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Did you get an embie update before your 3dt or do you just show up to transfer?
I am hoping I get an update as to if I should show up tomorrow for transfer. Did anyone who transferred one get a call to cancel or go through with transfer? I would have to get an acu appointment beforehand and I don't want to have him schedule me if they will cancel me.
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PitterPatter11
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Re: Did you get an embie update before your 3dt or do you just show up to transfer?
They called me that morning to inform me about the time I needed to report. They did not tell me about the grade of my embryos.
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| Posted 12/20/13 2:33 PM |
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PhyllisNJoe
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Re: Did you get an embie update before your 3dt or do you just show up to transfer?
I had a 5dt and they called me on day 3 just to give me time to be there on day 5. RS does not look at the embryos until the day of transfer. Less interference, the better they do (according to them)
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| Posted 12/20/13 3:43 PM |
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Lillies
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Re: Did you get an embie update before your 3dt or do you just show up to transfer?
Posted by PhyllisNJoe
I had a 5dt and they called me on day 3 just to give me time to be there on day 5. RS does not look at the embryos until the day of transfer. Less interference, the better they do (according to them)
So how will I know if it arrested or not? I took off of work for this transfer (it was at 9:30 and didn't make sense to come in for only 3 patients)..I will be annoyed if they wait until 8am to tell me not to come in.
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| Posted 12/20/13 3:46 PM |
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PhyllisNJoe
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Re: Did you get an embie update before your 3dt or do you just show up to transfer?
Posted by Lillies
Posted by PhyllisNJoe
I had a 5dt and they called me on day 3 just to give me time to be there on day 5. RS does not look at the embryos until the day of transfer. Less interference, the better they do (according to them)
So how will I know if it arrested or not? I took off of work for this transfer (it was at 9:30 and didn't make sense to come in for only 3 patients)..I will be annoyed if they wait until 8am to tell me not to come in.
According to Dr. Stelling, before we did our IVF, he warned me that they may call the morning of transfer to cancel if they didn't make it. If they don't look at it until that morning, they won't know until then. Hopefully, that's not the case for you 
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Lillies
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Re: Did you get an embie update before your 3dt or do you just show up to transfer?
Oh God.... Here's to another night of panic.
Did he tell you how early they would call?
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PhyllisNJoe
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Re: Did you get an embie update before your 3dt or do you just show up to transfer?
He told me people have been called and they were literally in the parking lot of the office  I was beside myself. I had 5 days of daily panic. I know what you're feeling
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| Posted 12/20/13 4:07 PM |
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PhyllisNJoe
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Re: Did you get an embie update before your 3dt or do you just show up to transfer?
try to remember panicking and making yourself nuts will not change the outcome. I kept reminding myself of that every single minute
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| Posted 12/20/13 4:08 PM |
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Lillies
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Re: Did you get an embie update before your 3dt or do you just show up to transfer?
Posted by PhyllisNJoe
He told me people have been called and they were literally in the parking lot of the office I was beside myself. I had 5 days of daily panic. I know what you're feeling
Holy crap 
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| Posted 12/20/13 4:08 PM |
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Lillies
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Re: Did you get an embie update before your 3dt or do you just show up to transfer?
Posted by PhyllisNJoe
try to remember panicking and making yourself nuts will not change the outcome. I kept reminding myself of that every single minute
It's just that I have to do acu before and also get my son to my Moms before it all. It will suck if all of that is for nothing.
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PhyllisNJoe
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Re: Did you get an embie update before your 3dt or do you just show up to transfer?
Did they tell you they are def. doing a day 3 transfer?
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| Posted 12/20/13 4:15 PM |
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Lillies
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Re: Did you get an embie update before your 3dt or do you just show up to transfer?
Posted by PhyllisNJoe
Did they tell you they are def. doing a day 3 transfer?
The embryologist called me yesterday with the fert report and told me to come Saturday at 9:30. That was all. And that if anything changes, they will call us. So I guess 3dt is it for me.
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| Posted 12/20/13 4:17 PM |
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PhyllisNJoe
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Re: Did you get an embie update before your 3dt or do you just show up to transfer?
Gotcha
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Did you get an embie update before your 3dt or do you just show up to transfer?
At RSONY I wasn't told about a lab error until I was there for transfer.... the error wouldn't allow for transfer! I was so p-%%ed. I am think of you
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| Posted 12/20/13 4:30 PM |
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Lillies
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Re: Did you get an embie update before your 3dt or do you just show up to transfer?
Posted by 2BirdsofaFeather
At RSONY I wasn't told about a lab error until I was there for transfer.... the error wouldn't allow for transfer! I was so p-%%ed. I am think of you
I am hearing so much about lab error with this place. Pretty nervous now that my one embie's fate lies with them!
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| Posted 12/20/13 4:31 PM |
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Re: Did you get an embie update before your 3dt or do you just show up to transfer?
I did a FET, so I knew that three made it to freeze. I did not get a call day of transfer to tell me if any didn't make it in the thaw.
They all made it, though.
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| Posted 12/20/13 5:42 PM |
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babyfever24
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Re: Did you get an embie update before your 3dt or do you just show up to transfer?
Ummmm I didn't do 3dt. I did a five. They all arrested on day four and she did the transfer anyway.  didn't find out until I got there.
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| Posted 12/21/13 7:10 AM |
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Lillies
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Re: Did you get an embie update before your 3dt or do you just show up to transfer?
Posted by babyfever24
Ummmm I didn't do 3dt. I did a five. They all arrested on day four and she did the transfer anyway. didn't find out until I got there.
That's what I'm worried about.
Why did they still transfer them?
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PhyllisNJoe
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Re: Did you get an embie update before your 3dt or do you just show up to transfer?
Posted by babyfever24
Ummmm I didn't do 3dt. I did a five. They all arrested on day four and she did the transfer anyway. didn't find out until I got there.
Wow Really? Why would they put them in if they stopped growing? Did they tell you they had a chance inside?
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Lillies
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Re: Did you get an embie update before your 3dt or do you just show up to transfer?
Posted by PhyllisNJoe
Posted by babyfever24
Ummmm I didn't do 3dt. I did a five. They all arrested on day four and she did the transfer anyway. didn't find out until I got there.
Wow Really? Why would they put them in if they stopped growing? Did they tell you they had a chance inside?
She had one hell of an experience there!
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| Posted 12/21/13 4:45 PM |
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Re: Did you get an embie update before your 3dt or do you just show up to transfer?
Posted by Lillies
Posted by PhyllisNJoe
Posted by babyfever24
Ummmm I didn't do 3dt. I did a five. They all arrested on day four and she did the transfer anyway. didn't find out until I got there.
Wow Really? Why would they put them in if they stopped growing? Did they tell you they had a chance inside?
She had one hell of an experience there!
UMMM yeah. I don't like to over step on the boards so i don't post my story but i wouldn't send my worst enemy to that place.
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Re: Did you get an embie update before your 3dt or do you just show up to transfer?
Posted by Lillies
Posted by babyfever24
Ummmm I didn't do 3dt. I did a five. They all arrested on day four and she did the transfer anyway. didn't find out until I got there.
That's what I'm worried about.
Why did they still transfer them?
"She" said they could do better in utero but they were day 3 on a day 5…..my new doctor didn't put us through that agony of a 2ww he said it would've been false hopes.
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| Posted 12/21/13 5:41 PM |
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Lillies
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Re: Did you get an embie update before your 3dt or do you just show up to transfer?
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Posted by Lillies
Posted by babyfever24
Ummmm I didn't do 3dt. I did a five. They all arrested on day four and she did the transfer anyway. didn't find out until I got there.
That's what I'm worried about.
Why did they still transfer them?
"She" said they could do better in utero but they were day 3 on a day 5…..my new doctor didn't put us through that agony of a 2ww he said it would've been false hopes.
Because of you, I freaked when I got there saying I refuse to change if my embie is not alive and in condition for transferring lol the nurses were like.. Uhh that's why you are here? We would call you if it didn't make it.. And I said that I know a bunch of people who were not notified until they showed up and they said there are those cases :/ Then Dr. Stelling comes over and says the embie actually looks good and not to worry lol I'm so paranoid!
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| Posted 12/21/13 5:47 PM |
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Re: Did you get an embie update before your 3dt or do you just show up to transfer?
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Posted by babyfever24
Posted by Lillies
Posted by babyfever24
Ummmm I didn't do 3dt. I did a five. They all arrested on day four and she did the transfer anyway. didn't find out until I got there.
That's what I'm worried about.
Why did they still transfer them?
"She" said they could do better in utero but they were day 3 on a day 5…..my new doctor didn't put us through that agony of a 2ww he said it would've been false hopes.
Because of you, I freaked when I got there saying I refuse to change if my embie is not alive and in condition for transferring lol the nurses were like.. Uhh that's why you are here? We would call you if it didn't make it.. And I said that I know a bunch of people who were not notified until they showed up and they said there are those cases :/ Then Dr. Stelling comes over and says the embie actually looks good and not to worry lol I'm so paranoid!
LOL! Dr. Stelling knows my name trust that! Anyways glad you had a good experience.
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