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What $$$ to give for a wedding??

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KangaMom
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What $$$ to give for a wedding??

What amount would you give for a NY family members wedding in for a family of 4 attending?

Posted 5/11/18 11:10 AM
 
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beachbabe
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What $$$ to give for a wedding??

$500

Posted 5/11/18 11:13 AM
 

Domino
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Re: What $$$ to give for a wedding??

What kind of family? Sister? Brother? Aunt? Uncle? Cousin? 3rd Cousin twice removed?

Posted 5/11/18 11:20 AM
 

NervousNell
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Re: What $$$ to give for a wedding??

$500

Posted 5/11/18 11:31 AM
 

KangaMom
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Re: What $$$ to give for a wedding??

Nephew

Posted 5/11/18 11:47 AM
 

KangaMom
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Re: What $$$ to give for a wedding??

Nephew

Posted 5/11/18 11:47 AM
 

JandJ1224

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Re: What $$$ to give for a wedding??

If the family of 4 includes younger children I think you can do less for a gift $350 to $400

Posted 5/11/18 12:04 PM
 

blu6385

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Re: What $$$ to give for a wedding??

I know I am considered cheap but I would probably do around $250 . I don't believe in having to cover my plate

Posted 5/11/18 12:22 PM
 

Lauren82
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Re: What $$$ to give for a wedding??

How old are the kids attending? In my family, my aunts and uncles give $500 to each niece/nephew who gets married. Once us cousins are college aged, we give our own gifts. I think $500 is what I would give.

Posted 5/11/18 12:55 PM
 

NervousNell
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Re: What $$$ to give for a wedding??

Posted by KangaMom

Nephew



For my nephew DEFINITELY $500

Posted 5/11/18 12:55 PM
 

LuckyStar
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What $$$ to give for a wedding??

At least $500. No question.

Posted 5/11/18 12:57 PM
 

HomeIsWithU
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Re: What $$$ to give for a wedding??

In my family, all aunts and uncles have given their nieces and nephews $500.

Posted 5/11/18 1:14 PM
 

mnmsoinlove
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Re: What $$$ to give for a wedding??

For a nephew I’d say $1,000

Posted 5/11/18 1:17 PM
 

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What $$$ to give for a wedding??

I wish all of you people attended my wedding years ago. Chat Icon

Posted 5/11/18 1:29 PM
 

MrsPJB2007
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What $$$ to give for a wedding??

Edit - duplicate post

Message edited 5/11/2018 1:30:01 PM.

Posted 5/11/18 1:29 PM
 

drpepper318
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Re: What $$$ to give for a wedding??

Posted by LuckyStar

At least $500. No question.


I agree. $500-$1,000 would be appropriate.

Posted 5/11/18 2:19 PM
 

LiveForMoments
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Re: What $$$ to give for a wedding??

I wish you all came to wedding!


There's no one on this planet I would give $1000 to for a wedding.

I would personally do $400 max, but apparently I'm cheap.



Posted 5/11/18 2:24 PM
 

Mariabella
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Re: What $$$ to give for a wedding??

Posted by drpepper318

Posted by LuckyStar

At least $500. No question.


I agree. $500-$1,000 would be appropriate.



Agree

Posted 5/11/18 2:33 PM
 

alli3131
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What $$$ to give for a wedding??

You give what you want and can afford. I would never give 1000 even to my sister.

Posted 5/11/18 2:53 PM
 

lightblue
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Re: What $$$ to give for a wedding??

If it were me, dh, and my kids probably $350- 400...

Message edited 5/11/2018 3:03:19 PM.

Posted 5/11/18 3:02 PM
 

Katareen
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Re: What $$$ to give for a wedding??

Posted by LiveForMoments

I wish you all came to wedding!


There's no one on this planet I would give $1000 to for a wedding.

I would personally do $400 max, but apparently I'm cheap.






I’m with you!!!!

Posted 5/11/18 3:10 PM
 

KangaMom
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Re: What $$$ to give for a wedding??

I thought $500 seemed low for a family of 4

Posted 5/11/18 3:15 PM
 

TeacherMommy7
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Re: What $$$ to give for a wedding??

Posted by MrsPJB2007

I wish all of you people attended my wedding years ago. Chat Icon



Me too!

Now I’m worried I don’t gift enough!

Posted 5/11/18 5:03 PM
 

LSP2005
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Re: What $$$ to give for a wedding??

$400 or $500 is completely fine. Maybe if you are earning >$200k per year you could give more.

Posted 5/11/18 5:25 PM
 

MarathonKnitter
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Re: What $$$ to give for a wedding??

considering where you're located and the "local customs," $500-$750 is quite reasonable.

luckily, the world i'm currently living in requires a little less of wedding guests Chat Icon
out here (socal), the going rate is closer to $300-$500 for the same scenario.

Posted 5/11/18 5:44 PM
 
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