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Goobster
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Re: Would you...
Just thinking….so what DID you do?
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MsSissy
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Re: Would you...
Posted by jend572
Ha! He made it very clear he wasn't flirting! At first I kinda just looked at him speechless. He was a cute guy probably 25 tops, and the momma in me considered helping him for a second. And then I thought of the possible things that could go wrong and my instincts told me to just be on my way and get back to my own family. I have a 4 year old who could use help with mittens but a grown ass man should be able to handle this.
When I told him No, he was flabbergasted at MY rudeness!! He was like, "REALLY?! It's not like I'm gonna rape you! I mean you're cute and all but honestly, you're not my type." ,!!!! Can u even believe ?
Now I'm old enough to be his mom. Maybe I just look like a nice lady who'd be helpful. But 1- would he have asked me if I were a man? No! And 2- what grown man even uses the word rape to a woman in a parking lot in the dark?? And 3- are we raising a generation of kids that can't problem solve on their own? SMH
  is he for real? What an ass!
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| Posted 2/22/15 12:03 AM |
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klingklang77
kraftwerk!
Member since 7/06 11487 total posts
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Re: Would you...
Posted by jend572
And 3- are we raising a generation of kids that can't problem solve on their own? SMH
Millennials...
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| Posted 2/22/15 5:08 AM |
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DaniJude
You're My Home <3
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Re: Would you...
Posted by ANewDayHasCome
Hell no. Pretend I didn't hear him and pick up the pace to my car.
ITA!
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| Posted 2/22/15 6:46 AM |
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LizD
LIF Adolescent
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Re: Would you...
2 - remember Ted Bundy..enough said
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| Posted 2/22/15 9:01 AM |
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marianne13
LIF Adolescent
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Re: Would you...
Posted by MsSissy
Posted by jend572
Ha! He made it very clear he wasn't flirting! At first I kinda just looked at him speechless. He was a cute guy probably 25 tops, and the momma in me considered helping him for a second. And then I thought of the possible things that could go wrong and my instincts told me to just be on my way and get back to my own family. I have a 4 year old who could use help with mittens but a grown ass man should be able to handle this.
When I told him No, he was flabbergasted at MY rudeness!! He was like, "REALLY?! It's not like I'm gonna rape you! I mean you're cute and all but honestly, you're not my type." ,!!!! Can u even believe ?
Now I'm old enough to be his mom. Maybe I just look like a nice lady who'd be helpful. But 1- would he have asked me if I were a man? No! And 2- what grown man even uses the word rape to a woman in a parking lot in the dark?? And 3- are we raising a generation of kids that can't problem solve on their own? SMH
is he for real? What an ass!
His response makes him look even dumber. he said I'm not going to rape you..You're cute but not my type. Does this mean if you were his type, he would rape you?
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NervousNell
Just another chapter in life..
Member since 11/09 54921 total posts
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..being a mommy and being a wife!
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Re: Would you...
Posted by marianne13
Posted by MsSissy
Posted by jend572
Ha! He made it very clear he wasn't flirting! At first I kinda just looked at him speechless. He was a cute guy probably 25 tops, and the momma in me considered helping him for a second. And then I thought of the possible things that could go wrong and my instincts told me to just be on my way and get back to my own family. I have a 4 year old who could use help with mittens but a grown ass man should be able to handle this.
When I told him No, he was flabbergasted at MY rudeness!! He was like, "REALLY?! It's not like I'm gonna rape you! I mean you're cute and all but honestly, you're not my type." ,!!!! Can u even believe ?
Now I'm old enough to be his mom. Maybe I just look like a nice lady who'd be helpful. But 1- would he have asked me if I were a man? No! And 2- what grown man even uses the word rape to a woman in a parking lot in the dark?? And 3- are we raising a generation of kids that can't problem solve on their own? SMH
is he for real? What an ass!
His response makes him look even dumber. he said I'm not going to rape you..You're cute but not my type. Does this mean if you were his type, he would rape you?
Yeah, I only rape women who are my type!
CREEPER!!!!!!!!!!!
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DiamondGirl
You are my I love you
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Re: Would you...
Okay so if a young, normal guy asked me for help I would probably do it as I made of him being useless bc thats just my personality  I have to say I am can be naive when it comes to these things and your average 25 yr old guy wouldnt intimidate me so I could see helping but prob not the best idea
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2BadSoSad
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Re: Would you...
Also was he driving? How did he plan to open his car door then?
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| Posted 2/22/15 10:54 PM |
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ArianaBlue
LIF Infant
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Re: Would you...
Sounds like a freak to say something like that!! SMH
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Xelindrya
Mommy's little YouTube Star!
Member since 8/05 14470 total posts
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Would you...
Wow these responses.
I'd offer to hold a cup while he did it himself.
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Otherme
Square head cutie pants
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#3 - i'd tell him to put the cups down on the car while he fixed his mittens himself.
And then if he responded the way you said he did, i'd probably tell him he needs to think about how he talks to women before he meets the wrong one..
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blu6385
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Re: Would you...
either 2 or 3 I am thinking I would lean more towards 3 but I couldn't say till I was in the situation
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Seawolf
LIF Adult
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Re: Would you...
Wow. HIS response makes me wonder what his intentions really were.
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CookiePuss
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Re: Would you...
Posted by Honey2223
2! If you've ever seen "Silence of the Lambs" that's
how buffalo bill dragged that girl into his van, he asked her for help and pretended like he was hurt with a cast on. I know it's a movie but still.... hell no!
Ted Bundy did the same thing and that wasn't a movie so it can and does happen!
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eroxgirl
My Loves
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Re: Would you...
Posted by CookiePuss
Posted by Honey2223
2! If you've ever seen "Silence of the Lambs" that's
how buffalo bill dragged that girl into his van, he asked her for help and pretended like he was hurt with a cast on. I know it's a movie but still.... hell no!
Ted Bundy did the same thing and that wasn't a movie so it can and does happen!
Bad guys watch movies. They get ideas. It definitely happens!
When I was pregnant, I was walking to my car and some strange guy kept asking me "can I ask you a question?" and I always answer that with "you already did" but this guy was insistent on talking to me so he repeated his question and I just said "NO!" and got into my car quickly... it was the middle of the afternoon but still.. I was super pregnant and he was a creep. I'd rather hurt your feelings than end up on the evening news.
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Pumpkin1
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Would you...
I posed this question to my kids this weekend, and some other variations, to open up additional "stranger danger" discussions.
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tourist
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Re: Would you...
I would help if we were in the coffee shop or whatever & there were people around, but not in a parking lot.
I was in one last week, WITH my husband, and still ignore the people behind me saying excuse me. . . until I realized they were just trying to return the scarf I dropped. 
This guy's response was inappropriate, but he was probably even younger than you though.
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tourist
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Message edited 2/23/2015 3:14:25 PM.
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JAPH23
LIF Adolescent
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Re: Would you...
2... I would have completely ignored and ran to my car.
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GoodThoughts
Dreams do come true
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Re: Would you...
Posted by pharmcat2000
I don't know what's wrong with me, but I tend to want to help people. Especially if his hands were holding coffee cups, what was he going to do? I would've helped him. Probably unless I felt unsafe in the first place. But in a public area, right in front of stores, I would've helped.
Ted Bundy wore a fake cast to get "help" from women who then became his victims.
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Hofstra26
Love to Bake!
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Re: Would you...
NO question!!................I'd haul a$$ to my car. That's a verrrrrry weird request and sounds suspicious to me. I'd rather be overly cautious and stay safe because you just never know these days with people.
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J9-13
We're gonna be big sisters!
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Re: Would you...
Posted by MC09
Please tell me there was at least a dunkin donuts in the strip mall lol...
 My first thoughts!
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J9-13
We're gonna be big sisters!
Member since 6/06 14887 total posts
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J9
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Re: Would you...
WOW! His response would have compelled me to smack the two cups out of his hands and possibly kick him in the balls. 
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JennCo
My greatest joy is my baby boy
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Re: Would you...
hell no! Avoid eye contact and book it to your car!
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