We made a decision

Dh & I decided that we're going to give my body a couple cycles to heal and then start trying again in November.

This makes me really happy to think about. No longer that black tunnel with no end. But it just seems soooo long away. I understand that that's really only 2 cycles to get thru, but oh man. Right now it seems like an eternity

But at least there's a 'plan' now. I guess it's back to the OPKs for me.

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It is such a relief to have a plan. I promise that it will go faster than you think. I remember thinking that June to August was going to take forever, but once we started TTC again, I was like, "that wasn't so bad."

Best of luck to you!!!

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its great that you both made a decision and are on the same track!

believe me when i say... it will go fast!
i had to wait 3 cycles before trying again.. and i was so upset about it.. but it really went fast!

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That's so great that you guys have a plan. DH and I are still on the fence with how long to wait since my dr. hasn't mentioned it . It must be a great relief to have a plan tho!

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it really IS very helpful. It was so hard for me just wondering what we were going to do and when. I feel a lot more comfortable now that I have something to work toward.

I really do hope that it goes quick. It's very smart for us to wait until then for many other reasons - i wouldn't want to get too impatient and jump the gun.

And yeah, I'm glad we're on the same page with that. It would be so hard if he wanted to wait longer than that, because I definitely would not be okay with it.

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It definitely feels good to have a "plan". It makes you feel like you have a little control over what goes on...especially when it seems that everything else about this situation is out of your control! Good luck with the plan!

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Thats good to hear. I agree with the other girls, it's good to have a plan, it gives you something to look forward to. And while it seems far away, those 2 cycles will go faster than you think.

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Posted by zoe282

It definitely feels good to have a "plan". It makes you feel like you have a little control over what goes on...especially when it seems that everything else about this situation is out of your control! Good luck with the plan!

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and 2 cycles will go by like *that* (snapping fingers)

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I am glad to hear things are progressing in the right direction for you & DH We waited to TTC again, as well & as I just said on another post, I feel "ready" not as nervous as I might have directly following our loss.

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yeah, I think it's best... but man. So disappointing to have to WAIT. I hope you're all right - that the time comes and goes before I know it.

What's kinda fun too is that November 23rd is my birthday. According to my calculations I'll probably be Oing right around that time (if my cycle jumps right back, that is). So that would be kinda cool. To conceive on or around my 25th birthday

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Posted by Ever-After

yeah, I think it's best... but man. So disappointing to have to WAIT. I hope you're all right - that the time comes and goes before I know it.

What's kinda fun too is that November 23rd is my birthday. According to my calculations I'll probably be Oing right around that time (if my cycle jumps right back, that is). So that would be kinda cool. To conceive on or around my 25th birthday

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Posted by bride07


The 2 months will def go by fast. It will be exciting once you can TTC again.

That will be nice to conceive around your birthday. Atleast you will be getting a lot of "action" as a birthday present. ha