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nferrandi
too excited for words
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Nicole
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Re: "You'd never even know she belongs to Rachel"....
Posted by prncssrachel
On some levels, I've come to expect it. I mean, she's just a nasty individual. She just hates me. Absolutely despises me. Oh well. What upsets me the most is how JT still defends her, yet NEVER defends me. When I told him how upset I was over that comment, he told me I was making a mountain out of a molehill. It hurts so bad that he sees ME as being in the wrong for being upset. I would NEVER let anyone say something like that to him or about him.
I just wanted to give you some hugs, because I know how it feels. 
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Moehick
Ready for the sun!
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Properly perfect™
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Re: "You'd never even know she belongs to Rachel"....
Little Ava could belong to no other.....you are a wonderful woman Rach, only the crazies don't think so
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| Posted 10/23/06 9:02 PM |
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Maathy317
Grammie's Little Man
Member since 2/06 3235 total posts
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Re: "You'd never even know she belongs to Rachel"....
What a mean-spirited, bitter old hag. I would bet almost anything that it wouldn't matter who her son married; she would feel the same way about anyone. She's jealous of the relationship you have with her son and she can't handle it. You're right. Confronting her would not solve anything. It would, probably, make matters only worse. With some people you need to distance yourself and develop a thick skin. Since she is not interested in seeing her granddaughter (as a grandmother, I am appalled), both you and your daughter are better off. I know it's hard not to react, but, that is exactly what she wants. Let her talk until her mouth falls off and when she sees that it is not affecting you the way she wants, she will stop. Of course, by that time it will be too late to develop a relationship with you and your beautiful daughter, and she will realize what a complete fool she is.
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| Posted 10/23/06 9:24 PM |
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THUMPER
LIF Adolescent
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Laurie
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Re: "You'd never even know she belongs to Rachel"....
I lurk alot but this cracked me up. My only child a daughter looks just like my husband, well one day someone said it to me and it hurt. An old Italian neighbor told this person oh just lift her dress she looks just like her mother. Crass but it made me laugh. Sometimes you just have to shut people off with this type of comment.
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| Posted 10/23/06 9:27 PM |
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Little-J-Mommy
I'm a Big Brother
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Re: "You'd never even know she belongs to Rachel"....
Sorry you have a monster-in-law!!!
You think a Mr. Clean Magic Eraser would make her disappear????
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| Posted 10/23/06 9:39 PM |
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sunny
Life is good!
Member since 5/05 8369 total posts
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Stephanie
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Re: "You'd never even know she belongs to Rachel"....
I know how you feel- dd is a clone of my dh.
But my mil is kind enough not to say so!
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| Posted 10/23/06 9:55 PM |
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CkGm
They get so big, so fast :(
Member since 5/05 13848 total posts
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Christine
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Re: "You'd never even know she belongs to Rachel"....
She always says the stupidest comments! First of all, she is your twin! What a dope
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| Posted 10/23/06 10:00 PM |
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aja
my princess
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Re: "You'd never even know she belongs to Rachel"....
that's mean....I'm sorry you have to deal with her.
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| Posted 10/23/06 10:01 PM |
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FeliciaDP
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Mommy
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Re: "You'd never even know she belongs to Rachel"....
wow ...
I have no words, Rachel. I read your posts sometims about your monster-in-law and I truly cannot believe the crap that comes out of her mouth. You are a saint for just being able to deal with it !
Lots of for you!
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| Posted 10/23/06 10:17 PM |
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Janice
Sweet Jessie Quinn
Member since 5/05 27567 total posts
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Janice
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Re: "You'd never even know she belongs to Rachel"....
MIL's are nutty. They seem to lose it at "We are getting married" and by the time baby comes along, they aren't normal people. She sounds like a loud mouth deadbeat.
DH's have to pick their battles. Your family is so hands on and wonderful with your baby. DH probably feels like his deadbeat is not even worth his energy.
My MIL is not into my baby at all. Like her blinders are up. It must be embarassing for their sons.
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| Posted 10/23/06 10:33 PM |
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4monkeys
boys will be boys =)
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Re: "You'd never even know she belongs to Rachel"....
How terrible of her to say something like that ! 
Luckily, youre a strong and amazing woman and dont need her to be part of your life...
Ignore her 
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| Posted 10/23/06 10:44 PM |
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Juliet
Family is Complete!
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Juliet
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Re: "You'd never even know she belongs to Rachel"....
I'm sorry you have to suffer with an unbearable MIL. Mine can be bad but I am not sure if she would go that far.
One thing I can tell you is that my brother and I have always looked so much like my dad but as an adult, so many people tell me I talk and act like my mom. It may be annoying now, but in a few years when Ava comes into her personality, your MIL should look out 'cuz she could be just like her mommy
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| Posted 10/24/06 12:32 AM |
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BabyAvocado
Happy New Year
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Re: "You'd never even know she belongs to Rachel"....
 What a witch.
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| Posted 10/24/06 9:03 AM |
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preciouslove
I love my DS!!!
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Re: "You'd never even know she belongs to Rachel"....
Ignore the b****.
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| Posted 10/24/06 9:06 AM |
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LisaI
Momma's Little Beans
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Re: "You'd never even know she belongs to Rachel"....
oooh, not nice of her. that would so bother me.
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| Posted 10/24/06 9:13 AM |
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Trouble
I am going 2 be a BIG brother?
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Re: "You'd never even know she belongs to Rachel"....
wow...that is so wrong on so many levels
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| Posted 10/24/06 9:17 AM |
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cloddy
Holiday 2011 photo
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Kristen
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Re: "You'd never even know she belongs to Rachel"....
Just curious how did you come to find out she's saying this? She didn't say it in front of you did she? The whole thing is really terrible. I can't imagine having IL's that are mean to me. I'm so sorry you have to deal with this.
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| Posted 10/24/06 9:21 AM |
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jgm26
LIF Adolescent
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Re: "You'd never even know she belongs to Rachel"....
My MIL is always saying that about Madeline. She looks like my husband
( well, my husband's brother- weird b/c they are twins, but she looks more like BIL than H ). All she got from me are her hands.
Its very insensitive of your MIl to say that.
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| Posted 10/24/06 9:50 AM |
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puppylove
LIF Adolescent
Member since 10/05 561 total posts
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Summer
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Re: "You'd never even know she belongs to Rachel"....
Posted by MelTodd604
That's not necessary!
Exactly! Maybe you should metion to her that you don't mind her saying she dosen't look like you, but saying you'd never know your baby was yours hurts your feelings.
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| Posted 10/24/06 9:58 AM |
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avamamma
My Girl
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Tara
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Re: "You'd never even know she belongs to Rachel"....
Don't worry Rachel. My friend has a MIL like that and I will tell you what I tell her....At least Ava has your parents!!!!! (from what you have written in the past- they seem like wonderful Grandparents)
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| Posted 10/24/06 8:31 PM |
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AndreaLMT
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Re: "You'd never even know she belongs to Rachel"....
I'm sorry you have to deal with this.
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| Posted 10/24/06 8:33 PM |
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JRG71
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Re: "You'd never even know she belongs to Rachel"....
- -  - so not right on so many levels.....
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BaroqueMama
Chase is one!
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me
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Re: "You'd never even know she belongs to Rachel"....
Posted by cloddy
Just curious how did you come to find out she's saying this? She didn't say it in front of you did she? The whole thing is really terrible. I can't imagine having IL's that are mean to me. I'm so sorry you have to deal with this.
We ran into MIL's neighbors and they told me what she said, but she's also said it to SIL, which is exactly why I know she said it just like that.
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| Posted 10/24/06 8:38 PM |
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Faithx2
All good things in 2016!!
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Re: "You'd never even know she belongs to Rachel"....
My SIL's say it looks like my DH sh*t my DD out...How bout them apples???......you are not alone girl!!!!
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Re: "You'd never even know she belongs to Rachel"....
Posted by Moehick
Little Ava could belong to no other.....you are a wonderful woman Rach, only the crazies don't think so
I couldn't agree more
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