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Ambersmom
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Name: Sharon
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Re: Would you think this was cute or would you feel insulted?
Posted by nrthshgrl
I think the SIL was a jerk for setting that one up. I would never say that to my kid. In fact you say "You remember Aunt so&so"
I agree. Very wrong to make both you and the kid feel stupid in front of everyone.
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Posted 7/7/06 11:02 AM |
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tray831
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Name: His Baby
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Re: Would you think this was cute or would you feel insulted?
Posted by nrthshgrl
I think the SIL was a jerk for setting that one up. I would never say that to my kid. In fact you say "You remember Aunt so&so"
Yup! I absolutely AGREE!! That was rude on her part.
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Posted 7/7/06 11:04 AM |
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patti08
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Name: Patti
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Re: Would you think this was cute or would you feel insulted?
I can't say I'd be mad but I might express my feelings to the SIL. Maybe say that you'd like to see your nephew more often.
My 3 year old neice and 5 year old nephew (DH's brother's kids) have called me Aunt Patti (or some variation of it) since they could talk.
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Posted 7/7/06 11:09 AM |
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MsMBV
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Name: Me
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Re: Would you think this was cute or would you feel insulted?
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Posted 7/7/06 11:17 AM |
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munchkinbugs
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Name: Lisa
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Re: Would you think this was cute or would you feel insulted?
It depends. If I spent a lot of time with them, I would be insulted. But I wouldn't expect a 5 year old to remember me if I didn't spend that much time with them. Don't get mad at the mom, she probably didn't mean it in a malicious way. If anything, I would take it as a sign that both couples need to make more of an effort to spend time together. If you don't care about spending time with his sister, then why be insulted?
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Posted 7/7/06 11:30 AM |
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IluvBo
NICKY & EVIE
Member since 6/05 3321 total posts
Name: Rose
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Re: Would you think this was cute or would you feel insulted?
I know how you feel. My youngest brother doesn't have anything to do with us. He's sort of adopted my SIL's family as his and they are the only one's that are important to him. He doesn't remember my kids birthdays', my other brother and his children, our parent's birthdays and anniversary, etc. However, he remembers all his wife's nieces and nephews special days. That's just him to be a jerk!
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Posted 7/7/06 11:33 AM |
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kaklesmay
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Name: Kim
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Re: Would you think this was cute or would you feel insulted?
That would make me sad for you
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Posted 7/7/06 11:36 AM |
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Stacey1403
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Re: Would you think this was cute or would you feel insulted?
I agree too
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Posted 7/7/06 11:37 AM |
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dpli
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Name: D
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Re: Would you think this was cute or would you feel insulted?
So she succeeded in making both you and her son feel bad? Way to go SIL
I would be annoyed by this as well.
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Posted 7/7/06 11:43 AM |
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MrsPorkChop
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Member since 5/05 9941 total posts
Name: Missy
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Re: Would you think this was cute or would you feel insulted?
id be a little insulted- but i dont think my dh nephew knows my name either hes just a little kid- i think they laughed it off because they didnt know what else to do
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Posted 7/7/06 11:49 AM |
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SweetTooth
I'm a tired mommy!
Member since 12/05 20105 total posts
Name: Lauren
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Re: Would you think this was cute or would you feel insulted?
Posted by dpli
So she succeeded in making both you and her son feel bad? Way to go SIL
I would be annoyed by this as well.
Exactly!
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Posted 7/7/06 11:55 AM |
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saraH
happy birthday sweet kate!
Member since 5/05 16555 total posts
Name: I know that God exsists, I held her in my arms...
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Re: Would you think this was cute or would you feel insulted?
i'd be annoyed. and i don't get why your sil would do that.
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Posted 7/7/06 11:58 AM |
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CkGm
They get so big, so fast :(
Member since 5/05 13848 total posts
Name: Christine
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Re: Would you think this was cute or would you feel insulted?
Sounds like my DH family- they drive me nuts. I would be angry for they poor 5 year old- not insulted. What an idiot.
Message edited 7/7/2006 12:04:53 PM.
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Posted 7/7/06 12:04 PM |
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kms717
St Philomena Protect My Son
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Name: Kelly
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Re: Would you think this was cute or would you feel insulted?
What a jerk, it's not funny at all. I don't know why his family was laughing. Some people are so dumb!
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Posted 7/7/06 2:02 PM |
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pinky
Twin Moms Do Everything Twice
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Re: Would you think this was cute or would you feel insulted?
not cute! i would definitely be insulted.
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Posted 7/7/06 3:44 PM |
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