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NS1976
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Which would hurt YOU more..would love to hear opinions...
My dh just asked me a very thought provoking question...(there's a first for everything huh???  )
He said I know both is awful BUT..
Which do you think is worse? What McGreevy did to his wife or what Spitzer did to his? I said both were awful and he said, no I know that but which would hurt you more???
I guess it would be more McGreevy for me but I am interested to see how others respond.
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Re: Which would hurt YOU more..would love to hear opinions...
Def more what Spitzer did.
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Re: Which would hurt YOU more..would love to hear opinions...
I feel at least with McGreevy, if he is gay its nothing personal against his wife...
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LuvMy2Girls
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Re: Which would hurt YOU more..would love to hear opinions...
Posted by 5ofClubs
Def more what Spitzer did.
I agree
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| Posted 3/12/08 3:14 PM |
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Re: Which would hurt YOU more..would love to hear opinions...
McGreevy
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pebbles419
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Re: Which would hurt YOU more..would love to hear opinions...
Def Spitzer!
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PotofLuck06
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Re: Which would hurt YOU more..would love to hear opinions...
Posted by 5ofClubs
Def more what Spitzer did.
Definitely. Some people just don't know themselves about their own sexuality, but Spitzer had a choice and he made the wrong one in the eyes of his family.
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oops123
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Re: Which would hurt YOU more..would love to hear opinions...
SO are you asking which would hurt more....DH cheating with a hooker or cheating with a GUY??
Because really what they both did to their wives was the same thing- but i think i rather my DH cheat on me with another guy! lol (ew gross visual!)
ETS- I change my answer ... I think Mcgreevy was worse bc he married his wife KNOWING he was gay in the 1st place....that is so much more deceitful!
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Re: Which would hurt YOU more..would love to hear opinions...
Posted by PotofLuck06
Posted by 5ofClubs
Def more what Spitzer did.
Definitely. Some people just don't know themselves about their own sexuality, but Spitzer had a choice and he made the wrong one in the eyes of his family.
agreed !!!!
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Re: Which would hurt YOU more..would love to hear opinions...
Posted by lipglossjunky73
I feel at least with McGreevy, if he is gay its nothing personal against his wife...
This is how I feel. I'd be more devastated by Spitzer. I always said I'd rather my DH cheat with a man than a woman...at least I'd know he wasn't having sex with anyone prettier! 
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Katie111806
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Re: Which would hurt YOU more..would love to hear opinions...
definitely spitzer, although both would break my heart
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Re: Which would hurt YOU more..would love to hear opinions...
Posted by PotofLuck06
Definitely. Some people just don't know themselves about their own sexuality, but Spitzer had a choice and he made the wrong one in the eyes of his family.
This is how I feel.
McGreevy was born gay. He was raised in a time where it was considered to be deviant sexual behavior to be gay. he did what many other gay men did (including people I know), get married and hope the feelings go away. Since you are born gay IMO, they don't. McGreevy's wife couldn't fulfill his sexual needs because she was missing one important piece of equipment.
Spitzer's wife COULD have fulfilled his sexual needs, but because he didn't ask, need variety or she refused he went elsewhere. That would hurt me more.
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Re: Which would hurt YOU more..would love to hear opinions...
Posted by toni-mike
Posted by PotofLuck06
Posted by 5ofClubs
Def more what Spitzer did.
Definitely. Some people just don't know themselves about their own sexuality, but Spitzer had a choice and he made the wrong one in the eyes of his family.
agreed !!!!
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CaseyGirl
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Re: Which would hurt YOU more..would love to hear opinions...
Honestly...I think what Spitzer did. What McGreevy did was totally wrong BUT I think if my DH was going to cheat on me - if it were with another man at least I would know that I, as a woman, was not what he was looking for. Spitzer was looking for something with another woman....that would hurt me more...I think.
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bicosi
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Re: Which would hurt YOU more..would love to hear opinions...
I truly cannot say unless I was in either situation (which I pray I never have to be). but I think what Spitzer did would hurt more.
McGreevey is gay. To me, that's a big difference. Of course I'd feel deceived and be devastated, but I'd be even more devastated in knowing that my husband and the father of my children went and paid for sex when he could have gotten loving from me, his wife, for free and willingly.
With McGreevey's wife, if I were her, at least I wouldn't be feeling the whole "it was me." That situation would be entirely out of my hands. Whereas I can't help but think that Mrs. Spitzer must be thinking about how inadequate she was or the whole "what did she have that I didn't."
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MrsPJB2007
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Re: Which would hurt YOU more..would love to hear opinions...
McGreavy---i don't know why---maybe becuase i would question everything about myself and my life since i met him....why me? why marry ME of all people? why live the lie? why have children with me? everything we shared, was it a lie?
i would have a hard time -- self esteem wise afterwards i think..more than with spitzer
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Re: Which would hurt YOU more..would love to hear opinions...
Posted by lipglossjunky73
I feel at least with McGreevy, if he is gay its nothing personal against his wife...
I agree
Def spitzer 
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nov04libride
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Re: Which would hurt YOU more..would love to hear opinions...
Posted by Shelly
Posted by PotofLuck06
Definitely. Some people just don't know themselves about their own sexuality, but Spitzer had a choice and he made the wrong one in the eyes of his family.
This is how I feel.
McGreevy was born gay. He was raised in a time where it was considered to be deviant sexual behavior to be gay. he did what many other gay men did (including people I know), get married and hope the feelings go away. Since you are born gay IMO, they don't. McGreevy's wife couldn't fulfill his sexual needs because she was missing one important piece of equipment.
Spitzer's wife COULD have fulfilled his sexual needs, but because he didn't ask, need variety or she refused he went elsewhere. That would hurt me more.
ITA.
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Re: Which would hurt YOU more..would love to hear opinions...
Definitely Spitzer!
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Re: Which would hurt YOU more..would love to hear opinions...
Spitzer.
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Re: Which would hurt YOU more..would love to hear opinions...
Spitzer
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juanvi
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Re: Which would hurt YOU more..would love to hear opinions...
spitzer
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Re: Which would hurt YOU more..would love to hear opinions...
Definitely Spitzer. You can't help who you are--- and if it came out that my DH was gay, then as painful as it would be, I'd have to accept that.
What spitzer did is disgusting and terrible. Not only did he cheat on his wife, betray his family, and lie to the entire public by pretending to be a good role model, but he also PAID someone to cheat with! 
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mommy0604
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Re: Which would hurt YOU more..would love to hear opinions...
Spitzer...
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My2Boys
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Re: Which would hurt YOU more..would love to hear opinions...
McGreevey had a relationship with another person. His entire marriage was based on a lie. That would kill me.
Spitzer paid for sex. Men have been doing it since the stone ages.
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