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italy0308
LIF Infant
Member since 12/06 147 total posts
Name:
Dena
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Miscarried
I was due for my period on 1/10. I was feeling really sick. I thought it was just the flu or something. Well it wasn't getting better I tested a few days before AF was due and got a positive. Lines were light, but they were definitely there. I called my dr and I had an appt scheduled for the end of the month. Well, about 4 days after I got my BFP I started bleeding really bad, had bad cramping and lower back pain. I called my dr's office and they said to come right in. When i got there they did an ultrasound and did blood work. They didn't see anything on the u/s, they said there was nothing they could do and they were sorry. Called this morning and my hcg level was 5.  I have to go back in a few days to make sure it goes down to 0. Back pain is still pretty bad, cramping has let up some/still bleeding though. I have no more energy to keep going. It's been over 5 years and this was my 1st BFP. This hit me hard. My DH is being strong. Sorry for the long vent! Thanks for listening
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LIPrincess
Foxy Lady
Member since 6/05 1610 total posts
Name:
Jaimie
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Re: Miscarried
I am so sorry.l
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| Posted 1/14/08 1:49 PM |
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italy0308
LIF Infant
Member since 12/06 147 total posts
Name:
Dena
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Re: Miscarried
Posted by LIPrincess
I am so sorry.l
Thank you! I really don't know what I want to do anymore. Any advice?
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| Posted 1/14/08 1:51 PM |
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waterspout4
My loves
Member since 5/06 19150 total posts
Name:
Kelly
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Re: Miscarried
I am so sorry for your loss.
May your angel watch over you and give you peace. 
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| Posted 1/14/08 2:16 PM |
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LaurenExp
Waiting patiently for baby sis
Member since 8/06 11613 total posts
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L-Diddy EDD 11/11/11 :)
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Re: Miscarried
I'm so sorry for your loss.
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| Posted 1/14/08 2:17 PM |
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Carolyn
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Member since 5/07 5351 total posts
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Twin mommy
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Re: Miscarried
Oh no, I'm so sorry. 
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| Posted 1/14/08 2:20 PM |
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Gertyrae
Peace out Homies!
Member since 5/05 20046 total posts
Name:
Gerty ®
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Re: Miscarried
I am so sorry....
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| Posted 1/14/08 2:21 PM |
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italy0308
LIF Infant
Member since 12/06 147 total posts
Name:
Dena
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Re: Miscarried
Posted by waterspout4
I am so sorry for your loss.
May your angel watch over you and give you peace.
Thank you. I was actually just looking up poems about miscarriages, I found a few but I really loved this one... Of course it made me hysterical
My Angel Baby
To the baby that I carried
But never seen your eyes
Or tell you how much I loved you
Or ever to hear your cries.
You will never be forgotten
The excitement we had for your coming.
When I realized I'd never hold you,
The feeling I had was numbing.
My angel baby is who you are.
My angel baby you'll always be.
Your loving memory will live in my heart
So you will always be right here with me
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| Posted 1/14/08 2:23 PM |
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italy0308
LIF Infant
Member since 12/06 147 total posts
Name:
Dena
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Re: Miscarried
Thank you Lauren, Carolyn, and Gerty! It means alot!
Gerty, how are you doing?
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| Posted 1/14/08 2:24 PM |
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hopin4baby
LIF Adolescent
Member since 4/07 759 total posts
Name:
Allison
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Re: Miscarried
I am so sorry.
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| Posted 1/14/08 2:49 PM |
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MrsPornStar
Partners in crime
Member since 10/05 14656 total posts
Name:
Mama
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Re: Miscarried
I am so sorry to hear this
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| Posted 1/14/08 2:56 PM |
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kmac
Two under two!
Member since 5/07 3703 total posts
Name:
Kris
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Re: Miscarried
I'm so sorry.
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| Posted 1/14/08 3:13 PM |
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lemonlime
Member since 1/07 1226 total posts
Name:
Jennifer
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Re: Miscarried
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| Posted 1/14/08 3:39 PM |
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DRMom
Two in Blue
Member since 5/05 20223 total posts
Name:
Melissa
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Re: Miscarried
I am so sorry. I have been there and it totally sux.
Have you had immune testing done? being sick before or in early pregnancy is a big red flag for immune related IF/miscarriage
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| Posted 1/14/08 4:03 PM |
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mcl916
my two loves
Member since 10/06 5133 total posts
Name:
Megan
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Re: Miscarried
I'm so sorry for your loss
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| Posted 1/14/08 4:15 PM |
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boosh1002
We like hanging together!
Member since 5/05 5475 total posts
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Mommy to twins
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Re: Miscarried
So sorry for your loss
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| Posted 1/14/08 4:38 PM |
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leighdvm
My golden boys!
Member since 3/06 4419 total posts
Name:
Michele
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Re: Miscarried
Oh, I am so, so sorry.....
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| Posted 1/14/08 4:41 PM |
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sasha96
lovin' my 2 little ladies!
Member since 5/05 7401 total posts
Name:
Julianne
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Re: Miscarried
I could have written that post almost exactly in the fall of 2006.
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| Posted 1/14/08 5:12 PM |
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CAH127
LIF Adult
Member since 7/07 1694 total posts
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Re: Miscarried
I am so truly deeply sorry. I just had the exact thing happen to me a few weeks ago for the second time. I know how hard and heartbreaking it is. Lots of hugs and prayers for you.
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| Posted 1/14/08 5:43 PM |
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shaye3
LIF Adolescent
Member since 2/07 696 total posts
Name:
Laura
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Re: Miscarried
I am so so sorry to hear about your loss. Sending you lots of
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| Posted 1/14/08 6:00 PM |
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flowergirl85
LIF Infant
Member since 12/07 243 total posts
Name:
Missy
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Re: Miscarried
It is not easy!!
I just miscarried also and no matter what anyone says you will take your time to grieve but you WILL get over it - everyone is different and copes differently but you will come back and stronger ........
Hang in there - If you need anything
Message edited 1/14/2008 7:11:22 PM.
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| Posted 1/14/08 7:10 PM |
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Domino
Always My Miracle
Member since 9/05 9923 total posts
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Re: Miscarried
I'm so sorry for your loss
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| Posted 1/14/08 7:13 PM |
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italy0308
LIF Infant
Member since 12/06 147 total posts
Name:
Dena
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Re: Miscarried
Thank you hopin4baby, mrspornstar, kmac,jmmk,melijane,mcl916,boosh1002, leighdvm,sasha96,CAH127,shaye3,flowergirl85, and Domino. I'm sorry I didn't do individual responses I was kind of overwhelmed. But to answer Melijane, I haven't had any testing like that. Didn't even think of it and my dr didn't mention it. Thank you all again!
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| Posted 1/14/08 8:19 PM |
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Goldi0218
My miracles!
Member since 12/05 23902 total posts
Name:
Leslie
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Re: Miscarried
I am so sorry for your loss. I have had a similar experience like yours. I know what its like to be ecstatic one moment and the next to have it taken from you. It hurts just as much to see someone else go through it too as I wouldnt wish it upon anyone.
Yes, it may change you and it may take some time to make peace with it, however I pray that it will strengthen you to go forward and continue in your dream to be parents.
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| Posted 1/14/08 8:38 PM |
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halisa
adore
Member since 7/06 2168 total posts
Name:
lisa
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Re: Miscarried
so sorry.
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