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episiotomy with baby 1 mean one with #2??

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Samira0407
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episiotomy with baby 1 mean one with #2??

Guess i really won't know until the time comes but i'm wondering if i'll have yo get another episiotomy. That is the part i'm dreading. Not labor or delivery but the recovery afterwards from getting snipped wasn't fun!

Posted 10/19/14 11:05 PM
 
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Re: episiotomy with baby 1 mean one with #2??

I didn't have to with my second. My first baby was bigger though.

Posted 10/20/14 12:55 AM
 

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episiotomy with baby 1 mean one with #2??

I don't think you ever have to--your body will just tear naturally if it needs

Posted 10/20/14 9:21 AM
 

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Re: episiotomy with baby 1 mean one with #2??

I had it with my first, but not my second. My tear from #2 was much larger than my episiotomy, but the recovery was so much less painful than the episiotomy recovery.

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Posted 10/20/14 10:20 AM
 

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Re: episiotomy with baby 1 mean one with #2??

Posted by Katareen

I don't think you ever have to--your body will just tear naturally if it needs



ITA
i tore with my first and also with my second

Posted 10/20/14 10:30 AM
 

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Re: episiotomy with baby 1 mean one with #2??

Crashing, but I had an episiotomy with #1, if I ever get pregnant with #2 then I know my doctor will most likely do another one when I deliver (I think he prefers them instead of tearing- this is just what I gather from other patients of his that have had vag deliveries).

Posted 10/20/14 10:55 AM
 

Samira0407
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episiotomy with baby 1 mean one with #2??

Thanks!!! When I spoke with my OB about it she said they do it to avoid tearing. I didn't even have a choice with DS. I didn't know I had one until afterwards! That recovery was awful; so not looking to have to go through that again!

Posted 10/20/14 11:10 AM
 

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Re: episiotomy with baby 1 mean one with #2??

Posted by Samira0407

Thanks!!! When I spoke with my OB about it she said they do it to avoid tearing. I didn't even have a choice with DS. I didn't know I had one until afterwards! That recovery was awful; so not looking to have to go through that again!



Same exact scenario here. I'm trying not to think about it. Chat Icon

Posted 10/20/14 11:33 AM
 

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Re: episiotomy with baby 1 mean one with #2??

I had an episiotomy and third degree tearing with #1 and a terrible recovery. I had no episiotomy, second degree tearing and a much easier recovery with #2. So it's possible! I also pushed for an hour+ with #1 and had #2 in one push!

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Posted 10/20/14 11:43 AM
 

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I had an episiotomy and third degree tearing with #1 and a terrible recovery. I had no episiotomy, second degree tearing and a much easier recovery with #2. So it's possible! I also pushed for an hour+ with #1 and had #2 in one push!



One push!! WOW!! that was a strong push!!!

I hope I have it as easy!! I remember the pain just trying to sit up in the bed!

Posted 10/20/14 12:14 PM
 

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Re: episiotomy with baby 1 mean one with #2??

I had episiotomies with both but #1 was much worse. I pushed for 4 hours with her and only 1 hour with DS. That one hour was a breeze in comparison!

Posted 10/20/14 3:50 PM
 

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Re: episiotomy with baby 1 mean one with #2??

Posted by Katareen

I don't think you ever have to--your body will just tear naturally if it needs



This. Can you ask for them not to do it since your recovery was bad from it?

My dr doesn't do it all. I tore with my first, but very minimal. My dd was 8.1 too.

Posted 10/20/14 5:28 PM
 

Samira0407
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episiotomy with baby 1 mean one with #2??

So it sounds like the recovery from a tear is easier than being gut#

Posted 10/20/14 7:26 PM
 

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episiotomy with baby 1 mean one with #2??

I had an episiotomy with dd, and I was actually cut twice during the hour I pushed. Wasn't told how many stitches, but she had to go back for more sutures after running out when stitching me up. Recovery was awful! It was so frustrating bc I felt perfectly fine immediately after, other than the stitches-I was so scared of tearing them!

Posted 10/20/14 9:31 PM
 
 

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