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MrsZ2014
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First Year

about how much per month would you say you spend on diapers and formula? what are some other expenses to think about on the monthly basis?

Posted 2/3/16 10:22 PM
 
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FirstMate
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Re: First Year

TBH, I really didn't notice a major dent in my finances with diapers and formula. IMO, the fear of the expense is exaggerated. When my first son was done with those things, I didn't notice any extra money either!

I just look for sales and use coupons. I just got 3 boxes of diapers in Target for under $45 by the time I was done with coupons, my red card, the $25 gift card you got when you bought 3. They will last probably 3 months.

Formula...register on both the Enfamil and the Similac websites. You will begin to get checks from them as coupons. I usually either buy formula at BJ's or Target when it's on sale.

Other monthly expenses (besides any child care) would be food when they get bigger. I go to Fairway and buy organic stuff and make his food. It's cheaper to make it then to buy the jars and then you know for sure what they are eating. Other than that, the only other expenses are clothes when they need them. We go through onesies and socks a lot but thats about it.

ETA: I think formula costs roughly $100 month. It sounds like a lot but it's really $25/week which really isn't all that much to feed a kid. My bigger guy costs me much more than that!

Message edited 2/4/2016 10:54:22 AM.

Posted 2/4/16 10:52 AM
 

alli3131
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First Year

I did not see any difference in my finances. I would buy diaper and formula on sale and stock up when there were good sales. The only thing that has hit my budget hard is daycare. Otherwise I would never see the difference.

Posted 2/4/16 2:49 PM
 

NervousNell
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Re: First Year

Posted by alli3131

I did not see any difference in my finances. I would buy diaper and formula on sale and stock up when there were good sales. The only thing that has hit my budget hard is daycare. Otherwise I would never see the difference.



Me either. And I cant even tell you how much we spent a month on diapers and formula because that is not something we keep track of.
We just buy what we need and that's that.
Same with stuff we need.
I just buy it.
And DD started daycare at 8 weeks old and that was like a mortgage payment ,but we really didn't feel hurt by it or anything

Message edited 2/5/2016 8:36:06 AM.

Posted 2/4/16 2:55 PM
 

LuckyStar
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First Year

I have to agree, I'm not sure how much we spend on diapers or wipes. DD is on a specialty formula so my insurance covers it and my copay is $100 per month.

Posted 2/4/16 5:28 PM
 

MK2010
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Re: First Year

Posted by alli3131

I did not see any difference in my finances. I would buy diaper and formula on sale and stock up when there were good sales. The only thing that has hit my budget hard is daycare. Otherwise I would never see the difference.



ITA.

Also, there will be a hit to your social life...fewer dinners out, movies, concerts, hobbies that cost money - it will more than balance out. Chat Icon

Daycare is a doozy! $$$$

Message edited 2/4/2016 10:51:33 PM.

Posted 2/4/16 10:50 PM
 

jellybean78
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First Year

Honestly the diapers and formula were the least of our expenses..daycare is what kills you. No coupons for that...Chat Icon

DD is 8 now and honestly it's still pricey between afterschool care, activities, clothes get more $$$, etc etc. I don't think it ever gets better until they get married and or move out the house Chat Icon

Posted 2/5/16 8:21 AM
 

racheK
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Re: First Year

Posted by jellybean78

Honestly the diapers and formula were the least of our expenses..daycare is what kills you. No coupons for that...Chat Icon

DD is 8 now and honestly it's still pricey between afterschool care, activities, clothes get more $$$, etc etc. I don't think it ever gets better until they get married and or move out the house Chat Icon



It's so true. If I was told I would be spending $2k a month on day care, I might not have gotten pregnant so fast Chat Icon !

I have signed up for all those coupons and I've been told by friends that formula will simply be sent to my home. I hope they are right!

Posted 2/5/16 1:23 PM
 

LuckyStar
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Re: First Year

Posted by MK2010

Posted by alli3131

I did not see any difference in my finances. I would buy diaper and formula on sale and stock up when there were good sales. The only thing that has hit my budget hard is daycare. Otherwise I would never see the difference.



ITA.

Also, there will be a hit to your social life...fewer dinners out, movies, concerts, hobbies that cost money - it will more than balance out. Chat Icon

Daycare is a doozy! $$$$




Yup. Your life is overChat Icon

Posted 2/5/16 1:44 PM
 

LiveForMoments
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Re: First Year

I can tell you, after having my first, my DH and I were like "it's not really that big of an expensive having an infant" (no daycare, I'm home during the day, work early mornings or nights), and I BF so no formula expense.

Then came #2...she has a chronic digestive illness coupled with food allergies, so formula is $50 a can - no coupons, lasted 3 days as an infant, lasts about a week now, and we go through about 10-12 diapers a day - at 18 months old - it's crazy, normal is probably half that. Also had to put DD1 in more school/activities so I could take care of the baby.

So my point here - ya just never know.

Posted 2/5/16 6:49 PM
 

queensgal
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Re: First Year

I use Amazon subscribe and save. Luvs are like $25 and a box of overnight another $20. Wipes are $17. Formula is about 130.

DS drinks a ton of formula, like 30 oz right now. I breast fed him for 5 months and used free samples for like 1 month. I'm also now buying baby food which is another 50 a month. For DD I had more time and made it, saved a ton. He is late with teeth but when he gets them we can give more table food and cut down on pouches - that's a short term expense.

We don't go out, drinking is at home. You end up saving in other ways that offsets it.

Daycare is the major expense, clothes too but we still get a lot and I shop sales/coupons.

Posted 2/7/16 10:33 PM
 

ChristinaM128
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Re: First Year

I know I responded on the other board, but I do agree with a pp in that it depends on your child. For us, dd1 was on a prescription formula covered by insurance. For dd2, she needs a special formula but it's not severe enough to be deemed medically necessary, so it's $250 a month even with Amazon subscribe and save. No chance of target generics here.

Same goes for wipes and diapers for each of my kids, they have super sensitive skin. I pay $50 a month for water wipes, and I have to use pampers. Again, I use subscribe and save, but still around $100/month.

Probiotics are another $45/month due to their stomach issues.

Be aware that you may or may not be able to use discount products on your child, and you may have to incorporate supplemental products.

Posted 2/8/16 8:11 AM
 

JDubs
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Re: First Year

Posted by alli3131

I did not see any difference in my finances. I would buy diaper and formula on sale and stock up when there were good sales. The only thing that has hit my budget hard is daycare. Otherwise I would never see the difference.



This. I never realized how much daycare really hits us hard until we started paying for it lol

Other than that I am not sure how much for diapers/wipes but my DD is on specialty infant formula and our copay is $150/month

ETA with my first I used pampers only and then I learned to switch to cheaper diapers that did the same job. I have had no problems with Target diapers or Luvs.

Message edited 2/8/2016 9:49:41 AM.

Posted 2/8/16 9:48 AM
 

MrsZ2014
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First Year

I already registered for day care and know that's a hard hit. Thanks for sharing all the other expenses at least I can relax in that department.

Posted 2/8/16 1:50 PM
 

momofone
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Re: First Year

Check to see if your company offers depedent care FSA - you can put away 5k pre tax towards daycare!

Posted 2/9/16 1:05 PM
 

MrsZ2014
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Re: First Year

Posted by momofone

Check to see if your company offers depedent care FSA - you can put away 5k pre tax towards daycare!



haha yea right. I don't have vacation, sick, benefits, or maternity.

Posted 2/9/16 2:07 PM
 

J9-13
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Re: First Year

My twins are 9 months. I can't even keep track. I feel like every 2 days Im on Amazon or diapers.com for either baby food, formula, diapers or wipes. LOL Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/9/16 2:08 PM
 
 

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