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after ur pregnant when is everyone telling.....

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MrsC529
LIF Infant

Member since 7/11

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Name:
Danielle

after ur pregnant when is everyone telling.....

Immediate Family???

Close Friends????

Relatives???

Other Friends???

Facebook???

Message edited 8/4/2011 9:10:12 PM.

Posted 8/4/11 9:08 PM
 
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gina409
TWINS!

Member since 12/09

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g

Re: after ur pregnant when is everyone telling.....

after all we have been through and fear of another miscarriage..we will tell nobody until 12 weeks

facebook prob 15 weeks

u girls..after i get my 2nd beta Chat Icon

Posted 8/4/11 9:11 PM
 

MrsM429
Mama x2 <3

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Re: after ur pregnant when is everyone telling.....

We agreed to wait until the 12 wk sonogram. I know I'm going to be super paranoid until the first trimester is over.

One of my HS friends announced on FB that she's pregnant with twins AFTER she had her tubes tied (she has 4 kids already Chat Icon), then 2 weeks later she announced she had a m/c. Couldn't imagine how she must be feeling right now, especially since everyone is saying sh!t on FB to her

Posted 8/4/11 9:13 PM
 

ElizaRags35
My 2 Girls

Member since 2/09

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Name:
Me

Re: after ur pregnant when is everyone telling.....

Posted by MrsC529

Immediate Family???

Close Friends????

Relatives???

Other Friends???

Facebook???



After first sono for family and friends.

Other friends and FB - 2nd trimester prob.

But I have a big mouth so who knows if I'll stick to these time frames! Chat Icon

Posted 8/4/11 9:17 PM
 

dazies827
expecting boy # 3

Member since 9/09

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Name:
Chris

Re: after ur pregnant when is everyone telling.....

Immediate Family???right away

Close Friends???? with in 12 weeks

Relatives???with in 12 weeks

Other Friends???whenever

Facebook???12 weeks

Posted 8/4/11 9:20 PM
 

MRSadenosine
LIF Adolescent

Member since 9/09

655 total posts

Name:
Tai

Re: after ur pregnant when is everyone telling.....

Immediate family: right away for my parents and bro/wife. His immediate more like 12 weeks.

Close friends/relatives: around 12 - 16 weeks

Facebook: after I deliver


Posted 8/4/11 9:24 PM
 

cateyemm
Twins!

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Re: after ur pregnant when is everyone telling.....

family: asap
close friends: pretty much right after that
distant friends coworkers etc: after 12 weeks
facebook- when the kid goes to college Chat Icon

Posted 8/4/11 9:32 PM
 

PitterPatter11
Baby Boy is Here!

Member since 5/11

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Momma <3

Re: after ur pregnant when is everyone telling.....

Not 100% sure for any of these. If we are lucky enough to get pregnant, here is what I would probably do

Immediate Family??? 12 weeks

Close Friends???? 12 weeks

Relatives??? 12 weeks

Other Friends???/Facebook??? Not sure. I feel like these are one in the same. Probably once I pop and can not hide it.

Posted 8/4/11 9:51 PM
 

StaceyWill
It's a girl!!!

Member since 6/10

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Name:
Stacey

Re: after ur pregnant when is everyone telling.....

You guys will be the first to know.
Immediate family & everyone else prob at 12 weeks.

Posted 8/4/11 10:25 PM
 

ShhhTTCin11
3 under 3?!

Member since 5/11

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Name:
Coleen

Re: after ur pregnant when is everyone telling.....

LIF: immediately Chat Icon

Immediate Family/ Very close friends: Hopefully around 8 weeks or so. I'm not good at keeping secrets.

Everyone else/ facebook: 12 or 13 weeks.

Posted 8/4/11 10:50 PM
 

PrettyPeonies
GAW my baby boy <3

Member since 8/10

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Pino

Re: after ur pregnant when is everyone telling.....

LIF........right after I POAS

Immediate Family??? Prob about 8 wks

Close Friends???? 8 wks / MIL has a big mouth

Relatives??? 8 wks / MIL has a big mouth

Other Friends??? 8 wks / MIL has a big mouth

THE NATION.....8 wks / MIL has a big mouth



Facebook??? I prob wont come out....not really my style. Not worried unless you havent heard MIL has a big mouth and the world will know right away.

Posted 8/4/11 11:02 PM
 

Mrs213
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Member since 2/09

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Re: after ur pregnant when is everyone telling.....

Family a few weeks and work at the same time

Posted 8/5/11 12:45 AM
 

iBCraZ131
Love my girls!

Member since 8/07

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Name:
Melissa

Re: after ur pregnant when is everyone telling.....

I would think around 8 weeks for most friends and family. At least until after we go to the doctor and see that everything is ok. Facebook I probably wouldn't say anything to until maybe the first trimester is over. I am a terrible secret keeper and everyone is going to know something is up if I'm not drinking! We'll see how long I can pull it off!

Posted 8/5/11 8:40 AM
 

Hoping4Baby11
Live life to the fullest!,

Member since 1/11

2140 total posts

Name:
Jenn

Re: after ur pregnant when is everyone telling.....

Immediate Family??? Right away!!!

Close Friends???? I would only tell my best best friend, everyone else wouldn't know till 12 weeks.

Relatives?? 12 weeks or more.

Other Friends?? Whenever I see them after the 3 month mark.

Facebook??? 16 weeks.

But I would tell you ladies first right away!!!!!!!!!!! Chat Icon


Message edited 8/5/2011 9:07:50 AM.

Posted 8/5/11 9:07 AM
 

POSSIBLYa2nd
LIF Infant

Member since 7/11

119 total posts

Name:
In Hiding

Re: after ur pregnant when is everyone telling.....

I want to wait until I'm 8 weeks to tell our families.

I'll tell everyone else, including facebook at 12 weeks.

Posted 8/5/11 9:58 AM
 

jennielee15
Let's try this again....

Member since 7/11

2269 total posts

Name:
Jennie

Re: after ur pregnant when is everyone telling.....


Immediate Family??? Probably right away! I cannot keep secrets!

Close Friends???? Best friend right away. The rest, When they start asking why I'm not drinking.

Relatives??? Don't know

Other Friends??? Same as close friends.

Facebook??? Never!

Posted 8/5/11 10:01 AM
 

TNT1005
LIF Adult

Member since 3/10

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Re: after ur pregnant when is everyone telling.....

I think 3 months for everyone.But who knows when the time comes.

Posted 8/5/11 10:06 AM
 

MrsFrizzle
<3

Member since 9/09

4628 total posts

Name:
Kristin

Re: after ur pregnant when is everyone telling.....

Immediate Family??? around 8 weeks

Close Friends???? around 12 weeks

Relatives??? somewhere between 10-12 weeks

Other Friends??? 12 weeks

Facebook??? most likely a little after 12 weeks when we know all our friends/family knows

Posted 8/5/11 10:07 AM
 

Booshka
In love with my baby girl <3

Member since 2/11

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Name:
Booshka

Re: after ur pregnant when is everyone telling.....

Immediate Family? After the first Dr's appt.

Close Friends???? with in 12 weeks

Relatives??? with in 12 weeks

Other Friends??? whenever

Facebook??? After 12 weeks

Posted 8/5/11 10:32 AM
 

VanderZwang
LIF Adolescent

Member since 2/11

740 total posts

Name:
Gail

Re: after ur pregnant when is everyone telling.....

I wont tell anyone, anyone until I have every test known to man to make sue th baby is ok.

I woud not be able to tell a soul knowing that we might not keep the baby.

So I dont know how long it takes to get all the advanced tests.

Posted 8/5/11 10:49 AM
 

MRsFaTThead
NY GIRL IN TEXAS

Member since 6/10

5483 total posts

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WHO GIVES A POO WHO GIVES A FUDGE !!

Re: after ur pregnant when is everyone telling.....

Immediate Family- right away

Close Friends- within a week after i get the bfp

Relatives- a few weeks

Other Friends-dont know.lol

Facebook- 12weeks

Posted 8/5/11 11:05 AM
 

caps612
In love with my little guys!!

Member since 8/10

5108 total posts

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Re: after ur pregnant when is everyone telling.....

I have never been a believer in the whole waiting 12 weeks.. just not me.

Immediate family - immediately

close friends - as soon as i see them once we know (want to tell people close us in person!)

relatives - as soon as i see them/talk to them or they will probably get word from my sister and mom or my nieces saying it cause they will all be too excited to hold it in!

other friends - whenever, if i don't talk to regularly, the you just find out when you find out!

FB - when i slip and say something, or if/when someone else does that, or when a pic of me with a belly gets posted. Don't plan to make any grand announcement on FB!

Posted 8/5/11 11:20 AM
 

doodlebop
LIF Zygote

Member since 8/11

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Re: after ur pregnant when is everyone telling.....

LIF right after DH

Family our parents right away (but must stress to his mom not to tell anyone)

Friends at 12 weeks

FB who knows.

Too many of our friends and family knew last time and we lost the baby at 8.5 weeks. I can't deal with everyone knowing we were pregnant but not finding out we lost the baby and asking me how far along , or saying "Pregnant! wow". I can't go through that again

Posted 8/5/11 12:44 PM
 

Hopeful12
LIF Zygote

Member since 7/11

18 total posts

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Re: after ur pregnant when is everyone telling.....

My mom as soon as I get a BFP.

Other family, friends & FB @ 12 weeks

Posted 8/5/11 2:18 PM
 

babyface10
LIF Adolescent

Member since 3/11

804 total posts

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Re: after ur pregnant when is everyone telling.....

We decided not to tell anyone until after our 1st appointment. we will then tell family and close friends.

Everyone else after 12 weeks and wont be announcing on facebook.

It is killing me though.

Posted 8/5/11 3:51 PM
 
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