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nywebchic
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miscarriage

waiting for nature to take its course....otherwise have to decide on medical intervention..
any one use medication ?

Posted 8/7/06 6:18 PM
 
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Helen05
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Helen

Re: miscarriage

I'm sorry you have to go through this, I went through the same thing last week, I ended up having a D&C.
I hope it happens for you soon, so you can move on and heal.
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Posted 8/7/06 6:46 PM
 

nywebchic
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Re: miscarriage

I am sorry, what happened if you dont' mind me asking ?

Posted 8/7/06 6:57 PM
 

dooodles
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Because 2 people fell in love

Re: miscarriage

I am so sorry for your loss Chat Icon

Posted 8/7/06 8:52 PM
 

lolagranola
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Re: miscarriage

So sorry for your loss... Chat Icon

Posted 8/7/06 8:58 PM
 

Samlove

Member since 5/05

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Shari

Re: miscarriage

I am sorry for your loss. It happpend to me and I opt. for a D&C I wnted to get it over with Chat Icon

Posted 8/7/06 9:26 PM
 

skygirl
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Erica

Re: miscarriage

I am very sorry you are going through this. Chat Icon Chat Icon


To answer your question-for me, it started happening- we went to the ER , followed up with my ob/gyn and was determined that I didn't need a d&c as everything happened naturally.

AF came about 32 days later and we are going to try again soon. We are doing much better

Please feel free to fm me if you want to talk
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ETA- HElen this post goes for you tooChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon
I am very sorry for your lossChat Icon

Message edited 8/7/2006 9:32:52 PM.

Posted 8/7/06 9:31 PM
 

ajaysmom
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Member since 5/05

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Jessica

Re: miscarriage

So sorry for your loss, and all the other ladies on here who have gone through this as well. I had a m/c in may at 10 wks, had to have a D&C, I'm not to sure of the medication aspect of it all.. wasn't given that option.

Good Luck with everything, and just take it day by day.. it gets easier! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/7/06 10:10 PM
 

dm24angel
Happiness

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Donna

Re: miscarriage

I wasnt given a medication option. I didnt even know there was one.

Im so very sorry for your loss.

I had a M/C at 10 weeks naturally.

I pray it gets easier for you Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/7/06 10:19 PM
 

Briannasmommy
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Christina

Re: miscarriage

I'm so sorry for you loss. I know what you went though. If you have any questions FM me.

I miscarried natural. There is no drugs you can take. They might do a D/c if it does not take it coruse.

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Posted 8/8/06 12:36 AM
 

robcoll1002
My Beautiful Babies

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Colleen

Re: miscarriage

I've had 3 M/C's. The first two were early on 51/2 weeks and 6 weeks. I m/c'd naturally. They call what I had chemical pregnancies. The third one I was 10 weeks and I was all scheduled for the D&C but I started bleeding very badly and my doctor told me to go to the ER. When I was there they did the sono and said I had passed most of it already on my own ( not getting to graphic--I knew I passed it) so I didn't need the D&C.

I'm sorry for your loss. FM me if you need to talk.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/8/06 7:34 AM
 

icequeen4700
LIF Adolescent

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Dawn

Re: miscarriage

I am so sorry for your loss. we are all here for you if you need to talkChat Icon Chat Icon
i had d&c's with both miscarriages, medication was never an option.

Posted 8/8/06 8:09 AM
 

DRMom
Two in Blue

Member since 5/05

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Melissa

Re: miscarriage

I did-it is called Methotrexate and it is a chemotherapy drug. You get one dose and it destroys an lingering abnormal cells in your body, They will usually do this if your HcG levels do not drop

Posted 8/8/06 9:32 AM
 

CollP612
LIF Adolescent

Member since 4/06

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Colleen

Re: miscarriage

im sorry for your loss.. Chat Icon Chat Icon I had a MC June 28th Naturally, thankfully no D & C was needed. TTC again...Chat Icon

Posted 8/8/06 11:42 AM
 

kaklesmay
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Kim

Re: miscarriage

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Posted 8/8/06 11:57 AM
 

2kids2cats
My babies

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f

Re: miscarriage

I had a missed miscarriage at 8 weeks and did not bleed or anything. I didn't want to get a d&c so I waited to miscarry naturally and waited TWO weeks. The absolute worst two weeks of my life. Nothing happened, nothing at all, and I opted for the d&c. It was a hard decision, but I did it and my doctor was fantastic and we waited 3 cycles and tried and got pregnant quickly. Any questions, feel free to FM me. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

A big benefit for me with the d&c is that they were able to test the tissue and I learned something happened, a fluke in the cell division process, but the baby would not have survived 4 days past birth, so it helped me get closure as well. Chat Icon

Message edited 8/8/2006 2:00:40 PM.

Posted 8/8/06 1:59 PM
 

heidla
Me and the guys

Member since 5/05

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Name:
Heidi

Re: miscarriage

I'm so sorry for your loss!!!

I miscarried at 10 weeks without any symptoms. My Dr suggested d&C instead of medicine. I think a lot of the time it depends on how far along you are as to what your Dr. will suggest and if your body has already started the process.

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Message edited 8/8/2006 3:34:34 PM.

Posted 8/8/06 3:33 PM
 

apb17
My guys

Member since 5/06

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Alli

Re: miscarriage

I found out I m/c at 14 weeks but the baby passed away a little before 9 weeks. My body did nothing in between that time to let me know some thing went wrong so I had to have a D&C.
Good luck!Chat Icon

Posted 8/9/06 8:38 AM
 

jea128
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Re: miscarriage

I also had to have a D&C. My doc stated I could wait for nature to take it's course, but I just wanted to get it over with and move on. Sorry you had to go through this. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/9/06 10:53 AM
 

FeliciaDP

Member since 5/05

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Mommy

Re: miscarriage

First of all, I am so very sorry for your loss.. Chat IconChat Icon Chat Icon

Posted by apb17

I found out I m/c at 14 weeks but the baby passed away a little before 9 weeks. My body did nothing in between that time to let me know some thing went wrong so I had to have a D&C.
Good luck!Chat Icon




I quoted this because this is almost exactly what happened to me as well during my last pregnancy. I was 13 weeks preggo but it was determined that the baby had passed around 9 weeks. i still felt very pregnant, still had M/S and never bled.. so I had no idea I had a missed (silent) miscarriage..

I had a D&C 2 days later because I just wasn't sure emotionally I could handle 'waiting' to see if I miscarried on my own.. it was just too devastating to me..

Good luck to you Chat Icon

Message edited 8/9/2006 12:01:09 PM.

Posted 8/9/06 11:59 AM
 

nywebchic
LIF Infant

Member since 8/05

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Re: miscarriage

Thanks for all your replies,kindness and support !
Nature is cooperating.. I was 6w3d..I hope everything expels naturally so I do not have to have D&C.

I feel Ok.. crampy but OK. I find myself really weepy today. I was fine the other day.. I wonder if is the hormones. Of course, I am upset but I am rationalizing this loss; something was wrong with this pregnancy, and nature is taking care of it.

Posted 8/10/06 12:43 AM
 

2kids2cats
My babies

Member since 6/05

5229 total posts

Name:
f

Re: miscarriage

Posted by nywebchic

Thanks for all your replies,kindness and support !
Nature is cooperating.. I was 6w3d..I hope everything expels naturally so I do not have to have D&C.

I feel Ok.. crampy but OK. I find myself really weepy today. I was fine the other day.. I wonder if is the hormones. Of course, I am upset but I am rationalizing this loss; something was wrong with this pregnancy, and nature is taking care of it.



It took some time, but that was my thought process after a while as well. You will get your special child when the time is right and you won't ever forget this one. Chat Icon

Posted 8/10/06 9:17 AM
 

jms100303
Luv my munchkins

Member since 5/05

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Name:
Jennifer

Re: miscarriage

I am so sorry you have to go through this. Wishing you the best Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/10/06 9:19 AM
 
 

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