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Anyone's DH/SO having trouble keeping your preg a SECRET??

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HappyFor3
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Member since 7/11

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Anyone's DH/SO having trouble keeping your preg a SECRET??

Mine is -- he's telling everyone. Chat Icon

We're 10weeks along today so we really only have two weeks left but I'm just so conservative and private with this pregnancy because our first two DCs were roller coasters (bleeding, complications, docs told us there would be big problems ==== but both DCs are fine).

I know DH is just excited, but he's already told almost every family member, all of my neighbors, and this weekend he told most of his co-workers at a BBQ. Chat Icon So there I am trying to fake drinking alcoholic beverages while everyone else is getting bombed and the host/hostess come up, rub my tummy, and say, Congratulations - just heard the great news.

I know I need to get over it, but I just worry that if something doesn't go right in the next 2-3 weeks, we'll have to share very publicly what could have been very private --

Posted 8/7/11 3:44 PM
 
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Silibee3
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Member since 1/11

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Melissa

Re: Anyone's DH/SO having trouble keeping your preg a SECRET??

DH was so super excited! I was happy keeping the little secret (our immediate family knew at 6 weeks) to myself for the first trimester. It killed DH - he wound up telling random people at work who would never see me or anyone we know. Back in March, we were at my best friend's party and they have friends who had been TTC. DH pulls me aside and tells me that they were in fact pregnant....apparently that girl's DH couldn't hold it in and my DH was like the 2nd person to know, including their family! Some guys just need to scream it from the mountain tops!!!

Posted 8/7/11 4:53 PM
 

MrsH2009
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M

Re: Anyone's DH/SO having trouble keeping your preg a SECRET??

Mine told everyone the first week. He was so excited I just gave up and went along with it. The only people I waited to tell was work.

Posted 8/7/11 4:57 PM
 

Crazyfor3
LIF Infant

Member since 5/11

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Crazy

Re: Anyone's DH/SO having trouble keeping your preg a SECRET??

No. I think he's petrified of telling anyone! He doesn't want to hear all the responses! Chat Icon

Posted 8/7/11 7:17 PM
 
 

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