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question for girls ttcing after miscarriage

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MCD0524
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question for girls ttcing after miscarriage

Hi Ladies,

I feel like this has been a crazy journey. Since we got pregnant the first time we tried, we were blessed, and then lost it at around 6w2d. I am getting ready to start trying again after i finish my next cycle (waited 3 months). Any words of encouragement or positive stories? I am worried it could happen again Chat Icon

Posted 6/6/10 10:14 PM
 

SKPtzu
Oh boys

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Re: question for girls ttcing after miscarriage

I had a miscarriage in April and this is our first month TTC. I thought I would be more nervous, but honestly I'm just excited and hopeful. Of course, it is in the back of my head that I could miscarry again, but I try to focus on the hopefully being pregnant again and holding that baby in my arms.

Posted 6/7/10 8:01 AM
 

bride07
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Re: question for girls ttcing after miscarriage



Goodluck!! Hopefully it will happen as soon this time around too!

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Just remember there is a greater chance you will go on to have a healthy pregnancy v.s another miscarriage. I think it's something like 80% or higher will go on to have a healthy pregnancy after a miscarriage.

I wouldn't worry about it, just try to stay excited and hopeful for next time around.

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Posted 6/7/10 8:43 AM
 

Exarina
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Lisa Marie

Re: question for girls ttcing after miscarriage

Only thing i can say is be patient. I know that you probably won't and I know its easier said than done b/c i am so frustrated with the process but just try to remember we are all here trying to have a child and you should see that light down the road- it will happen...it may not happen soon,....it can happen on your first try....and when it does your pain will pass.

Posted 6/7/10 9:08 AM
 

MCD0524
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Re: question for girls ttcing after miscarriage

thanks everyone, its so nice to have people to talk to. I hope that it happens again fast, but more then that, I hope that I don't worry once it finally does! It's nice to see stories about people getting pregnant again and everyhting working out!

Posted 6/7/10 7:05 PM
 

conigs25
So in love with this kid!

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Michele

Re: question for girls ttcing after miscarriage

Just remember that EVERY pregnancy is different. Just bc the first one didnt work out DOES NOT mean the next one wont.

I had a m/c at 9wks and went on to get pregnant 3 mons later and had a GREAT pregnancy and a wonderful and healthy baby boy

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Posted 6/8/10 6:18 PM
 

zoe282
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Jen

Re: question for girls ttcing after miscarriage

When I would get discouraged or scared I would remind myself that 80% of women go on to healthy pregnancy so the odds are totally in your favor. They always talk about the 20%....but they shoul be more positive and focus on the 80%.
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Posted 6/9/10 10:16 AM
 

MRnMRSNurse
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Jessica

Re: question for girls ttcing after miscarriage

I got pregnant a few weeks after my Miscarriage (not planned). Things are a lot different this time around. We are not jumping up & down because we know things can go badly. We are just keeping our news to ourselves. The Dr.s say this is a healthy normal pregnancy, so we are blessed. We are staying calm & relaxed about everything until we are out of the first trimester.

Posted 6/9/10 1:13 PM
 

autumn
Mommy to 2 divas

Member since 9/07

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Lisa

Re: question for girls ttcing after miscarriage

patience is the key thing, both TTC and also TTC after a M/C.

Posted 6/9/10 6:25 PM
 
 

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