Who hates their husband, S/O. FH etc...JOB

Job... My husband is a buisness owner he has off only one day a week..(there alot going on it is a very busy place!) and it can be very boring a depressing..

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Re: Who hates their husbans, S/O. FH etc...

hates?

Re: Who hates their husbans, S/O. FH etc...

Umm I am hoping no one

Re: Who hates their husbans, S/O. FH etc...

Why would I marry someone I hate? Life is too short.

Re: Who hates their husband, S/O. FH etc...JOB

I hate it only because DH hates it and it makes him miserable. I hate seeing him like that.

Re: Who hates their husband, S/O. FH etc...JOB

DH is an attorney.....he's out before me in the morning and home right before or after i go to sleep.

The money is great - but when it gets down to it - he's always at work !

Re: Who hates their husband, S/O. FH etc...JOB

Re: Who hates their husband, S/O. FH etc...JOB

DH has a great job, it is a wonerful career move and will pay off in the future, BUT it the moving around (although good cause we get to see a lot of places) is a lot of work...I don't hate it, but sometimes it really gets me down

Re: Who hates their husband, S/O. FH etc...JOB

i feel like i never see him he leaves at 11:30 okay i see him all morning.... he sometimes comes home in the afternoon... but if not he's home at 1am i dont want to have a conversation then

Re: Who hates their husband, S/O. FH etc...JOB

I hate that my DH works on Saturdays. To me, Saturdays are a family day to run errands, do chores, go to family parties, etc. I always have to do it alone...

Re: Who hates their husband, S/O. FH etc...JOB

Sometimes I do (hate DH's job, not him ). He's still not home And he is only off one day a week. It's a family business, so he feels the need to be there all the time.

Re: Who hates their husband, S/O. FH etc...JOB

I just hate DH's hours. He works so much and long hours. But he loves what he does, so I support him 100%

Re: Who hates their husband, S/O. FH etc...JOB

My dh works 7-4 so I have no problem with his hours. He only works 5 days a week too. We are not rolling in the dough though and while I wish he had more money, I would rather have him around more too. I couldn't deal with him working tons of hours and never seeing him. I don't see the point.

Re: Who hates their husband, S/O. FH etc...JOB

I wish he was home more, but I don't hate it. My husband owns a successful business, and the hours he puts in, means a comfortable life for us. It is a compromise, but a good one. He works 6 days as well, but the time we are together, is very special and spent well.

Re: Who hates their husband, S/O. FH etc...JOB

His job bothers me lots of times for many reasons: he travels a great deal, so many weeks he'll be away for 3-5 days, it is stressful for him, we moved away from friends & family for this job, and sometimes he works even on the weekends. But I like the fact that it has allowed me to be a SAHM (to-be) and there are many times that the job makes him very happy. He is so grateful to have the opportunity at a job he wanted for a long time.

Re: Who hates their husband, S/O. FH etc...JOB

DH is out at sea for 3 weeks at a time, $ is good but planning our life in 3 week increments absolutely blows, especially with a little one on the way.

Re: Who hates their husband, S/O. FH etc...JOB

raises hand...DH is currently in a meat grinder, hopefully next year he will find something new

Re: Who hates their husband, S/O. FH etc...JOB

I do!! My DH is a cop and it is a horrible job. I never get to see him, it dangerous, he is treated like cr@p.
HATE IT!

Re: Who hates their husband, S/O. FH etc...JOB

FH is a teacher - im so jealous of his summers off. and as soon as he gets a job on LI as opposed to the city - his pay will be much better. i think he is going to teach college one day.

Re: Who hates their husband, S/O. FH etc...JOB

I hate it! I am constantly worried about his safety and his schedule and my schedule lets me see him a whopping 2 hours or so a day.

Re: Who hates their husband, S/O. FH etc...JOB

I don't hate that DH is going to be an attorney - nor do I hate that he plans to go into private practice. But I'm really dreading his hours. Being a success is important to him and I'll support him but still... I'm dreading the hours.

Re: Who hates their husband, S/O. FH etc...JOB

Posted by MrsDiamondgrlie

I hate it! I am constantly worried about his safety and his schedule and my schedule lets me see him a whopping 2 hours or so a day.

Re: Who hates their husband, S/O. FH etc...JOB

hes an underpaid attorney who is woth soo much more than they know.

so yes i hate where he works , not his job itself.

Re: Who hates their husband, S/O. FH etc...JOB

I don't love the hours

but it gives him alot of flexiblilty- he can run out and do things since he is comission only

he stays there late- but he goes in last also- which works for him- he really isn't good at getting up early

( and that is what saved him from 9/11- if he was a morning person he would have taken a job on very high floor as a bond broker - but it was his inability to get up at 6am that made him choose a job on LI as a mortgage broker)

I wish he got a salary as well- but you can't have it all

Re: Who hates their husband, S/O. FH etc...JOB

Sometimes I do when he has to work overtime and comes home at 8 or 9 and has to work weekends. But I know he loves his job and it makes him really happy, so I can't hate it that much.