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heather10292010
Gonna be a big sister
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pity party for one
This week two of my very good friends told me they are both pregnant with their second child.... one is 7.5 weeks along and the other is 19 weeks (she never tells anyone before 19 weeks) ..... While I am very happy for them... it is kiling me that they are going on to have the second child while we haven't had our first yet... yes, I 've been pregnant twice but still no baby.
I feel like an awful friend that as soon as we hung up I started crying.
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IAMMRSBROWN
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Re: pity party for one
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| Posted 2/23/12 3:38 PM |
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heather10292010
Gonna be a big sister
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Heather
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Re: pity party for one
ifeellike such an awful person
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| Posted 2/23/12 3:40 PM |
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AngnShaun
Sisters
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Re: pity party for one
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| Posted 2/23/12 3:52 PM |
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MRsFaTThead
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WHO GIVES A POO WHO GIVES A FUDGE !!
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| Posted 2/23/12 3:53 PM |
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IAMMRSBROWN
3 under 2!!!
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Re: pity party for one
Posted by heather10292010
ifeellike such an awful person
Youre not at all. Nobody knows except people going through this how hard it is. Its not that youre not happy for them, its just the unhappiness of it not happening right now for you that is hurting so much and affecting your reactions to those around you.
It doesnt make you a bad person to feel this way. I hope it happens for you very soon 
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| Posted 2/23/12 3:53 PM |
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Re: pity party for one
You should not feel awful! I have been there and done that!
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| Posted 2/23/12 4:39 PM |
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Re: pity party for one
You aren't awful. I feel the same way. I'm tired of hearing about everyone being pregnant, what their kids are doing, etc :(
I think it's totally normal.
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| Posted 2/23/12 5:31 PM |
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babyart
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| Posted 2/23/12 6:11 PM |
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ANR1211
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Re: pity party for one
You're not awful. It's normal. I want to throw the computer across the room every time I see on facebook how someone else is pregnant.
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| Posted 2/23/12 6:12 PM |
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gina409
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Re: pity party for one
LISTEN TO ME VERY VERY VERY CAREFULLY!
YOU ARE NOT AWFUL..YOU ARE HUMAN!
you have been through so much,it is hard..u r not sad for them you are sad for yourself..
i said it before i will say it again i have given dirty loos to pregnant woman in the grocery store ..i have issues
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| Posted 2/23/12 9:32 PM |
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WannaBeAMom11
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Re: pity party for one
You are not alone I feel 100 percent the same way
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| Posted 2/24/12 2:05 PM |
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CindySN23
Stop, Think & Breathe...
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Re: pity party for one
You are not awful!!!
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| Posted 2/24/12 2:17 PM |
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heather10292010
Gonna be a big sister
Member since 12/10 1749 total posts
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Heather
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Re: pity party for one
Thanks everyone! I felt better venting a bit.
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| Posted 2/24/12 3:34 PM |
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