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Christine
2nd verse same as the 1st
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Re: Would you ever....
NEVER IN A MILLION YEARS!! It's long term committment that we both have to want.
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mrsv
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Re: Would you ever....
Posted by nrthshgrl
Posted by Stacey1403
Never in a million. I wouldn't want him to do that to me so I wouldn't do it to him.
Same here. Getting a pet is a huge responsibility to both of us. I would need to let him know.
Exactly!!!
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| Posted 4/5/07 9:16 AM |
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MissJones
I need a nap!
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Re: Would you ever....
Yes, on these conditions...
we were in a house
we already had a dog together
it was a stray.
I wouldn't go out and SEEK a dog without him.
Another frog? Yes. A ferret? Yes.
A big pet? No, he'd have to be there.
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| Posted 4/5/07 9:19 AM |
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pinky
Twin Moms Do Everything Twice
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Re: Would you ever....
no way.
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| Posted 4/5/07 9:20 AM |
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Re: Would you ever....
 never!
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Beth
The Key to your new home....
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Beth
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Re: Would you ever....
considering I am the one that takes care of everything for the 1 pet we have.....
but seriously- he grew up with so many pets- he wouldn't care if I got another
but I would care- b/c like I said it would be more work for me- and I am already pushed to my limits
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MsMBV
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Re: Would you ever....
 I have done it. So has he though, now that I think about it.
I will tell you though I will NEVER come home with a python unannounced ever again
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| Posted 4/5/07 9:24 AM |
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Diane
Hope is Contagious....catch it
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Re: Would you ever....
no
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mskimmy98
My twins are one!!!
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Kimberly
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Re: Would you ever....
NEVER... I wouldn't dream of it... My mother on the other hand had done this more than once to my father and lets just say he didn't talk to her for months.
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juju
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Re: Would you ever....
I wouldn't but not too sure if DH would consult with me.
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| Posted 4/5/07 9:27 AM |
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Shanti
True love
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Re: Would you ever....
No
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| Posted 4/5/07 9:40 AM |
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LaurenExp
Waiting patiently for baby sis
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L-Diddy EDD 11/11/11 :)
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Re: Would you ever....
No, I would never do that. I know he wouldn't even question anything I asked with something like that, so I'd be sure to give the respect of asking him.
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| Posted 4/5/07 9:43 AM |
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nrthshgrl
It goes fast. Pay attention.
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Re: Would you ever....
Posted by MsMBV
I will tell you though I will NEVER come home with a python unannounced ever again
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Goldi0218
My miracles!
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Re: Would you ever....
No way. DH and I are on completely opposite sides of the fence regarding pets. I want a dog. He doesn't - EVER. Fortunately, it is a non-option for us because our landlord doesnt allow them. No use in talking about it now. When we own a home and have our own "say-so" I STILL wouldn't do it without consulting him. It is a daily as well as long term commitment of time and money that even though we can certainly afford, is not worth the backlash that could possibly put a strain on my marriage.
However, I would and could donate money to rescue missions/operations so that they could afford to care for animals in need. That is all we are prepared to do right now.
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chikita315
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Re: Would you ever....
No way. IMO it's disrepectful to your spouse.
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| Posted 4/5/07 9:52 AM |
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dpli
Daylight savings :)
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Re: Would you ever....
Posted by Stacey1403
Never in a million. I wouldn't want him to do that to me so I wouldn't do it to him.
Ditto, plus DH has some allergies to pets, so I know this would really upset him and it would be disrespectful to him.
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| Posted 4/5/07 10:00 AM |
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JenniferEver
The Disney Lady
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Re: Would you ever....
No, that's just disrespectful.
Maybe a goldfish or something, but nothing bigger
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| Posted 4/5/07 10:10 AM |
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Moehick
Ready for the sun!
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Re: Would you ever....
Never, I would be pi$$ed if he did that to me. A pet needs to be discussed IMO
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BabyAvocado
Happy New Year
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Re: Would you ever....
Maybe...
There would have to be very specific circumstances though.
If we had no other pets (if for example we lost our dog) and I knew that we both still really wanted one and the right pet just happened to come into the picture. That would be the only way. And if he were to do that to me, under those circumstances, I would probably be okay with it too.
But generally speaking - NO.
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~Colleen~
my loves...
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Re: Would you ever....
I adopted Lucy without telling my boyfrienda t the time - we were living together and had talked about another cat, but nothing was agreed upon.
No, I wouldn't do that to DH. With his asthma and allergies, I wouldn't dream of doing that to him without us both being willing parties.
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SoinLove
Making big changes
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Re: Would you ever....
No, never. A pet is a big responsibility. It would have to be something we both agree upon.
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Wendy
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Re: Would you ever....
I said YES only because DH is dying for a puppy and has been harping on me to get one for YEARS! And I've been the one saying no ... so I could see getting one to surprise him.
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domsmom52704
Family is everything!!!
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Re: Would you ever....
I am not sure if I would...Probably not but FH loves dogs so maybe as a surprise for his birthday.
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greenfreak
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Re: Would you ever....
It's nice to see such responsible people. 
I voted no, because we take pet ownership seriously and always make big decisions together.
That's assuming it's a biggie like a dog. I used to have an aquarium and would buy fish without his knowledge. But they were inexpensive and I was just adding to an existing tank.
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Never in a million.
and he would LOVE a dog. It's just something that needs to be discussed.
(ok greenfreak I just saw your post about the fish. I did bring home a goldfish last year. If that counts I may have to change my answer  )
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