are you nervous that you don't know if you are dilated at all??? I LOVE the choice I made to be with the midwives.. but since I'm 39 weeks, I would really like to know if I were dilated, my cervix has thinned, etc.

I'm also nervous with all I read about those who go in and don't dilate enough and have to get c/s even though I know that there is such a less percentage of needing one when you are with them - the fear of the unknown has officially settled in Chat Icon