Re: Help with packing lunch for a picky eater with food allergies (allergic to milk).

I didn't read all the other posts, but I recommend getting her a bento style box like this
http://www.brightbin.com/

and fill the compartments with things she loves.

We call these "lunchables" in my house. Some grapes in one, carrots in another, crackers, diced ham, etc...

Its like finger food heaven and my kids love them!