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MrsKelly
just hangin' around...
Member since 11/06 6305 total posts
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Krista
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getting cytology/pathology results...
I just had my post op appt thurs (after 4 weeks) and they gave me my results... my baby had a severe genetic disorder and never would have lived.
I thought hearing that would bring me some sense of peace... to know that there was nothing I could have done differently and it wasn't my something to do with my hormones/there's nothing to make us think this might happen again... but it didn't bring me any peace at all  just ripped my heart out once again. Did anyone else feel this way?
Just being in that office/the exam room made me cry...
And I found out it was a ...
I don't know what I'm looking for here; I'm just so sad.
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Posted 9/4/11 10:35 AM  |
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Melissa1013
My sweet boy
Member since 1/08 1933 total posts
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Melissa
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Re: getting cytology/pathology results...
I'm so sorry 
I had the same reaction. I went into premature labor and no one could tell me why. I've recently found out what caused it and after searching for that answer for months it didn't bring me the peace I thought it would (not right away anyway). It mad me sad all over again thinking about what happened.
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| Posted 9/4/11 11:10 AM |
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StaceyWill
It's a girl!!!
Member since 6/10 21539 total posts
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Stacey
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Re: getting cytology/pathology results...
I'm so sorry
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| Posted 9/4/11 12:18 PM |
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GenLCSW
Baby # 3 is here!!!
Member since 7/05 21138 total posts
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Genna
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Re: getting cytology/pathology results...
I am so sorry I got the results back from my D&C also....there was an extra chromosome My doctor said that it tried to grow but then just stopped Anyway, I was doing ok for a few days and then he called me with the results....I was so upset...my heart still hurts thinking about it Lots of
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| Posted 9/4/11 4:37 PM |
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prunepie
LIF Adult
Member since 7/06 4357 total posts
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jennifer
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Re: getting cytology/pathology results...
my had triploidy which was an extra set of chromosomes that wasnt compatable with life.
in a sense it brought me some peace bc i found out no matter what i did or didnt do..the result would have been the same.
did it hurt to know it was a little baby girl and she had no chance? sure.
i personally hate the unknown so it helped me have some answers...but there have been some sad sad days for sure!! so sorry btw!!!
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| Posted 9/4/11 10:59 PM |
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KMCGK
Gotta have faith
Member since 7/09 2176 total posts
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Keep the Faith
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Re: getting cytology/pathology results...
Hang in there
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| Posted 9/5/11 7:26 PM |
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Peony628
LIF Zygote
Member since 2/09 3 total posts
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Re: getting cytology/pathology results...
I had a D&C 2 weeks ago, I never asked about getting results. Do they do that automatically or did I have to request it?
Thank you!
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| Posted 9/7/11 10:19 AM |
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Re: getting cytology/pathology results...
they are able to let you know if you were having a boy or girl?
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| Posted 9/7/11 10:39 AM |
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Pomegranate5
LIF Adult
Member since 2/11 4798 total posts
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Pomegranate5
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Re: getting cytology/pathology results...
I'm so sorry.
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| Posted 9/7/11 12:10 PM |
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MrsKelly
just hangin' around...
Member since 11/06 6305 total posts
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Krista
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Re: getting cytology/pathology results...
Posted by prunepie
my had triploidy which was an extra set of chromosomes that wasnt compatable with life.
i believe this is what my had as well
to the girls that asked, yes if they do testing, they will know what you were having. also, i am not sure if every doctor automatically sends it for testing or not. i asked the day of the d&c if they were going to, and he said yes - so it was something he would have done whether i mentioned it or not.
thank you for all who responded
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| Posted 9/7/11 4:21 PM |
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remyc
LIF Toddler
Member since 3/09 420 total posts
Name:
claire
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Re: getting cytology/pathology results...
My results were the same as yours, I didnt feel relief but it did answer some questions. What does bother me though is I don't want to tell anyone for fear of getting the "it's better off talk" when to me I lost a .I'm sorry for your pain.
For the other posters, I specifically asked for genetic testing I don't think dr would have done it otherwise. This was my second ms, first was a "chemical" but I don't like that term.
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| Posted 9/7/11 7:15 PM |
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Re: getting cytology/pathology results...
I am so sorry...I can totally see this stinging just a little bit more..especially finding out the sex makes it so real. I just hope you can find peace with this and get your bfp really really soon
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| Posted 9/13/11 2:50 PM |
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