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I'm scared and I don't know what to think

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STBTTC
LIF Infant

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I'm scared and I don't know what to think

I have been spotting/staining... went for a U/S today... and the dr was not too happy with what he saw. He said the sac looked very healthy, he saw the fetal pole, but no heartbeat... he said I should be around 7 weeks, and what he saw was only around 5 and a half. He took my beta, and I will get it back in a few hours. But he said his gut tells him this isnt good. I'm devasted, yet trying to keep hope. Has anyone had a similar experience? I should add that I went last Tuesday for a sono, and was measuring 5w,5days... so I don't think there was growth. But its not my "normal" dr who saw me today, and it wasnt the same machine or the same tech. I dunno, maybe I'm just grasping for any type of hope.

Posted 12/30/08 12:55 PM
 
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MikesWife
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Karen

Re: I'm scared and I don't know what to think

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Posted 12/30/08 1:01 PM
 

hoping2bmommy
LIF Infant

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Taryn

Re: I'm scared and I don't know what to think

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Posted 12/30/08 1:05 PM
 

Bridex100
Two Under Two Mommy

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Momx100

Re: I'm scared and I don't know what to think

I hope everything is ok with your little one. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

I know I had spotting at 5.5 weeks and was worried. At 5.5 weeks, I didn't even have a pole. I didn't see the heartbeat until my 8 week appointment. I remember having the appointment scheduled at 8 weeks because they wanted to be sure there would be a heartbeat. Try not to give up hope yet.

Posted 12/30/08 1:05 PM
 

asecretmommytobe09
My little pumpkin is here!!!!

Member since 10/08

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Katie

Re: I'm scared and I don't know what to think

I dont have any experience with this. But i am praying for you!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/30/08 1:06 PM
 

CrankyPants
I'm cranky

Member since 7/06

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Mama Cranky

Re: I'm scared and I don't know what to think

Lots of people go through this. Hang in there and let time work for you. They'll check again in a few days and check for growth.

I went through this last month and although it didn't work out well for me, many many many women shared their stories and in most cases everything was fineChat Icon

Posted 12/30/08 1:23 PM
 

lvdolphins
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Posted 12/30/08 1:24 PM
 

Lizzy
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Posted 12/30/08 4:06 PM
 

Mimms
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Posted 12/30/08 4:10 PM
 

JennyPenny
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Posted 12/30/08 4:13 PM
 

donegal419
St. Gerard, pray for us.

Member since 7/07

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K

Re: I'm scared and I don't know what to think

praying for you and your baby! hang in there!

Posted 12/30/08 4:17 PM
 

STBTTC
LIF Infant

Member since 9/08

211 total posts

Name:
A

Re: I'm scared and I don't know what to think

Beta numbers have gone down. Looks like this will not be a viable pregnancy.Chat Icon

Posted 12/30/08 5:00 PM
 

2BEANS
wow time is going fast.

Member since 9/07

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Tina

Re: I'm scared and I don't know what to think

Posted by STBTTC

Beta numbers have gone down. Looks like this will not be a viable pregnancy.Chat Icon

Im sorry!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/30/08 5:02 PM
 

donegal419
St. Gerard, pray for us.

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Re: I'm scared and I don't know what to think

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Beta numbers have gone down. Looks like this will not be a viable pregnancy.Chat Icon



I am so very very sorry! Chat Icon

Posted 12/30/08 5:02 PM
 

Bridex100
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Re: I'm scared and I don't know what to think

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Posted 12/30/08 5:03 PM
 

dgirl
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Danielle

Re: I'm scared and I don't know what to think

I'm so sorry! I am hoping that things work out for you! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/30/08 5:07 PM
 

lolipep
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Lori

Re: I'm scared and I don't know what to think

I'm sorry praying that everything will be okChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/30/08 5:16 PM
 

babyquestion
So Thankful!!

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Lots of Sticky Dust, Please!

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Posted 12/30/08 5:30 PM
 

hunnybunnyxoxo
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Re: I'm scared and I don't know what to think

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Posted 12/30/08 6:30 PM
 

Serendipity
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Posted 12/30/08 6:31 PM
 
 

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