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keepingsecrets
ridiculously blessed!!
Member since 7/09 1912 total posts
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well, IUI #4=FAIL
dr. b just called to let me know what i already knew. IUI #4 is a BFN. i'm just stunned that it's gone this far. we'll move on to IVF in a couple of months but for right now i need to dwell a little bit in my sadness and then have a life that doesn't include fertility treatments. i am so so so sad. i thought going through losses was bad, but not being able to get pregnant for the last year is a whole other degree of sadness and frustration.
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Posted 9/30/11 4:32 PM |
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JackiePags
They're the love of my life
Member since 8/10 1299 total posts
Name: Jackie
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Re: well, IUI #4=FAIL
I'm so so sorry. I have had 5 failed IUI's; took August and September off and I am really ready to get back in the swing of things. A break really helps....good luck!
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Posted 9/30/11 4:51 PM |
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LoLaBlue
PARTY OF 5
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Re: well, IUI #4=FAIL
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Posted 9/30/11 4:54 PM |
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PennyCat
Just call me mommy :)
Member since 7/08 19084 total posts
Name: Jib
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Re: well, IUI #4=FAIL
Losses are bad.. BFNs are bad... it's just a different type of grief One thing I will say, like I probably said on here many times before, is that IVF is scary at first but totally manageable! IVF will also bring up your chances more than an IUI. Try to take this time to do some relaxing things because once IVF starts, the obsessing... noticing every twinge.. .etc... sets in full gear!!
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Posted 9/30/11 5:50 PM |
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popabubble
I need a clone
Member since 12/09 1143 total posts
Name: Dianne
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Re: well, IUI #4=FAIL
I'm sorry! Sending your way!!
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Posted 9/30/11 5:59 PM |
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ShhhTTCin11
3 under 3?!
Member since 5/11 2229 total posts
Name: Coleen
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Re: well, IUI #4=FAIL
Im really sorry
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Posted 9/30/11 6:19 PM |
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RGEC47
Feeling blessed!
Member since 11/09 3039 total posts
Name: Rosa
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Re: well, IUI #4=FAIL
I am sorry this iui didn't work. Sometime to collect yourself is a good idea. IVF is initimidating at first, but moves quickly. Good luck.
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Posted 9/30/11 6:22 PM |
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Mel0918
LIF Infant
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Re: well, IUI #4=FAIL
i'm so sorry
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Posted 9/30/11 6:37 PM |
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TyReseGreen
Lil Prince is here
Member since 8/11 6338 total posts
Name: Theresa
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Re: well, IUI #4=FAIL
I am so sorry; your day will come
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Posted 9/30/11 6:44 PM |
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Kris828
Hopeful...
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Re: well, IUI #4=FAIL
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Posted 9/30/11 7:20 PM |
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CatNYC123
Happy Thoughts
Member since 9/10 1531 total posts
Name: Cathy
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Re: well, IUI #4=FAIL
Im so sorry.. I was really hoping you got a BFP this month.. Take the time to grieve and take care of yourself. On the plus side, we'll be IVF buddies! (I know that probably doesnt help) Thinking of you!!
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Posted 9/30/11 7:59 PM |
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PitterPatter11
Baby Boy is Here!
Member since 5/11 7619 total posts
Name: Momma <3
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Posted 9/30/11 8:32 PM |
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Re: well, IUI #4=FAIL
I'm so sorry
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Posted 9/30/11 8:57 PM |
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Jax430
Hi!
Member since 5/05 18919 total posts
Name: Jackie
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Re: well, IUI #4=FAIL
I'm sorry. Try to enjoy your break. I know that for us, it was the best thing we could have done before IVF. In all honesty though, IVF hasn't ben as bad as I thought it would be. Hang in there.
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Posted 9/30/11 10:48 PM |
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SpringBride08
LIF Toddler
Member since 5/08 435 total posts
Name: Danielle
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Re: well, IUI #4=FAIL
I'm sorry to hear that...enjoy your break and take care of you!
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Posted 10/1/11 12:11 AM |
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keepingsecrets
ridiculously blessed!!
Member since 7/09 1912 total posts
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Re: well, IUI #4=FAIL
thanks girls AF came today so we are now officially on "break". i just booked a trip to FL to see my godson at the end of the month so i'm looking forward to that!
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Posted 10/1/11 8:18 PM |
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beanie571
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Re: well, IUI #4=FAIL
Enjoy the break - It really helps!!
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Posted 10/1/11 8:42 PM |
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butterflygal
LIF Adolescent
Member since 9/10 774 total posts
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Re: well, IUI #4=FAIL
Awww, I'm so sorry. I know that feeling all too well. I still haven't gotten a BFP and it's been 15 going on 16 months now. The break will do you wonders. We took off for 2 months and it's so great to not have to think about it. Now when I start my meds for IVF in a couple of weeks (pending AF's arrival), I'll be in a much better place and I'm sure you will too .
Your time will come
Message edited 10/4/2011 3:12:41 PM.
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Posted 10/4/11 3:12 PM |
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