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HoneySweet
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Can you BD when you are angry?
I am feeling very alone right now. We BD on Friday then Sat I got my peak reading on the CBEFM. We tried to BD that afternoon, but DH could finish. Later we went to a party and got in an argument on the way home. Today I have my 2nd peak but my feelings towards him do not make we want to BD- I am too upset. Do you think we have any shot this month if we on BD on friday and not the 2 peak days? Also, what do you do if get a smiley or a peak and you are in a fight- do you BD anyway? I feel like a baby should come from love and I find it hard to BD with someone I love but am not feeling very loving towards at the moment. He is not mad, so BD for him would be good. Thanks for "listening"- feeling very sad right now :(
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Posted 7/3/11 10:21 AM |
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Re: Can you BD when you are angry?
That's a tough one. I can see where you're coming from with conceiving out of love. It will be difficult for you to with those feelings. So talk to him now and work it out, then have some make-up sex!!
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Posted 7/3/11 10:34 AM |
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prunepie
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Re: Can you BD when you are angry?
since we have to bd on a schedule during iui's etc...there have been a few times that we were angry for various reasons and did bd.
we looked at each other and said....i hate you...( with a smile) ...i bent over ...dropped my pants...and about 40 seconds later....it was done.
reallllly romantic........but had to do it! lol we laughed about it later and make an agreement that during ttc moments we would put our issues aside to at least do a quicky!
good luck!
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Posted 7/3/11 2:58 PM |
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MrsT809
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Re: Can you BD when you are angry?
I don't think I could if I was mad at him. I would try to talk things out first. If he's not mad, try to get him to hear you out at least. If I felt heard about whatever the issue was I'd be most likely to be able to get over it. GL
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Posted 7/3/11 3:04 PM |
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Alexandra17
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Re: Can you BD when you are angry?
Posted by prunepie
since we have to bd on a schedule during iui's etc...there have been a few times that we were angry for various reasons and did bd.
we looked at each other and said....i hate you...( with a smile) ...i bent over ...dropped my pants...and about 40 seconds later....it was done.
reallllly romantic........but had to do it! lol we laughed about it later and make an agreement that during ttc moments we would put our issues aside to at least do a quicky!
good luck!
omg I love this
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Posted 7/3/11 6:37 PM |
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dazies827
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Re: Can you BD when you are angry?
Posted by prunepie
since we have to bd on a schedule during iui's etc...there have been a few times that we were angry for various reasons and did bd.
we looked at each other and said....i hate you...( with a smile) ...i bent over ...dropped my pants...and about 40 seconds later....it was done.
reallllly romantic........but had to do it! lol we laughed about it later and make an agreement that during ttc moments we would put our issues aside to at least do a quicky!
good luck!
too funny but, true. Not all the time but, if we are mad we still but, there have been times where there was just nooo way!!!
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Posted 7/3/11 6:40 PM |
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HoneySweet
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Re: Can you BD when you are angry?
Thanks Ladies. I was able to work thru my anger and we were able to BD. I feel better that we did, now whether it is a BFP or BFN, atleast I know we tried! So good to hear how others deal with this.
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Posted 7/3/11 6:45 PM |
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Re: Can you BD when you are angry?
If I'm mad I def can't
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Posted 7/3/11 9:31 PM |
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