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bride07
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Feeling Discouraged Already- Update!!
I am already getting discouraged about this month. Up until yesterday i was trying to stay so positive.
It just doesn't seem that things are looking to good already. I am on CD 18 and still NO EWCM yet ( i have even been taking Mucinex) and no positive on the OPT ( however they in the past were not that accurate w me). Plus...I usuallly only have a 28-30 day cycle. At this point I am thinking even if i do get the Positve opt or ewcm in the next day or so...my Luteal Phase would be too short at this point.
I am wondering if maybe i am just not ovulating this first month..after the m/c. Or if I do in a day or so...if My luteal phase will be to short. I don;t know mayeb i did ovulate already and just don't know.
UGHHH> I feel like i am out this month before i even get to the 2ww.
UPDATE!!!!! I spoke to soon. I just got a positive on my OPT!!!! ! YAY. I just have to hope i have a longer cycle so my LP won't be too short. Today is counting day 18.
Message edited 10/12/2009 2:19:22 PM.
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Posted 10/12/09 9:50 AM  |
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ETAB
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Re: Feeling Discouraged Already
I know how hard it is, to stay positive and upbeat the whole time. This process is not easy. i would just try and bed every other day until you get a postiive.
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| Posted 10/12/09 9:57 AM |
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jerseychick
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Re: Feeling Discouraged Already
If you O later this month, AF would probably just be a few days later as well. From what I have read, your LP doesn't change too much month to month.
I didn't really pay attention the first cycle after the m/c (because my doctor told me to wait 2 cycles), but last month, I O'ed on day 23, which is late for me (I usually O around day 20-21) and my LP was the same as it usually is, so AF was just 2 days later than usual. So you could definitely just be O'ing a little later than usual. Hopefully that is the case 
Good luck!! 
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| Posted 10/12/09 10:07 AM |
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Salason
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Re: Feeling Discouraged Already
1st AF after last MC I O'd on Day 21. I usually O around CD16 so it's possible! Hang in there!
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| Posted 10/12/09 10:15 AM |
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Maggie22
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Re: Feeling Discouraged Already
Hang in there.
After my first miscarriage, AF came 5wks later. I got pregnant the following month. The doctor said I ovaluated late due to the 1st miscarriage. Maybe you O will be a week late. Dont get discouraged.
I too, cant wait until I get AF again so I can TTC once more. It might be irregulary for awhile but dont give up hope. Keep trying and it will happen again
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| Posted 10/12/09 10:48 AM |
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Lisa982006
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Re: Feeling Discouraged Already
Posted by jerseychick
If you O later this month, AF would probably just be a few days later as well. From what I have read, your LP doesn't change too much month to month.
I didn't really pay attention the first cycle after the m/c (because my doctor told me to wait 2 cycles), but last month, I O'ed on day 23, which is late for me (I usually O around day 20-21) and my LP was the same as it usually is, so AF was just 2 days later than usual. So you could definitely just be O'ing a little later than usual. Hopefully that is the case
Good luck!!
ITA!! I didnt use an OPK this month, but based on my LP and when I got AF, Im pretty sure I O'd on CD23 which is late for me. Normally it would be CD20. I think our cycles are just out of whack following the m/c plus stress can delay ovulation.
Dont get discouraged!! I bet any day now you'll get that positive OPK!!
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| Posted 10/12/09 11:24 AM |
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zoe282
We have our miracle!
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Re: Feeling Discouraged Already
Try not to be discouraged! the OPK"s aren't always accurate....try to BD every other day to cover your bases.
Good luck!
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| Posted 10/12/09 2:17 PM |
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Lisa982006
Mommy of 2! Ty God
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Re: Feeling Discouraged Already- Update!!
Posted by bride07
UPDATE!!!!! I spoke to soon. I just got a positive on my OPT!!!! ! YAY. I just have to hope i have a longer cycle so my LP won't be too short. Today is counting day 18.
Yay!! It always goes down that way; as soon as you think youre never going to get that positive, there it is!!
Good luck and happy bd'ing!!
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| Posted 10/12/09 3:19 PM |
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elizabeth78
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Re: Feeling Discouraged Already- Update!!
Good luck!!!
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| Posted 10/12/09 3:23 PM |
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jerseychick
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Re: Feeling Discouraged Already- Update!!
Woo hoo!! Good luck Rachel!!
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| Posted 10/12/09 3:44 PM |
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Re: Feeling Discouraged Already- Update!!
Yay! I used to O on CD18 too. Good luck!
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| Posted 10/12/09 4:01 PM |
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zoe282
We have our miracle!
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Re: Feeling Discouraged Already- Update!!
Oh that's great!!! Time to get busy lady!!!! lol
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| Posted 10/12/09 5:41 PM |
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mommy2B3
2 boys 2 girls!!!!
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Re: Feeling Discouraged Already- Update!!
yay! get to it 
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| Posted 10/12/09 6:21 PM |
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