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MugzyB1025
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BABY FEVER!!!!!
"how do you know when you're ready to have a baby?"
Message edited 12/9/2007 9:25:39 PM.
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clmj2
cant believe hes gone
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Candice
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Re: BABY FEVER!!!!!
im 24 too and we are trying...might as well have them when your young and can enjoy them as far as im concerned! and i never think you are really ready financially...just something that if you really want it you know you can do it!
DH is 25 and im 24 so we want to be young parents...when we are 50 our kids will be out of the house and we will have the money to enjoy by then!
JMO its not for everyone but if you are ready im sure DH will be soon to follow just dont pressure that could backfire! im lucky enough to have a husband that wants kids bad!
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Mrs
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Re: BABY FEVER!!!!!
I think its true.. one is never ready. There is always something. I feel one just has to 'jump in'.
Your dh may just need time to get used to the idea.. you should discuss with him what he wants and make sure you are both on the same page.
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| Posted 4/9/07 9:18 PM |
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conigs25
So in love with this kid!
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Michele
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Re: BABY FEVER!!!!!
I think im ready too and DH REALLY wants a baby too but he would like to wait another year and i have to respect that. I would rather he be on board!
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| Posted 4/9/07 9:21 PM |
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MugzyB1025
LIF Zygote
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Re: BABY FEVER!!!!!
true
Message edited 12/9/2007 9:28:45 PM.
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| Posted 4/9/07 10:55 PM |
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LovingLife
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Re: BABY FEVER!!!!!
Posted by MugzyB1025
It's not that he doesn't want kids, He REALLY wants kids. But he just doesn't feel we're "ready" like i said. I mean we're not even using birth control or anything. And yes he knows that! lol.. I'm kinda just thinking that if it's what God wants, It'll happen. And if it's not meant to be, it wont. But I guess financially we COULD be better off... but i have the FEVER!!!!! AHHHH 
I don't think you are ever "ready".....its something that one day you both say "let's start trying"...it comes natural and you both know in your hearts you are ready to start a family.
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| Posted 4/10/07 9:56 AM |
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DancinBarefoot
06ers Rock!!
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Re: BABY FEVER!!!!!
If your DH is saying he doesn't think the two of you are ready yet . . . listen to him. You need to be on the same page as a couple before starting a family. If not, the parent who wasn't ready will not be "into" the joys of parenting and it could potentially spell disaster.
Message edited 4/10/2007 9:59:44 AM.
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waterspout4
My loves
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Kelly
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Re: BABY FEVER!!!!!
I have had the fever since I was a little girl. It never went away. Financially, who the heck is ever 'ready'?!?! There are many signs so that you know it's the right time. We all have different signs too. Give it a little time. You both want to be on board. Enjoy married life and don't push him!!
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| Posted 4/10/07 11:16 AM |
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MugzyB1025
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Re: BABY FEVER!!!!!
You're all right... DAMMIT! ...
Message edited 12/9/2007 9:26:11 PM.
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