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would you wear red to a wedding?

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sydniesmom
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susan

Re: would you wear red to a wedding?

Yes I would!! I love red!!

Posted 11/20/10 11:19 PM
 
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Lina
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Lindsay

Re: would you wear red to a wedding?

I have never heard of this. What does she want you to wear black? and lets be real, the bride will be in white, everything is brighter than that. Women wore red to my wedding and I didnt even think twice about it. Go for it!!

Posted 11/20/10 11:47 PM
 

CookieMomster
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Re: would you wear red to a wedding?

I always wear Red. DH said that after we went to on our first date that when ever I wear red he thinks of that song lady in red. So ever since then I wear red to almost every event I can.

Posted 11/20/10 11:51 PM
 

CookieMomster
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Re: would you wear red to a wedding?

Posted by LSP2005

In my parent's wedding album there is a photo of a woman who was a former Miss Universe and she wore a red dress that was cut so low you could almost see her navel and slit so high you almost did not have to wonder what kind of underwear she was wearing. My mom said that EVERYONE had all eyes on this woman and she felt like it stole the show. Seeing that dress always made me think that one should not wear red to a wedding. I think wine, cranberry or any other pink are perfectly fine, but lipstick red no, I would not wear it.

Lol to me this means you shouldn't wear a hookers dress to a wedding....Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon If It was in black would that have been more tastefulChat Icon Chat Icon I swear I am not trying to be a b * tch but this made me think of when I was a kid and my grandmother's boyfriend had a pick taken with a girl in teeny tiny red dress, and she said "(BAD WORD) in red." and I thought (So if she was wearing blue she wouldn't be a "BAD WORD"?)

Posted 11/20/10 11:58 PM
 

monkeybride
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Re: would you wear red to a wedding?

I think that might be the stupidest thing I ever heard. Wear what you want.

Posted 11/21/10 1:07 AM
 

partyof6
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Re: would you wear red to a wedding?

I would if I wanted a red dress. I saw someone wear bright red to a funeral once, thought u were not soppose to do that? who knows.
I had a snowball wedding-my bridesmaids were all in white.
I truthfully would not remember if a guest wore white to my wedding or red, I would be too excited to even realize.
I say go for it.

Posted 11/21/10 7:49 AM
 

Cheeks24
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Re: would you wear red to a wedding?

I would and I have. Trust me, no one was looking at me because all attention was on the bride and groom.

Posted 11/21/10 8:02 AM
 

KartveliT
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Re: would you wear red to a wedding?

why not ? Chat Icon

Posted 11/21/10 10:25 AM
 

EndlessSummer719
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Re: would you wear red to a wedding?

I'd wear any color but white/cream.

Posted 11/21/10 12:14 PM
 

TheDivineMrsM
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Re: would you wear red to a wedding?

Sure... UNLESS the bride/groom were Chinese. Chinese brides wear red, so I feel like it would be the same thing as wearing white to an American wedding.

Posted 11/21/10 12:44 PM
 

GioiaMia
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Re: would you wear red to a wedding?

I wouldn't

But I have heard old italian women saying that bride wears white and the mistress wears red Chat Icon

Posted 11/21/10 1:18 PM
 

Laurenmarramsed
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Lauren

Re: would you wear red to a wedding?

I don't see it as a problem either! Have fun!! Chat Icon

Message edited 11/21/2010 2:14:41 PM.

Posted 11/21/10 2:13 PM
 

NeedtoHide
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Re: would you wear red to a wedding?

of course, any color but white/beige is approprite! red is festive and fun!

Posted 11/21/10 3:23 PM
 

KevinNKristin8-15-08
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Kristin

Re: would you wear red to a wedding?

There is nothing wrong with wearing red to a wedding. I have done this many times. This is really one of the stupidest things I have ever heard and like one of the other posters said almost every color is brighter than white!!!!!

Message edited 11/21/2010 3:35:46 PM.

Posted 11/21/10 3:35 PM
 

dawnygirl25
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Re: would you wear red to a wedding?

I would..and I have.

I think thats a ridilculous thing she said. Ive never heard of tha tbefore.

Posted 11/21/10 8:42 PM
 

shadows
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Re: would you wear red to a wedding?

My favorite dress is red and I have worn it to a wedding!

To me, red is a romantic color, so it's perfect for a wedding Chat Icon

Posted 11/21/10 8:58 PM
 

christinec2010
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Christine

Re: would you wear red to a wedding?

You can absolutely wear red to a wedding. The only time I wouldn't wear a specific color to a wedding was if I knew that was the color of the bridesmaids dresses. & of course I would never wear white or ivory.

Posted 11/22/10 8:49 AM
 

peanutbutter2
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Re: would you wear red to a wedding?

Yes, I would.

Posted 11/22/10 8:58 AM
 

Finally1108
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Angela

Re: would you wear red to a wedding?

red is fine... people wore red to my wedding

Posted 11/22/10 10:41 AM
 

Superkat
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Re: would you wear red to a wedding?

Posted by greenfreak

Tell me, which person in this picture do you notice first? My MIL in her red dress, or me in my white dress? Chat Icon




I notice you. Because you are my gorgeous Greenie. She is a meany. Chat Icon

Posted 11/22/10 12:14 PM
 

Superkat
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K

Re: would you wear red to a wedding?

Posted by KittyGags

Posted by greenfreak

Red is much more noticeable to the human eye than other colors like yellow or white. I learned then when I learned about the lights on emergency vehicles.

Tell me, which person in this picture do you notice first? My MIL in her red dress, or me in my white dress? Chat Icon

I'll just say this... She really stands out in the pictures. But that was her intent after all.

eta: Sunday afternoon wedding, well aware my family were wearing all floral prints or colors at my request, because I always wanted a "garden" wedding. Chat Icon



If it makes you feel any better, my MIL wore white to my wedding. I was just looking thru her pics on facebook and someone commented "which one is the bride?!"



If it makes either of YOU feel better, my Chinese mother in law wore a RED CHINESE WEDDING DRESS to MY WEDDING! It is a good thing I love my husband so much...

Posted 11/22/10 12:19 PM
 

WhatNow
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Re: would you wear red to a wedding?

I probably wouldn't. I think it's in bad taste, at least where I come from.

Although people did wear red to my wedding and I must say I didn't really think it was that big a deal, but my sister and other female members of the family commented on that and said it was rude to do that...

Message edited 11/22/2010 2:16:33 PM.

Posted 11/22/10 12:25 PM
 

johnsae
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Re: would you wear red to a wedding?

I have and I would.

Posted 11/22/10 1:31 PM
 

TLC1018
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Tracy

Re: would you wear red to a wedding?

Of course! Unless the BP was wearing red and then I wouldn't wear that color. I have never heard you're not supposed to wear red to a wedding.

Posted 11/22/10 1:47 PM
 

SweetTooth
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Lauren

Re: would you wear red to a wedding?

I recently wore red to a wedding. And I was pregnant, lol.

Posted 11/22/10 4:09 PM
 
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