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PennyCat
Just call me mommy :)
Member since 7/08 19084 total posts
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Jib
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3 years of trying to make a baby... *Update and thank you!!* Final update.......
... just to experience someone else go through infertility.
Lining was paper thin again.
I don't even know what else to say. It's deja vu 
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Update: Well........... turns out her estrogen level came back LOW.. which means her body wasn't absorbing the estrogen from the patches she was on. Dr.B is changing the protocol and we are able to continue with the cycle.  This was news that I was honestly NOT expecting!! (umm for anyone going through infertility, PLEASE believe what they tell you to expect the unexpected!!) 
My surrogate and I are *THRILLED* to still have a chance here... and on that note...
... I have never been a very religious person but just wanted to put a little shout out to anyone who sent out a prayer yesterday.. because the big man upstairs must be listening to SOMEONE right now for me to have this opportunity!  
I'll update again after her next lining check... Oh - and for anyone who doesn't know, I'm on vacation right now. Yes. Vacation.... and I spent all of yesterday being infertile. 
I'd say it's shopping time .......
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Just wanted to update. Unfortunately, we lost our surrogate. I'm in the process of figuring out our next steps. Thanks ladies
Message edited 9/16/2012 11:11:45 PM.
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prunepie
LIF Adult
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jennifer
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Re: 3 years of trying to make a baby...
Oh jackie. Wtf. 
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| Posted 9/11/12 12:41 PM |
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PennyCat
Just call me mommy :)
Member since 7/08 19084 total posts
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Jib
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Re: 3 years of trying to make a baby...
seriously Jenn WTF is right!!! I don't even know what to fuckkking say anymore. For the first time ever there's no plan b.....
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| Posted 9/11/12 12:42 PM |
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CindySN23
Stop, Think & Breathe...
Member since 8/11 3550 total posts
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Cindy
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3 years of trying to make a baby...
OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!! This shit cannot be happening!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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| Posted 9/11/12 12:47 PM |
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skinny
3 boys and a princess!
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Momma
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Re: 3 years of trying to make a baby...
Oh no Jackie!!!!!!!! Once again, I am at a loss for words. I seriously don't know how 1 person can have such horrible luck. (That's not coming out right, but I hope u know what I mean and hope I didn't offend you by saying it.)
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| Posted 9/11/12 12:54 PM |
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cateyemm
Twins!
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Re: 3 years of trying to make a baby...
All I can say is that you're one of the strongest people I know and each time you get knocked down, you have picked yourself back up again. I'm sure you will do it again. We are all here for you.
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| Posted 9/11/12 12:55 PM |
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PennyCat
Just call me mommy :)
Member since 7/08 19084 total posts
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Jib
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Re: 3 years of trying to make a baby...
Posted by skinny
Oh no Jackie!!!!!!!! Once again, I am at a loss for words. I seriously don't know how 1 person can have such horrible luck. (That's not coming out right, but I hope u know what I mean and hope I didn't offend you by saying it.)
No not at all .. I don't understand why this is happening either and honestly it has me questioning if I even needed to go the surrogacy route to begin with.. ya know?  
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| Posted 9/11/12 12:55 PM |
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PennyCat
Just call me mommy :)
Member since 7/08 19084 total posts
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Jib
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Re: 3 years of trying to make a baby...
Posted by cateyemm
All I can say is that you're one of the strongest people I know and each time you get knocked down, you have picked yourself back up again. I'm sure you will do it again. We are all here for you.
If for each time I got knocked down, I got knocked up, I'd be like the Duggars on 17 Kids and Counting.
Ok ..  back to being depressed again.. This blows.
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| Posted 9/11/12 12:56 PM |
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nraboni
Uggh...
Member since 10/09 6905 total posts
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Nicole
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Re: 3 years of trying to make a baby...
I am so sorry you are going through this again. I always look for your updates.
Because I am uneducated about the screening process for a surrogate...don't they check everything with a surrogate before matching with a couple?
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| Posted 9/11/12 1:18 PM |
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maybeamommy
Blessed beyond belief
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Re: 3 years of trying to make a baby...
UGHHH how frustrating!!!!!!!!!!
Praying for you Jackie! I wish I could help you in some way!!!
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| Posted 9/11/12 1:18 PM |
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LadyBug1209
Mommy to FOUR little men!
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Re: 3 years of trying to make a baby...
Wow.
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| Posted 9/11/12 1:36 PM |
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jellybean78
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Mommy
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Re: 3 years of trying to make a baby...
OMG there are no words I'm so so sorry
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| Posted 9/11/12 1:42 PM |
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MissMeliss
Love my kids
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Re: 3 years of trying to make a baby...
Omg, I'm so sorry! 
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| Posted 9/11/12 1:45 PM |
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InShock
life is good
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Re: 3 years of trying to make a baby...
Oh. My. God.
Makes NO sense!! I am SO sorry. Freakin' sucks.
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| Posted 9/11/12 2:06 PM |
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classc1
LIF Adolescent
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Re: 3 years of trying to make a baby...
I just can't believe it. I really can't. I'm so very sorry.
I can only say that sometimes we have to go through a TEST to have a TESTIMONY. You will one day have both your testimony and your baby. Please hang in there.
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| Posted 9/11/12 2:20 PM |
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BA2008
Need to find some hope!
Member since 2/08 2485 total posts
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Beth -Ann
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Re: 3 years of trying to make a baby...
I can't really believe this. She's had children of her own...how could lining be an issue? and I know it sucks cause this is the reason you went to surrogate. What does Dr. B say?????
OK, she does not sound like a good surrogate (why am I stating the obvious?). Do you lose money if you continue to use same agency but find another GS? Except time of course.....
I keep wondering if she's messing up her meds? Do you try again with her??????
You've got to keep going...you didn't come this far to give up now!!!!
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| Posted 9/11/12 2:30 PM |
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DitD
LIF Adolescent
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Re: 3 years of trying to make a baby...
I just have no words but I am so so so sorry you are going through this. If anyone deserves to catch a break it is you.
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| Posted 9/11/12 3:13 PM |
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Jax430
Hi!
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Jackie
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Re: 3 years of trying to make a baby...
OMG Jackie, I can't believe this. I am just so upset for you and your DH. This just is not fair (like anything ever was in the first place).
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| Posted 9/11/12 3:18 PM |
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PennyCat
Just call me mommy :)
Member since 7/08 19084 total posts
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Jib
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Re: 3 years of trying to make a baby...
Posted by BA2008
I can't really believe this. She's had children of her own...how could lining be an issue? and I know it sucks cause this is the reason you went to surrogate. What does Dr. B say?????
OK, she does not sound like a good surrogate (why am I stating the obvious?). Do you lose money if you continue to use same agency but find another GS? Except time of course.....
I keep wondering if she's messing up her meds? Do you try again with her??????
You've got to keep going...you didn't come this far to give up now!!!!
... if I say anything about Dr.B right now, this thread will be taken down. Trust me.
We lose SOME money but not a lot .. The screen surrogates before they accept them into the agency but all they can really go based on is a healthy pregnancy history, etc... What they SHOULD do is a mock cycle to make sure there are no issues.
She's not messing with her meds, she's actually EXTREMELY responsible.. Last cycle's mess-up with a total fluke. She felt awful and wanted this as badly as I do.
I'm beyond frustrated.
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maybemommy10
Big Brothers to Be !
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Re: 3 years of trying to make a baby...
i am going to come right out and say this and its bc i heart you. and HATE seeing you go thru this. please dont take offense.
RUN FROM THAT MAN
PLEASE
FOR THE LOVE OF GOD
MOVE ONNNNNNNNNNNNN FROM HIM
i get it you like him. but IT IS NOT WORKING OUT FOR YOU. its been THREE YEARS MOVE ON
MOVE ON
MOVE ON
MOVE ON
do not let him refer you to ANYTHING ELSE. dont let him recommend A BOOK. MOVE ON
GO TO ANOTHER DOCTOR JACK PLEASE.
PLEASE.
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PennyCat
Just call me mommy :)
Member since 7/08 19084 total posts
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Jib
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Re: 3 years of trying to make a baby...
Posted by maybemommy10
i am going to come right out and say this and its bc i heart you. and HATE seeing you go thru this. please dont take offense.
FB message coming in 3.. 2... 1...
eta: and trust me nooooo offense taken AT ALL..
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LemonHead
Sour Girl
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3 years of trying to make a baby...
I am so upset for you.
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| Posted 9/11/12 4:20 PM |
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Lara&Aidansmommy
For mom i miss u ETC ILOVEU
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ETC I LOVE YOU
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Re: 3 years of trying to make a baby...
Holy shit!! Really? I literally feel sick reading this post. Stay strong I know it so much easier said than done. Ugh I'm so sorry
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wantabuninoven
My angel has a baby brother!
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Re: 3 years of trying to make a baby...
This is just crazy.
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| Posted 9/11/12 5:31 PM |
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WannaBeAMom11
LIF Adult
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3 years of trying to make a baby...
I am so sorry. This is ***** insane. Can you put in for a new surrogate?
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