06 19861 total posts
Name: Best Wife & Mommy
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Re: Vent...People making comments....
Posted by ChrissynRicky
Posted by BellaPaige
I hate when people can't mind their business. Someone did that to me before at my job and I pulled her aside and tell her I did not appreciate her behavior.
I wanted to do that...but then I didn't want the "issue" going any further ya know???? I commend you for taking her aside, and I hope she didn't do it again.
She sure did not.
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Posted 2/9/07 11:16 AM |
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MrsPorkChop
Twinning!!
Member since 5/05 9941 total posts
Name: Missy
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Re: Vent...People making comments....
comments like that are so annyong...
alot of people ask if my bag is "one of those fabulous fakes" - just because its not typical LV style that you see on every street corner
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Posted 2/9/07 11:24 AM |
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Chatham-Chick
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Re: Vent...People making comments....
I wouldn't sweat it.
Sounds to me that the Dept. Head just wanted your co-workers to think he's a big spender since he knows the cost of such items.
I don't think your co-workers would think any different of you, but I would imagine they think that Dept. Head is a jacka*s.
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Posted 2/9/07 11:27 AM |
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CrankyPants
I'm cranky
Member since 7/06 18178 total posts
Name: Mama Cranky
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Re: Vent...People making comments....
This is so rude-I cannot stand when people make remarks like this, especially publicly.
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Posted 2/9/07 11:28 AM |
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Smileyd17
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Member since 5/05 20997 total posts
Name: Mommy
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Re: Vent...People making comments....
Rude and jealous that you CAN spend that amt and be ok with it!
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Posted 2/9/07 11:35 AM |
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JennCo
My greatest joy is my baby boy
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Re: Vent...People making comments....
Some people say such stupid things - but don't let him bother you b/c at the end of the day - he looks like an azz for saying that in front of everyone!
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Posted 2/9/07 11:41 AM |
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angnick
Life is So Wonderful!
Member since 8/06 6663 total posts
Name: Angela
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Re: Vent...People making comments....
i think people are jealous, plain and simple.
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Posted 2/9/07 12:14 PM |
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MsMBV
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Name: Me
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Re: Vent...People making comments....
OMG ta-cky. What an a$$
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Posted 2/9/07 12:16 PM |
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Beth
The Key to your new home....
Member since 2/06 24849 total posts
Name: Beth
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Re: Vent...People making comments....
I once had a customer stop a business meeting to ask about my rings- I was beyond
I just smiles and laughted if off- b/c I didn't know what else to do
but for the rest of the trade show my rings were the topic on conversation - and all the lights didn't help-
it was so annoying-
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Posted 2/9/07 12:18 PM |
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Kissy331
My two miracles!
Member since 5/06 17826 total posts
Name: Kristen
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Re: Vent...People making comments....
People just don't THINK before they speak! It is NO ONE's business how much something is & to make it noted is even more rude!!!
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Posted 2/9/07 12:19 PM |
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Waste06
Waste not, want not
Member since 6/06 7219 total posts
Name: Lois Mom Mommy Mama Ma
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Re: Vent...People making comments....
If they notice your bag and feel compelled to comment on it, why can't they just say, "Wow, that's an awesome bag! Wear it in good health!" ?
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Posted 2/9/07 12:24 PM |
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Hi-Fi55
12 years...wow....
Member since 2/06 2984 total posts
Name: Dianne
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Re: Vent...People making comments....
People are just rude and don't know when to keep their mouths shut. It's a combination pure jealousy and stupidity.
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Posted 2/9/07 12:43 PM |
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MrsERod
Praying for Everyone.
Member since 5/05 26170 total posts
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Re: Vent...People making comments....
someone is always going to have a stupid comment to make
and i agree with Chatham - i think he just made himself look like an a**
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Posted 2/9/07 1:18 PM |
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MrsNaunie
Kai helps my father dump out.
Member since 9/06 1181 total posts
Name: Lauren
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Re: Vent...People making comments....
I think he was just passive aggressively coming out of the closet.
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Posted 2/9/07 1:26 PM |
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MrsMerlot
Unconditional Love
Member since 4/06 6005 total posts
Name: Chrissy
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Re: Vent...People making comments....
Posted by MrsNaunie
I think he was just passive aggressively coming out of the closet.
i puffy heart you nauns
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Posted 2/9/07 1:29 PM |
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MrsNaunie
Kai helps my father dump out.
Member since 9/06 1181 total posts
Name: Lauren
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Re: Vent...People making comments....
Posted by ChrissynRicky
Posted by MrsNaunie
I think he was just passive aggressively coming out of the closet.
i puffy heart you nauns
Right back acha.
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Posted 2/9/07 1:30 PM |
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lvdolphins
My Loves!
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Re: Vent...People making comments....
Posted by Kissy331
People just don't THINK before they speak! It is NO ONE's business how much something is & to make it noted is even more rude!!!
Exactly what I wanted to say!
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Posted 2/9/07 1:48 PM |
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QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!
Member since 5/05 13659 total posts
Name: And If That Isn't A True Blue Miracle
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Re: Vent...People making comments....
maybe it's the guy in me, but i just don't see this as a big deal at all
i'd actually be flattered because you're basically promoting to the world that I can afford this kinda stuff, and who cares what everyone else thinks
but that's me
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Posted 2/9/07 1:50 PM |
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curliegirl
He's here!!!!
Member since 3/06 10128 total posts
Name: Gina
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Re: Vent...People making comments....
I wouldn't make a big stink.
I should take my own advice and not let things bother me so much.....
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Posted 2/9/07 1:52 PM |
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BabyAvocado
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Re: Vent...People making comments....
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
maybe it's the guy in me, but i just don't see this as a big deal at all
i'd actually be flattered because you're basically promoting to the world that I can afford this kinda stuff, and who cares what everyone else thinks
but that's me
I agree.
But actually it speaks nothing to what she can or can't afford - it was gift. So really, who cares? If anything, that Dept Head just made himself look silly.
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Posted 2/9/07 1:59 PM |
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