IFSP meeting ???

ours was finally scheduled (2 mos later and in non-compliance) - can someone who has been there tell me what to expect? will i have to just take the services they offer or can i ask for more - i.e. if they want home based, can i ask for center based?

tia

Message edited 6/13/2009 6:27:50 AM.

Re: IFSP meeting ???

You are your child's biggest advocate. ASK for what you think they need. They may not give it to you and they certainly won't always offer things freely without prodding. Try to use concrete issues as to why you feel they need the specific services you're asking for. GL

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thank you for your insight. i appreciate your thoughts - i am going to make a list of my concerns so that i stay on track during the meeting...i'm so emotional, that i might forget

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i cried at my first meeting!! but they will go through everything with you step by step and if you don't like what they are saying or don't agree speak up and say what you do want!!!! good luck hon!!!!!

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i definately asked for what i wanted and believed I needed for my daughter, speak up it cant hurt and fight for what you want, good luck

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If you feel your child needs more, then fifgt for it. This is the time to do it. If your child is 2 years old, yes, you can look for a center based program. Do your research now on programs.
You are your child's advocate. I actually threatened to bring lawyers because they would not give me what I deserved, and I got it

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I just had my DS done about 3 weeks ago. The best advice I can give you is to be strong and I know how hard and emotional this can be but try your best to stay strong remember you are a great mother for getting your child all the services he can get.
Try and bring someone with you. ( Your husband or a close family member)
#2-Don't bring your DS
#3 Write down all the questions you have
#4 Write down all the things you want ( Example how many hrs) i didn't do this and I wish I did.
Oh yes I am not sure of your case but did they diagnose your DS? If so they are going to ask you if you agree with the diagnosis
Please let me know if you need anything at all.

Stay Strong
Krystal

Re: IFSP meeting ???

thanks everyone...i don't know where to look as to figuring out how many hours he should receive...he has a significant lang delay >33% in all areas, ot delays in some areas and spec instruction play delays in some areas

those 3 said he qualifies for services, but i'm not sure how many times per wk/how long each session. my parents watch him but they speak italian/broken english so i thought a center based program where he is immersed in language would be best, but i don't know if they have to provide that for him

do you know where i can look up service recommendations so that i can be better informed? tia - i appreciate all of your advice & support