FET after M/C?

I don't post often, in fact i usually just lurk, but I am feeling a bit lost and beyond sad and although my family and friends are trying to be comforting i find there words and thoughts empty and (i'll be honest) they make me a bit angry.
I digress, We have male factor infertility, have been TTC for 4 years, 3 failed IUIs and started IVF cycle in October. We ended up freezing 4 embyros and transferring 1 on Nov 17th. On monday (i was 11wks 2d) they found no fetal heartbeat and growth no more then 8wks. Beyond devastated doesn't even begin to cover how I am feeling.
But I am trying to look ahead and take one day at a time. I am also trying really hard to convince myself that I didn't do anything wrong.
That being said...has anyone done a FET recently after a m/c (I am using RSofNY) and could you please give me an overview of what to expect. we have a consult on 2/1. Thanks ladies and I wish all of you the very best of luck.

Message edited 1/18/2012 11:59:47 AM.

Re: FET after M/C?

I have had several losses all at different stages so I can completely identify with how sad you must be feeling right now...I didn't cycle there, but I will say that an FET is just so much less stressful than a fresh cycle. There are fewer drugs... typically fewer monitoring (unless you have lining issues like I did!) ... and before you know it, you're transferring. I found it was much less stress on my body.


Good luck!!

Re: FET after M/C?

thanks for getting back to me, I am glad it is less stress, not sure how much I can take!