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jambalady
Is it summer yet?
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Holly
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WWYD - Work & TTC for #2
So, we just got horrible news at work yesterday.
I work in finance, and the company announced that it was on the verge of going under.
They will be laying off up to 50% of staff next week and then we will see how it goes for the rest of the year and first quarter.
There is a distinct chance that the company will not survive the middle of next year if the markets don't get better.
DH and I had originally planned on ttc for # 2 fall of next year. I am 34 so we really can't wait much longer.
Would you stick to the original plan?
I was even thinking of moving up the timeline and ttc now. We have enough in savings to get us through 2 years on DH's income only.
My thought being, if we ttc now and are blessed enough to be able to get PG soon, if I get laid off, I can just start looking after I have # 2.
Is this crazy? (Not that I've spoken to DH about this plan or that he would ever agree.
I just don't want to start a new job and not be able to get maternity leave.
WWYD?
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Posted 10/31/08 7:55 AM  |
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hope07
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Re: WWYD - Work & TTC for #2
You have savings for 2 years..... sounds like the perfect opportunity if you do get laid off... sometimes things happen for a reason!
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| Posted 10/31/08 8:08 AM |
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Goobster
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Re: WWYD - Work & TTC for #2
I am not a parent yet, but based on my own life experiences so far, I say do not put off ttc. Money and work issues/difficulties,etc may/will always exist, the opportunity to have another child may not always exist. I say go for it as you had planned, since you feel you are running short on time to ttc. It will all work out, it always does. JMO
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| Posted 10/31/08 8:12 AM |
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Leeners
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Re: WWYD - Work & TTC for #2
Posted by hope07
You have savings for 2 years..... sounds like the perfect opportunity if you do get laid off... sometimes things happen for a reason!
ITA! Regardless of #2, you'll be able to spend time with #1 and be ok financially. I think whatever you decide about TTC, you're in a great position.
And who knows - you could be the other 50%!
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| Posted 10/31/08 8:12 AM |
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CrankyPants
I'm cranky
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Re: WWYD - Work & TTC for #2
Sounds like a good time to TTC IMO. To you!
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| Posted 10/31/08 8:39 AM |
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Annie91606
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Anne
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Re: WWYD - Work & TTC for #2
I agree with the PP. I am in a similar dilemma myself.
I say if you really know you want to have another child- go for it! There is never a "right" time financially- especially these days. You can try banking as much $$ as you can now- so if something happens- you will have even more savings.
And you will get through this- and things will hopefully get better in the economy-
talk to DH and see what he says- good luck Things have a way of working themselves out!
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| Posted 10/31/08 8:44 AM |
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christy
Mommy of 2
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Christy
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Re: WWYD - Work & TTC for #2
Posted by hope07
You have savings for 2 years..... sounds like the perfect opportunity if you do get laid off... sometimes things happen for a reason!
Actually this is just what I was thinking.
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| Posted 10/31/08 8:49 AM |
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08BabySurprise
My Life. My Everything.
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Re: WWYD - Work & TTC for #2
Posted by christy
Posted by hope07
You have savings for 2 years..... sounds like the perfect opportunity if you do get laid off... sometimes things happen for a reason!
Actually this is just what I was thinking.
Oh Holly that stinks about your job!!! But I agree with the previous posters - if you have enough savings where you can get by on 1 salary for a few years don't hold off. There really is never a "right" time when it comes to finances and planning for a baby. to you!!!! And Frankie would make A WONDERFUL BIG BROTHER!!! 
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| Posted 10/31/08 8:59 AM |
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jambalady
Is it summer yet?
Member since 8/06 7392 total posts
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Holly
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Re: WWYD - Work & TTC for #2
Thanks, ladies!!
Just wanted to make sure I wasn't being nuts by even considering this.
 that I am one of the lucky ones next week and, if not, the conversation with DH goes well!
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| Posted 10/31/08 9:35 AM |
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lovemy2boys
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Re: WWYD - Work & TTC for #2
Posted by Goobster
I am not a parent yet, but based on my own life experiences so far, I say do not put off ttc. Money and work issues/difficulties,etc may/will always exist, the opportunity to have another child may not always exist. I say go for it as you had planned, since you feel you are running short on time to ttc. It will all work out, it always does. JMO
ITA w/ this
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| Posted 10/31/08 10:10 AM |
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Tine73
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Re: WWYD - Work & TTC for #2
Start BDing NOW!!
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| Posted 10/31/08 10:11 AM |
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Rycois
Blessed with 2blue/2pink
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Re: WWYD - Work & TTC for #2
I would stick with your plan, if not start sooner. You never know what time will bring but you're in a great place if you have 2 years savings - good for you guys  
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| Posted 10/31/08 10:12 AM |
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mikeswife06
Drama Momma
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Re: WWYD - Work & TTC for #2
I'd start now if your ready. Good luck with everything! 
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| Posted 10/31/08 10:53 AM |
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08BabySurprise
My Life. My Everything.
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Re: WWYD - Work & TTC for #2
Posted by jambalady
Thanks, ladies!!
Just wanted to make sure I wasn't being nuts by even considering this.
that I am one of the lucky ones next week and, if not, the conversation with DH goes well!
Good luck on both fronts Holly!!!
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| Posted 10/31/08 11:06 AM |
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Lucky
Growing up fast!
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Re: WWYD - Work & TTC for #2
Good luck! It sounds to me like the perfect opportunity to get things going with the idea of TTC.
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| Posted 10/31/08 11:09 AM |
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MST9106
My life:)
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Re: WWYD - Work & TTC for #2
Perfect time to start! And you'll still have some more time to save even more! You'll be fine, go for it and good luck!
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| Posted 10/31/08 11:10 AM |
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CkGm
They get so big, so fast :(
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Re: WWYD - Work & TTC for #2
Posted by hope07
You have savings for 2 years..... sounds like the perfect opportunity if you do get laid off... sometimes things happen for a reason!
ITA! Come back to work just as the economy bounces back!
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