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Weird ? re gifts at Gavin's 1st Bday

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peabody
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Weird ? re gifts at Gavin's 1st Bday

I have been to 3 or 4 1st Birthday Parties and at every party I have been to the child who is turning 1 doesn't open the gifts when the guests are there.

Should I try to get Gavin to open gifts when the guests are there?

What is the norm?

Posted 4/1/09 11:49 PM
 
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mypumpkin
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Re: Weird ? re gifts at Gavin's 1st Bday

It's way to chaotic to open gifts at that age! Most of the kids won't want to sit and watch. I did it later with ds and grandma-so we could take our time and write everything down!Chat Icon

Posted 4/2/09 12:05 AM
 

BeachMom
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Re: Weird ? re gifts at Gavin's 1st Bday

Most kids don't want to be bothered with opening gifts at that age, but if your son want's to rip into the paper, I say let him. The party's for him afterall. But if he's not really into it or doesn't even notice it, just let them be and open them up later.

Posted 4/2/09 4:38 AM
 

Mkr09
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Re: Weird ? re gifts at Gavin's 1st Bday

We had a small party so there weren't too many gifts to open. Also my ILs desperately wanted to see what she got and I didn't want everyone coming back to my apt so we opened them in the restaurant. Kaydyn didn't really care either way, but everybody else got to see them.

Posted 4/2/09 7:59 AM
 

Diana1215
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Re: Weird ? re gifts at Gavin's 1st Bday

I wouldn't.

It's wayyy too crazy, and they don't really understand opening gifts at that point anyway.

Posted 4/2/09 8:37 AM
 

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Re: Weird ? re gifts at Gavin's 1st Bday

We did, but it was mostly just immediate family - about 15 people, so he didn't have a ton of gifts to open. He was also completely uninterested in eating cake, so I needed photos of something. Chat Icon

Posted 4/2/09 9:12 AM
 

kerrycec03
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Re: Weird ? re gifts at Gavin's 1st Bday

I've been to 3 1st birthdays and the kids did open presents.

Posted 4/2/09 9:19 AM
 

DmarieK
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Re: Weird ? re gifts at Gavin's 1st Bday

We just had Rylans party and opened the presents at home. He has no interest in opening them and I wanted to be able to write everything down.

Posted 4/2/09 9:40 AM
 

KateDevine
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Re: Weird ? re gifts at Gavin's 1st Bday

We always open gifts in my family

Posted 4/2/09 9:42 AM
 

nbc188
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Re: Weird ? re gifts at Gavin's 1st Bday

We opened them at home after the party, there's no way she would have sat there to open presents, it would have been me opening her gifts Chat Icon

I'd do whatever you want to do! Chat Icon

Posted 4/2/09 9:52 AM
 

nrthshgrl
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Re: Weird ? re gifts at Gavin's 1st Bday

Noooooooooo....

If you are inviting any other child there & open gifts, you need to be prepared for them freaking out over sharing his gifts.

If someone wants to give him a special gift, do it before or after everyone is there.

Posted 4/2/09 9:59 AM
 

MarisaK
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Re: Weird ? re gifts at Gavin's 1st Bday

I've never seen anyone open gifts @ a 1st BDay ..........and I've been to a million Chat Icon

Posted 4/2/09 10:02 AM
 

shapla79
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Re: Weird ? re gifts at Gavin's 1st Bday

I haven't seen anyone open gifts at a 1st birthday party. We're going to help DS open his gifts after the guests have gone home.

Posted 4/2/09 10:49 AM
 

KristinasMama
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Re: Weird ? re gifts at Gavin's 1st Bday

Posted by KateDevine

We always open gifts in my family



Ditto

Posted 4/2/09 10:51 AM
 

mtnmama

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Re: Weird ? re gifts at Gavin's 1st Bday

We always open gifts at the party in my family. Do what you feel comfortable with!

Posted 4/2/09 10:54 AM
 

littlejoy06
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Re: Weird ? re gifts at Gavin's 1st Bday

I didn't because it was too crazy that day, but keep the option open and see what the party is like.

Posted 4/2/09 11:07 AM
 
 

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