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what do i write! (xmas card related)

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LIgrlatheart
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what do i write! (xmas card related)

ive never called my inlaws anything .. but now we are married (first married xmas) and im writing out the xmas cards...
what on earth do i write as their names
dh & his brothers call them mommy and daddy &/or their first names... ugg im so torn
help!
im not a fan of my MIL but i hide that from her hahaha... FIL is great ugg.. i have a mom and dad haha

ok so it was an advice and vent post

Posted 11/26/07 3:16 PM
 
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lilacwine
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Re: what do i write! (xmas card related)

Have DH write those cards. Chat Icon

Posted 11/26/07 3:17 PM
 

nrthshgrl
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Re: what do i write! (xmas card related)

Posted by lilacwine

Have DH write those cards. Chat Icon



I would do the same. When you have kids, you move on to Grandma & Grandpa.

Posted 11/26/07 3:19 PM
 

luckysmom
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Re: what do i write! (xmas card related)

Posted by LIgrlatheart

ive never called my inlaws anything .. but now we are married (first married xmas) and im writing out the xmas cards...
what on earth do i write as their names
dh & his brothers call them mommy and daddy &/or their first names... ugg im so torn
help!
im not a fan of my MIL but i hide that from her hahaha... FIL is great ugg.. i have a mom and dad haha

ok so it was an advice and vent post



Well i call my in laws by thier first names. But when i was writting out my wedding thank yous and birthday cards i just write mom and dad. I feel it would be a little wierd to write it out with thier first names and the card coming from thier son.

Posted 11/26/07 3:20 PM
 

headoverheels
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Re: what do i write! (xmas card related)

i write mom and dad - i do that whenever i give a card from me and DH (even before we were married). it's so much nicer, IMO, to treat them like family that way! an i think they will be touched, even if you call them by their first names normally.

Posted 11/26/07 3:26 PM
 

tourist

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Re: what do i write! (xmas card related)

Well, you could be cheesy like my mom and write dear Mom & Dad "X" ( insert last initial)

Posted 11/26/07 3:30 PM
 

ali120206
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Re: what do i write! (xmas card related)

When speaking to them, I avoid calling them anything but, when addressing Christmas/B-day cards from DH and I, I write Mom and Dad (even though I don't call them that).

Posted 11/26/07 3:36 PM
 

Kara
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Re: what do i write! (xmas card related)

Posted by luckysmom

Posted by LIgrlatheart

ive never called my inlaws anything .. but now we are married (first married xmas) and im writing out the xmas cards...
what on earth do i write as their names
dh & his brothers call them mommy and daddy &/or their first names... ugg im so torn
help!
im not a fan of my MIL but i hide that from her hahaha... FIL is great ugg.. i have a mom and dad haha

ok so it was an advice and vent post



Well i call my in laws by thier first names. But when i was writting out my wedding thank yous and birthday cards i just write mom and dad. I feel it would be a little wierd to write it out with thier first names and the card coming from thier son.



Same here.

Luckily, my ILs don't ever write "Dear ___" (or even the date Chat Icon) on cards. They just sign them. It's the oddest thing to me -- but hey, it avoids messes like this. I write NOTHING! Chat Icon

(ETA - Well, I sign them, of course! I just don't write "Dear" anything!)

Message edited 11/26/2007 3:38:50 PM.

Posted 11/26/07 3:38 PM
 

TreAnt427
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Re: what do i write! (xmas card related)

If it's a card from you and DH, I would put Mom and Dad

Posted 11/26/07 3:44 PM
 

charon54
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Re: what do i write! (xmas card related)

Posted by ali120206

When speaking to them, I avoid calling them anything but, when addressing Christmas/B-day cards from DH and I, I write Mom and Dad (even though I don't call them that).



Same here.

Posted 11/26/07 3:51 PM
 

LIgrlatheart
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christi

Re: what do i write! (xmas card related)

Thanks for the input

I went with mom & dad for the card

haha i bet anything his mother makes a remark about it hahaha not a bad one- just a comment

Posted 11/26/07 3:52 PM
 

JerseyMamaOf3
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Re: what do i write! (xmas card related)

I write mom and dad in the cards but I don't call them that.

Posted 11/26/07 9:28 PM
 

july06bride
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Re: what do i write! (xmas card related)

for cards from dh and I, I write mom and dad- since it is from their son too

Posted 11/26/07 9:36 PM
 

MrsPornStar
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Re: what do i write! (xmas card related)

Posted by Seles81

I write mom and dad in the cards but I don't call them that.



Same here.

Posted 11/26/07 9:59 PM
 
 

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