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PattyCake
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WWYD - Amex Gift Card Related

One of my bosses gave me a $100 American Express gift card for Christmas. I was delighted.

I was careful to treat the card like cash or one of my other credit cards in my wallet. I had it for about 10 days, then attempted to use it at a fancy dinner one evening. Imagine my embarrassment when the waiter returned with the card and the check stating "this didn't go through". (Unfortunately I had taken for granted that the card was okay and had been properly activated.)

The boss who gave me the card was still on Christmas vacation and I was not about to email her and bother her with it, and honestly, I didn't even want to tell her what happened, but I did after she got back from vacation. Of course, she feels awful, and that feeling is compounded by the fact that she can't find the receipt by now for the purchase of the card. (She is totally not the type that would try to get away with anything like give me a bum card, etc.)

Should I have kept my mouth shut about it?

Now that I've opened my mouth and told her what happened, should I just chalk it up to a loss or should I expect a replacement card? (The 800 number on the back of the card said without a receipt to get it properly activated, tough nuggies. She paid cash).

I'm so confused. Chat Icon

Posted 1/6/10 1:40 PM
 
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MrsPJB2007
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Re: WWYD - Amex Gift Card Related

You let her know -- its done. I'd just forget it and not say another word.

Obviously she feels bad about it not being properly activated--if she finds the receipt and fixes it, great. But if not I would not expect anything at all. But that's just me.

Posted 1/6/10 1:48 PM
 

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Re: WWYD - Amex Gift Card Related

Posted by MrsPJB2007

You let her know -- its done. I'd just forget it and not say another word.

Obviously she feels bad about it not being properly activated--if she finds the receipt and fixes it, great. But if not I would not expect anything at all. But that's just me.



Agreed.

FWIW, are you certain the restaurant ran it through properly. Some merchants have a lot of trouble with the AmEx gift cards, especially if the bill is for an amount less than the card. Have you tried to use it anywhere else? The only one I ever got took the cashier a few times to make it go through properly. You have to have the exact amount on the card, etc.

Possible it could be the merchant's error?

Posted 1/6/10 1:54 PM
 

Pray4Baby2010
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Re: WWYD - Amex Gift Card Related

I agree with the pp about the restaurant not running it correctly- if the bill was more than the card is for- it wouldn't work-

maybe go online and see if you can check the card balance on tehre

Posted 1/6/10 1:56 PM
 

Peainapod
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Re: WWYD - Amex Gift Card Related

try it somewhere else..i've had lots of trouble using amex cards at various places b/c they have trouble running it through the right way. I dont think it has anything to do with it being activated properly. The purchaser does not have to activate it.

actually, i dont recall having to activate amex cards i've received, but usually there is a sticker on the front on how to do so.


see if you can use it at a store or other place thats not a restaurant.

Posted 1/6/10 1:57 PM
 

PattyCake
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Re: WWYD - Amex Gift Card Related

Posted by Pray4Baby2010

I agree with the pp about the restaurant not running it correctly- if the bill was more than the card is for- it wouldn't work-

maybe go online and see if you can check the card balance on tehre



I checked - customer service at Amex confirmed that it was not properly activated.

Posted 1/6/10 1:57 PM
 

MrsPJB2007
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Re: WWYD - Amex Gift Card Related

edited cause you just answered my questions. Chat Icon

Message edited 1/6/2010 1:58:35 PM.

Posted 1/6/10 1:58 PM
 

neener1211
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Re: WWYD - Amex Gift Card Related

It might not be a problem with the card. I've tried using my amex gift cards at supermarkets and they will not go through when I know there is money on them.

If your meal came close to the balance on the card, it might have not gone through. I think they put a hold on the card for 25% over (or something like that) of what the actual bill is.

I've had $30 on my card left over, tried to pay for a $25 meal, and have it rejected.


nevermind..you said it wasn't activated properly...Chat Icon

Message edited 1/6/2010 1:59:29 PM.

Posted 1/6/10 1:58 PM
 

JennChris
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Re: WWYD - Amex Gift Card Related

Check the balance first, I've had problems using an Amex gift card in a restaurant before.

Posted 1/6/10 1:58 PM
 

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Re: WWYD - Amex Gift Card Related

Posted by Pray4Baby2010

I agree with the pp about the restaurant not running it correctly- if the bill was more than the card is for- it wouldn't work-

maybe go online and see if you can check the card balance on tehre



Yes, this happened with DH. He got an AMEX card for his bday and it didn't work at one place but did at the next.

Posted 1/6/10 2:02 PM
 

MrsList
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Re: WWYD - Amex Gift Card Related

Have you tried it at another store? Maybe it was just that particular restaurant that had an issue with it.

Posted 1/6/10 2:04 PM
 

Cheeks24
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Re: WWYD - Amex Gift Card Related

It could have been the merchant. At Coach they won't go through unless you put the exact amount in that's on the card.

Posted 1/6/10 2:05 PM
 

Cpt2007
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Re: WWYD - Amex Gift Card Related

Posted by MrsPJB2007

You let her know -- its done. I'd just forget it and not say another word.

Obviously she feels bad about it not being properly activated--if she finds the receipt and fixes it, great. But if not I would not expect anything at all. But that's just me.



same here.

Posted 1/6/10 2:06 PM
 

Deeluvsvinny
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Re: WWYD - Amex Gift Card Related

Posted by Cpt2007

Posted by MrsPJB2007

You let her know -- its done. I'd just forget it and not say another word.

Obviously she feels bad about it not being properly activated--if she finds the receipt and fixes it, great. But if not I would not expect anything at all. But that's just me.



same here.



I agree. I got a Macys gift card mailed to me for my shower from Dh's Stepmom's sister and it didn't work. We told step mom, who returned it to her sis (who purchased it at CVS, not Macys) and It's a year and half later and still never heard anything about the card. I chalked it up as a loss.

Although I DID send a TY card before I discvoered the card wasn't activated. Chat Icon

Posted 1/6/10 2:26 PM
 

Jenn627
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Re: WWYD - Amex Gift Card Related

Posted by MrsPJB2007

You let her know -- its done. I'd just forget it and not say another word.

Obviously she feels bad about it not being properly activated--if she finds the receipt and fixes it, great. But if not I would not expect anything at all. But that's just me.



Ditto.

Posted 1/6/10 2:29 PM
 

PattyCake
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Re: WWYD - Amex Gift Card Related

Thanks everybody. I did check directly with Amex and they verified that it hasn't been properly activated, so it's not a matter of trying it at different places. I checked it online as well. It's just a loss. Sux.

Posted 1/6/10 4:07 PM
 

jes81276
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Re: WWYD - Amex Gift Card Related

Funny the same thing happened to me once with an Amex gift card....then I tried to use it somewhere else and it went through just fine. Maybe you can try it at another store. I give you credit for telling your boss....I wouldn't have the guts to, but on the flip side, if I had purchased the card for someone and it didn't work, I would absolutely want to know about it.

Posted 1/6/10 8:07 PM
 

alli3131
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Re: WWYD - Amex Gift Card Related

I gave one to my SIL and it didnt work.....turns out it was a bad card and it never had any money on itChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

I was able to find the receipt and went back to the store and they exchanged it. I would call AMEX. they can tell if the card was activated and if it had ever been used.

Posted 1/6/10 9:49 PM
 

PennyCat
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Re: WWYD - Amex Gift Card Related

It's interesting you brought this up because I was just thinking about that situation. I bought a $100 gift card for my boss from me and a coworker- and I couldn't help but think how awkward we would feel if the cashier didn't activate the card properly...

In your case, I agree with other people, you'll probably just have to chalk it up to a lose. That really stinks tough! Chat Icon

Posted 1/7/10 2:03 AM
 

JenG
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Re: WWYD - Amex Gift Card Related

Dh and I tried to use a gift card at a restaurant also and it did not go through, when i told them that it was a gift card, they said they do not accept it and a lot of restaurants do not take them also

Posted 1/7/10 10:01 AM
 

Xelindrya
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Re: WWYD - Amex Gift Card Related

I agree with PP, you have told her, she feels bad enough, end of story.

I wouldnt expect a replacement.

nothing really lost. I'd feel bad enough that my boss felt so badly about it and lost out on the cash. I'm sure she'll make it up in another way.

*shrug* that's just me.

Posted 1/7/10 11:34 AM
 
 

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