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lucyloo
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Re: Which would hurt YOU more..would love to hear opinions...
Spitzer
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HeathKernandez
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Re: Which would hurt YOU more..would love to hear opinions...
Clinton.... Monica Lewinsky is just [baRf]
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sunflowerjesss
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Re: Which would hurt YOU more..would love to hear opinions...
Spitzer was more hurtful - he PAID for sex when I'm sure he could have had it for free at home 
McGreevy really just came clean. Nothing personal against his wife.
Definitely easier to stomach to get cheated on for a man versus another woman - and then to PAY for it on top of that, disgusting!
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| Posted 3/12/08 4:19 PM |
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lovemy2boys
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Re: Which would hurt YOU more..would love to hear opinions...
Posted by 5ofClubs
Def more what Spitzer did.
i agree
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| Posted 3/12/08 4:20 PM |
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KGools
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Re: Which would hurt YOU more..would love to hear opinions...
Spitzer.... What McGreevy did has nothing to do with his wife. She didn't do anything to turn him gay. In Spitzer's case, his wife has got to be wondering what she did to drive her husband to do what he did. Make sense?
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MrsB-07
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Re: Which would hurt YOU more..would love to hear opinions...
I think Spitzer b/c what he was getting from those other girls he could've gotten from his wife (whether just sex, companionship, whatever) but McGreevy had a different lifestyle that didn't jive with the marraige. Both are just as unfortunate (for the wives) but to me, Spitzer would hurt more if it happened to me.
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HoneyBadger
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Re: Which would hurt YOU more..would love to hear opinions...
I really don't know... I think they both cheated so I would feel the same way regardless of the sex of the "other person".
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MrsFlatbread
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Re: Which would hurt YOU more..would love to hear opinions...
Posted by lipglossjunky73
I feel at least with McGreevy, if he is gay its nothing personal against his wife...
yes but you would feel that your entire marriage was a lie. I would be devastated by that!
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CookiePuss
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Re: Which would hurt YOU more..would love to hear opinions...
Definitely what Spitzer did. I feel more sorry for McGreevy. Not because cheating was right but because he felt the need to lead a different life then what he truly was.
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Candy Girl
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Re: Which would hurt YOU more..would love to hear opinions...
They both cheated. I would be equally hurt by both situations.
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J9-13
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Re: Which would hurt YOU more..would love to hear opinions...
Posted by 5ofClubs
Def more what Spitzer did.
ITA!
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donegal419
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Re: Which would hurt YOU more..would love to hear opinions...
Posted by lipglossjunky73
I feel at least with McGreevy, if he is gay its nothing personal against his wife...
Agreed....
Def. what Spitzer did. He committed a crime as well as PAID for sex... how degrading and hurtful is that. At least with McGreevy, not that what he did was right either, ---he lied to his wife about the very essence of who he is is. but being gay is who he is and so I guess i would be a little more understanding--- maybe he felt he couldn't come out and that's why he got married, etc. Both are terrible, but definitely what Sptizer did.
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My3Shmoos
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McGREEVY BY FAR!!! First they were both WRONG but McGreevy's marriage was a lie. It was SELFISH!!! And then to put an child into the mix makes it a million times worse. He knew he as gay but decided to marry for the fact that it made his political career look better! DISGUSTING!!!
What ever your choice is that's fine but DO NOT drag people into it who you know would be hurt when the lie came out.
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Moehick
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Re: Which would hurt YOU more..would love to hear opinions...
Spitzer....McGreevy was gay and was having trouble living the lie that he wasn't
Spitzer....just a filty scumbag
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Probably Spitzer.
Interesting question!!!!
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| Posted 3/12/08 7:31 PM |
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DaniJude
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Posted by 5ofClubs
Def more what Spitzer did.
same here.
i feel like i wouldn't wonder "omg how did i marry this monster?!" as much if it was mcgreevey - i would rather think "well, he is gay - not much he can do about that" not that it makes the affair right but i'm the type that always goes to blame myself FIRST and i would feel like i had NO control over someone being gay - KWIM?
but what is wrong with my marriage to make my husband wanna go bang multiple prostitutes?? and what is wrong with HIM?! HOW did i marry this??  oyyyyy
both are awful though.
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nrthshgrl
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Re: Which would hurt YOU more..would love to hear opinions...
Undecided.
Posted by Shelly
McGreevy was born gay. He was raised in a time where it was considered to be deviant sexual behavior to be gay. he did what many other gay men did (including people I know), get married and hope the feelings go away. Since you are born gay IMO, they don't. McGreevy's wife couldn't fulfill his sexual needs because she was missing one important piece of equipment.
While I agree with this, I think I would be hurt thinking my entire 20+ year marriage was a sham & he had no business marrying me when he was gay. Being born gay wouldn't excuse his behavior because he still cheated.
Having been to many political events & met numerous politicians, I do think powerful men also have huge libidos (along with egos). I can't help but think of Charlie Sheen's answer to why he used call girls, "You don't pay for the sex; you pay for them to leave." Still it was something I could have provided at home & that would hurt as well.
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Jax430
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Re: Which would hurt YOU more..would love to hear opinions...
Both would be devastating, but I think I would be more hurt by Spitzer, for many of the reasons stated above.
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avamamma
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I have been thinking the exact same thing.
I think that they are both bad. Those poor women were disrespected, shamed and could have been exposed to sexually transmitted dieases.
I can't decide..
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Ginger123
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Re: Which would hurt YOU more..would love to hear opinions...
each situation is awful but I think I rather my husband be gay... I have some friends that are gay and they are more confused than anything else. I can sympathize with someone betraying me bc society has made them believe that being gay is wrong.
Calling a hooker is simply just selfish... you are doing what you want and do and do not care who you are hurting along the way just as long as you dont get caught
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saraH
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Posted by lipglossjunky73
I feel at least with McGreevy, if he is gay its nothing personal against his wife...
good point. but i think stepping out with other woman and paying for it, is worse, in my eyes.
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SweetestOfPeas
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Posted by 5ofClubs
Def more what Spitzer did.
definitely!
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jellybean78
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Re: Which would hurt YOU more..would love to hear opinions...
McGreevy just because I would feel like the whole entire marriage was based on a lie. Spitzer would hurt too but many people have dealt with infidelity and have forgiven and moved on...yes it hurts but there is still hope to to make something work if you really want it to. One your DH says he's gay there is nothing you can do to try to work on the marriage...KWIM?
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igottabeme
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Posted by lipglossjunky73
I feel at least with McGreevy, if he is gay its nothing personal against his wife...
i agree. if it turned out that my DH was playing for his team ( ) then i cant hold that against him. i'd be farrrrrrrrrrrr more hurt if he just decided to be freaky with a ho!
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watersdeb04
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Re: Which would hurt YOU more..would love to hear opinions...
Spitzer especially since he had such a holier than thou attitude. AZZ!!!!
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