WWYD?

DH and I have been ttc for several months and are working out some underlying issues (PCOS, hormone imbalance). I'm waiting on some test results and hope to have a course of action next cycle. I know I might need help conceiving and I'm ok with that. We have not told anyone we are ttc.

My mother is pushing me over the edge. She asks almost daily why I'm not pregnant, why she doesn't have grandchildren, when will she have grandchildren, etc. I just told her we were making our spare bedroom into an office and she flipped out on me because where will the nursery be when I have a baby? Her favorite piece of advice is that I'm already 30 (gasp) and why don't I understand that I need to hurry up, cause science.

I am on the fence about telling her. On one hand maybe she'll stop, but on the other hand she finds fault in everything and will likely try to blame me for my issues (because I gave myself PCOS, of course). I don't know what to do but I just can't deal anymore.

I guess this turned into a vent more than anything else, but any advice?

WWYD?

I would just tell her that you've been trying and have been having difficulty. You could leave it at that. Hopefully it's enough to make her realize it's s sensitive subject to you.

Message edited 3/23/2015 9:41:59 PM.