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Woman arrested for DWI charges cleared and now sueing Nassau County

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mommy2Alex
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Re: Woman arrested for DWI charges cleared and now sueing Nassau County

Posted by DancinBarefoot

I am sooo sick of people suing for nonsense. Yes, her picture was posted in error. So what?? Ever single day people are arrested. That is a fact. Posting a photo to show who has been arrested is just that . . . a photo saying this person was arrested.

Look at it this way . . .

Those Duke athletes accused of awful crimes had their photos splashed across the newspapers all over the country. Were they guilty? They were accused of a crime and arrested for it. I don't see them suing because their photos were printed.




Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Thank you. Me too, one of my biggest peeves in this country is the amount of suing that goes on.

Posted 9/13/08 12:27 PM
 
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Re: Woman arrested for DWI charges cleared and now sueing Nassau County

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I am sooo sick of people suing for nonsense. Yes, her picture was posted in error. So what?? Ever single day people are arrested. That is a fact. Posting a photo to show who has been arrested is just that . . . a photo saying this person was arrested.

Look at it this way . . .

Those Duke athletes accused of awful crimes had their photos splashed across the newspapers all over the country. Were they guilty? They were accused of a crime and arrested for it. I don't see them suing because their photos were printed.





So what would you do if it were you? Just say, "OH< ok, no big deal that everyone thinks I am a drunk driver. No biggie..."

Really, what would you do? How would you react if it were you and your good name was slandered?

Message edited 9/13/2008 12:57:20 PM.

Posted 9/13/08 12:56 PM
 

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Re: Woman arrested for DWI charges cleared and now sueing Nassau County

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Chat Icon Chat Icon IMO, Another example of a friviolous lawsuit She probably is suing for millions of $$$ too. How much pain and suffering did she actually go through? I have little sympathy for this woman and her supposed plight.



(serious, not snarky ?) You really don't think the entire county thinking you drove drunk can cause pain and suffering, esp when you have medical issues that complicate your life enough as it is? And how is she supposed to now get the word out to people that it wasn't accurate, to clear her name? I personally think she has every right to sue and she should and she should win. I don't find it a frivolous lawsuit at all. It can be hard to recover and get your good name back after something like that.





Seriously, I don't believe she deserve 1 million dollars for this. A small settlemment (a few thousand $$), maybe but IMO it is a frivolous suit.




Sort of off topic, but with civil suits you HAVE to say you are suing for $10 million dollars or some absurd amount like that because if you said "I am suing for $5,000" that limits the value of it. Even the smallest car accident case that settles for $1,500 says that in the summons and complaint if it is started.

You are not ACTUALLY suing for $10 million dollars and I explain that to most people. People aren't going to ever GET $10 million for this.

Sorry. Carry on.

Posted 9/13/08 1:00 PM
 

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Re: Woman arrested for DWI charges cleared and now sueing Nassau County

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Posted by DancinBarefoot

I am sooo sick of people suing for nonsense. Yes, her picture was posted in error. So what?? Ever single day people are arrested. That is a fact. Posting a photo to show who has been arrested is just that . . . a photo saying this person was arrested.

Look at it this way . . .

Those Duke athletes accused of awful crimes had their photos splashed across the newspapers all over the country. Were they guilty? They were accused of a crime and arrested for it. I don't see them suing because their photos were printed.





So what would you do if it were you? Just say, "OH< ok, no big deal that everyone thinks I am a drunk driver. No biggie..."

Really, what would you do? How would you react if it were you and your good name was slandered?




If it were me, no I wouldn't sue. I wouldn't sue someone unless there was serious harm to my character and or physical person. If my picture was removed and it was noted in the newspaper that I wasn't drunk. I would carry on with my life.

Posted 9/13/08 2:18 PM
 

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Re: Woman arrested for DWI charges cleared and now sueing Nassau County

Silly... The wall of shame is a great thing. They post pics all over the country on sherrifs websites of the mug shots of people who were arrested they aren't found guilty yet but were arrested.

If she was having an attack where was she driving too?

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Posted 9/13/08 2:28 PM
 

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Re: Woman arrested for DWI charges cleared and now sueing Nassau County

I don't agree with frivolous lawsuits at all. I don't believe this is a frivolous lawsuit. Her reputation, career, etc. could be damaged as a result of being publicly labeled a "drunk driver". IMO, suing McDonald's b/c you coffee is too hot is a frivolous lawsuit. Not this case.

Posted 9/13/08 2:29 PM
 

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Re: Woman arrested for DWI charges cleared and now sueing Nassau County

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Posted by mommy2Alex

Chat Icon Chat Icon IMO, Another example of a friviolous lawsuit She probably is suing for millions of $$$ too. How much pain and suffering did she actually go through? I have little sympathy for this woman and her supposed plight.



(serious, not snarky ?) You really don't think the entire county thinking you drove drunk can cause pain and suffering, esp when you have medical issues that complicate your life enough as it is? And how is she supposed to now get the word out to people that it wasn't accurate, to clear her name? I personally think she has every right to sue and she should and she should win. I don't find it a frivolous lawsuit at all. It can be hard to recover and get your good name back after something like that.



I agree..I wouod also sue if it were me, but then again my job would be in jepordy.....As far as "getting her medical condition under control" That p*sses me off......I know MANY MANY MANY people who do very well at controlling it and then they get a common cold and their sugar drops to 30 with out them having time to fix it. I have no tolorence for people who A S S U M E people are guilty of something even before they get a chance to make a decision. I work in EMS and I have seen this so many times and it is horrible.



I think you bring up a good point with this. I don't think everyone can control their medical conditions at every minute, even if they try.



ITA 100%. I have a fmaily memeber who is diabetic and has it completely under control.It can be the littlest thing that drops his blood sugar. Medication he is on for an eye infection or a cold and he goes into a diabetic shock. Things just happen! I think this woman has every right to sue and i hope she wins.

Posted 9/13/08 2:48 PM
 

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Re: Woman arrested for DWI charges cleared and now sueing Nassau County

Posted by luckysmom

ITA 100%. I have a fmaily memeber who is diabetic and has it completely under control.It can be the littlest thing that drops his blood sugar. Medication he is on for an eye infection or a cold and he goes into a diabetic shock. Things just happen! I think this woman has every right to sue and i hope she wins.



i have MANY family members with diabetes---it runs in our family. Chat Icon

those family members know that when they are on meds of any kind, they don't drive. ever. my mom is always driving my aunt places because she won't chance it when she's not feeling well or is under a doctor's care. it's part of her life now and it's her responsibility to take care of herself and others.

that woman was driving erratically and on the sidewalk. she could have killed someone.

i don't know her situation obviously, but i think people suing has gotten out of control. you don't deserve money because you were wronged.

like someone said, those poor duke kids were thrown through the mud for over a year and they're not asking for a dime.

i feel badly for her but embarrassment isn't cause for suing. we are in such a sue-happy place and it's out of control.

Posted 9/13/08 3:14 PM
 

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Re: Woman arrested for DWI charges cleared and now sueing Nassau County

Posted by DancinBarefoot
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Those Duke athletes accused of awful crimes had their photos splashed across the newspapers all over the country. Were they guilty? They were accused of a crime and arrested for it. I don't see them suing because their photos were printed.




of course they are suing- HUGE lawsuit
and I hope they get Millions for what happened to them!

Duke Lawsuit

Posted 9/13/08 8:32 PM
 

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Re: Woman arrested for DWI charges cleared and now sueing Nassau County

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Posted by DancinBarefoot
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Those Duke athletes accused of awful crimes had their photos splashed across the newspapers all over the country. Were they guilty? They were accused of a crime and arrested for it. I don't see them suing because their photos were printed.




of course they are suing- HUGE lawsuit
and I hope they get Millions for what happened to them!

Duke Lawsuit



So do I. I never believed the story for one second.

Posted 9/14/08 5:55 AM
 

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Re: Woman arrested for DWI charges cleared and now sueing Nassau County

Posted by Stacey1403

I don't think she should sue, I am also a diabetic.


ETA: If you are going to get behind the wheel of a car, you better make sure your diabetes is under control. I can tell before I have an "episode" that it is going to happen. It is enough time to pull over.



Not everyone is aware when an an episode is going to come on. I have several diabetics in my family - type I & II - and some are in better control and have better awareness than others.

Posted 9/14/08 6:27 AM
 

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Re: Woman arrested for DWI charges cleared and now sueing Nassau County

Maybe the penalty for drunk driving should be stiffer people wiggly out of convictions and get a slap on the wrist if crimes had some serious jail time maybe people would think twice.

Diabetics and driving can be very dangerous. How about people with seizures they are not allowed to drive. Chronic conditions that alter your mental status and cars don't mix, I have family on the road

and don't they make bracelets for people with conditions such as diabetes so when they are having and episode people will know what to do for them?

Posted 9/14/08 7:26 AM
 

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Re: Woman arrested for DWI charges cleared and now sueing Nassau County

Posted by passerby

Maybe the penalty for drunk driving should be stiffer people wiggly out of convictions and get a slap on the wrist if crimes had some serious jail time maybe people would think twice.

Diabetics and driving can be very dangerous. How about people with seizures they are not allowed to drive. Chronic conditions that alter your mental status and cars don't mix, I have family on the road

and don't they make bracelets for people with conditions such as diabetes so when they are having and episode people will know what to do for them?



Diabetics as well as seizures can be controlled. People with seizure disorders CAN drive but not if they have had a seizure with in the past 6months. To say that diabetics should not drive is like saying if you are tired you should not drive. These are medical conditions that, for the most part, can be controlled, but like any medical issue things happen. Yes they make bracelets and yes some people wear them, but they are not mandatory nor should they be. I think this is a case of somebody who saw a "drunk driver" and never thought to CONSIDER something else. There have been many accidents I have been to where people had the accident because they had a heart attack, or a seizure, or a diabetic issue. If I would have just looked at it as an accident pt and not considered WHY they had the accident they would not have recieved the care they needed. Also cops are explained these medical conditions so they CAN make a diffirential diagnosis btwn being drunk and being sick

Posted 9/14/08 7:57 AM
 

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Re: Woman arrested for DWI charges cleared and now sueing Nassau County

I feel for the woman, and I hope she wins the lawsuit and newday starts posting the pics AFTER conviction.

A women at my job was on the wall of shame, the whole company (1000+) people knew about it within days because of newsday. Gossip spreads fast. Her total professional reputation was ruined. My job offered her a package to leave (they dont like bad press) and she accepted becuase of humilation. I dont know if she was guilty or not, but the damage was done. If her situation was the same as this lady that is a devestating effect on your life.

The wall of shame needs to be changed to post pictures after conviction.

Posted 9/14/08 9:26 AM
 

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Re: Woman arrested for DWI charges cleared and now sueing Nassau County

Posted by Beth1210

Posted by DancinBarefoot
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Those Duke athletes accused of awful crimes had their photos splashed across the newspapers all over the country. Were they guilty? They were accused of a crime and arrested for it. I don't see them suing because their photos were printed.




of course they are suing- HUGE lawsuit
and I hope they get Millions for what happened to them!

Duke Lawsuit



They are NOT suing because their photos were printed.

Posted 9/14/08 12:35 PM
 

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Re: Woman arrested for DWI charges cleared and now sueing Nassau County

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Posted by DancinBarefoot

I am sooo sick of people suing for nonsense. Yes, her picture was posted in error. So what?? Ever single day people are arrested. That is a fact. Posting a photo to show who has been arrested is just that . . . a photo saying this person was arrested.

Look at it this way . . .

Those Duke athletes accused of awful crimes had their photos splashed across the newspapers all over the country. Were they guilty? They were accused of a crime and arrested for it. I don't see them suing because their photos were printed.





So what would you do if it were you? Just say, "OH< ok, no big deal that everyone thinks I am a drunk driver. No biggie..."

Really, what would you do? How would you react if it were you and your good name was slandered?




See, part of the problem is that most people don't know the definition of legal slander. For it to be slander (or libel) not only does the statement made have to be false (In this case it wasn't - she was in fact arrested for being under the influence of drugs), but the person making the statement had to know it was false at the time it was made. Now, it she wants to sue for false arrest or something, that is a different story (and I understand that is part of her claim), but IMHO she isn't going to win their either because her driving behavior to any reasonable person (cop or not), of driving up on the sidewalk, crossing the line and swerving into oncoming traffic would lead the reasonable person to believe she was driving drunk or under the influence of drugs. AND that is what you need to make an arrest- reasonable belief.

FRIVOLOUS lawsuit!!!

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Posted 9/14/08 12:40 PM
 

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Re: Woman arrested for DWI charges cleared and now sueing Nassau County

Posted by DancinBarefoot

I am sooo sick of people suing for nonsense. Yes, her picture was posted in error. So what?? Ever single day people are arrested. That is a fact. Posting a photo to show who has been arrested is just that . . . a photo saying this person was arrested.





I disagree completely and I think she has EVERY right to sue, I know I would. They basically said, this woman was arrested for DWI, when she was not, in fact, drunk

I do not think this is a case of a friviolus lawsuit...I hope she wins

Posted 9/14/08 12:44 PM
 

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Re: Woman arrested for DWI charges cleared and now sueing Nassau County

does newsday use the term "alleged" drunk driver or "allegedly" driving while intoxicated???

if they do, then they've CTA (covered their azzes)

i think the fine print of "innocent until proven guilty" CTA's as well

Posted 9/14/08 12:47 PM
 

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Re: Woman arrested for DWI charges cleared and now sueing Nassau County

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Posted by Beth1210

Posted by DancinBarefoot
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Those Duke athletes accused of awful crimes had their photos splashed across the newspapers all over the country. Were they guilty? They were accused of a crime and arrested for it. I don't see them suing because their photos were printed.




of course they are suing- HUGE lawsuit
and I hope they get Millions for what happened to them!

Duke Lawsuit



They are NOT suing because their photos were printed.



it's really not a fair comparison- but I am not the one that made it (you did)- I just wanted to point out that they are in fact suing

their situation was about 1 million times worse- they have many reasons to sue for

but the main reason for both cases is that they are wrongly accused of something

their photos were all over the WORLD- they lost everything

Message edited 9/14/2008 12:56:06 PM.

Posted 9/14/08 12:51 PM
 

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Re: Woman arrested for DWI charges cleared and now sueing Nassau County

Posted by MrsERod

does newsday use the term "alleged" drunk driver or "allegedly" driving while intoxicated???

if they do, then they've CTA (covered their azzes)

i think the fine print of "innocent until proven guilty" CTA's as well





They do. It's at the top of the page and the part that say's "all are persumed innocent unless proven gulty" Is highlighted in red.



The office of the Nassau County Executive releases the photos of individuals charged with DWI. Defendants under the age of 19 are excluded. The gallery represents the charge at the time the photo was taken. Newsday.com will not update the status of these cases. All are presumed innocent unless proven guilty. All 'Wall of Shame' photos





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