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MCD0524
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question for girls ttcing after miscarriage
Hi Ladies,
I feel like this has been a crazy journey. Since we got pregnant the first time we tried, we were blessed, and then lost it at around 6w2d. I am getting ready to start trying again after i finish my next cycle (waited 3 months). Any words of encouragement or positive stories? I am worried it could happen again
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Posted 6/6/10 10:14 PM |
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SKPtzu
Oh boys
Member since 6/08 1388 total posts
Name: SKPtzu
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Re: question for girls ttcing after miscarriage
I had a miscarriage in April and this is our first month TTC. I thought I would be more nervous, but honestly I'm just excited and hopeful. Of course, it is in the back of my head that I could miscarry again, but I try to focus on the hopefully being pregnant again and holding that baby in my arms.
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Posted 6/7/10 8:01 AM |
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bride07
Ava Rose you are an angel!!!
Member since 3/09 6115 total posts
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Re: question for girls ttcing after miscarriage
Goodluck!! Hopefully it will happen as soon this time around too!
Just remember there is a greater chance you will go on to have a healthy pregnancy v.s another miscarriage. I think it's something like 80% or higher will go on to have a healthy pregnancy after a miscarriage.
I wouldn't worry about it, just try to stay excited and hopeful for next time around.
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Posted 6/7/10 8:43 AM |
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Exarina
My Two Girls
Member since 12/09 1249 total posts
Name: Lisa Marie
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Re: question for girls ttcing after miscarriage
Only thing i can say is be patient. I know that you probably won't and I know its easier said than done b/c i am so frustrated with the process but just try to remember we are all here trying to have a child and you should see that light down the road- it will happen...it may not happen soon,....it can happen on your first try....and when it does your pain will pass.
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Posted 6/7/10 9:08 AM |
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MCD0524
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Re: question for girls ttcing after miscarriage
thanks everyone, its so nice to have people to talk to. I hope that it happens again fast, but more then that, I hope that I don't worry once it finally does! It's nice to see stories about people getting pregnant again and everyhting working out!
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Posted 6/7/10 7:05 PM |
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conigs25
So in love with this kid!
Member since 5/06 11197 total posts
Name: Michele
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Re: question for girls ttcing after miscarriage
Just remember that EVERY pregnancy is different. Just bc the first one didnt work out DOES NOT mean the next one wont.
I had a m/c at 9wks and went on to get pregnant 3 mons later and had a GREAT pregnancy and a wonderful and healthy baby boy
GOOD LUCK TO YOU
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Posted 6/8/10 6:18 PM |
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zoe282
We have our miracle!
Member since 8/08 3634 total posts
Name: Jen
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Re: question for girls ttcing after miscarriage
When I would get discouraged or scared I would remind myself that 80% of women go on to healthy pregnancy so the odds are totally in your favor. They always talk about the 20%....but they shoul be more positive and focus on the 80%. Hang in there!
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Posted 6/9/10 10:16 AM |
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MRnMRSNurse
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Member since 8/09 1318 total posts
Name: Jessica
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Re: question for girls ttcing after miscarriage
I got pregnant a few weeks after my Miscarriage (not planned). Things are a lot different this time around. We are not jumping up & down because we know things can go badly. We are just keeping our news to ourselves. The Dr.s say this is a healthy normal pregnancy, so we are blessed. We are staying calm & relaxed about everything until we are out of the first trimester.
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Posted 6/9/10 1:13 PM |
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autumn
Mommy to 2 divas
Member since 9/07 3389 total posts
Name: Lisa
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Re: question for girls ttcing after miscarriage
patience is the key thing, both TTC and also TTC after a M/C.
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Posted 6/9/10 6:25 PM |
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