3 m/c and a BFP Last week ,worried

Hi all,I have found this great forum on the advice of a friend,who sees I'm freaking out . I took a test last friday after being 5 days late.I am never late and knew something was up. I had a few symptoms, threw up once and the last few days,i've been feeling fine,and thats where my worry comes in. I had two M/c (empty sac @ 8 weeks) and then became pregnant again,only to get sick and end up in the ER (again @ 8 weeks) convinced I was losing it,doc found heartbeat and @ 35 weeks had a baby girl,very complicated pregnancy and sick for the first 5 months. she is 4 now and according to my calculations I should be 5wks or so. My fear is that I have no symptoms and that at my appt on friday,they will see nothing once again. i do know that it could be too early to see anything ,but worried that i feel so normal. has anyone had this experience? Any words of wisdom would be appreciated, BTW this is most likely my last chance,as I an over 40 now.

Re: 3 m/c and a BFP Last week ,worried

I’m so sorry for your losses!

I wish you a very happy and healthy 9 months!!!!! And I can imagine how you feel. After a loss, it’s all you think about and what you expect.

Re: 3 m/c and a BFP Last week ,worried

I have no advice, but wanted to say congrats! I recently had a miscarriage and i know for a fact that when i get my next bfp, i'm going to be neurotic. I think it just comes with the territory. I wish you all the best. Keep us posted!

Re: 3 m/c and a BFP Last week ,worried

Thanks ladies, I know you all have been through some loss of your own, haven't told any family yet,so it might be easier this time, wish i could fast forward to friday and hear some good news, I'll keep you posted

Re: 3 m/c and a BFP Last week ,worried

I know this is hard but try to relax…not all pregnancies are the same! I know people who were sick for one and not the other! So hang in there and try to stay positive, we are all pulling for you!