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3 years of trying to make a baby... *Update and thank you!!* Final update.......

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BA2008
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Re: 3 years of trying to make a baby...

And I do want to just add that this is probably not the result of the Doctor in charge. This can happen to anyone. Even if you do a mock cycle. Great for the mock but it only matters in the real event. I've seen many women in Cornell's DE group do mock cycles and then when the real one comes along...freakin lining wont go anywhere...time and time again. Which is why most places don't bother, in the real event (and luckily here there are not two or more cycles trying to get lined up....happens when you do a shared donor cycle), where you can postpone without a huge cancel on others.

The reality too...no one monitored her natural cycles...maybe her lining never got thick but it worked for her anyway.

I have seen many stories of women with thin linings working fine.

It sucks big time and I'm not belittling that at all. I'm just saying I've seen some crazy stories over the years. I now wish I saved them all because some are so amazing and some are so tragic...but sometimes with a little more perseverance end up amazing. If I ever get lucky enough too...I will share my whole story with this board some day.

There are good surrogates out there. It took my good friend at least 2 surrogates before she got the good one. It happens more often than we know.

I just say get in there and find another and not waste anymore time. I wish I could help in any way possible.

Now how do I find you on FB???????

Posted 9/11/12 6:20 PM
 
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Re: 3 years of trying to make a baby...

oh my gosh. I am so, so sorry. I just want to give you a huge hugChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/11/12 7:18 PM
 

2BirdsofaFeather
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3 years of trying to make a baby...

there are no words.

Posted 9/11/12 7:19 PM
 

gina409
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Re: 3 years of trying to make a baby...

Posted by 2BirdsofaFeather

there are no words.



this..i am not even going to try

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Posted 9/11/12 7:22 PM
 

stargazerlily
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Re: 3 years of trying to make a baby...

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This breaks my heart to see someone go through such ups and downs. I am sorry that you found such hope only to face the same problems as before. All I can say is you have to go on.....in whatever capacity you can. Try again, get another opinion, take a break, focus on getting out of bed and breathing everyday. I hope you have support all around and I wish only good things come your way after all this heartache.

Posted 9/11/12 7:35 PM
 

whateverLOLAwants
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Re: 3 years of trying to make a baby...

there really are no words to say that can help you feel better at this time. i just want you to know that i am thinking of you and praying for some sort of good news in the future for you and your husband. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/11/12 7:47 PM
 

Bearcat
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E

Re: 3 years of trying to make a baby...

i'm sorry....i just don't know what else to say right now. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/11/12 9:31 PM
 

allIwant
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Re: 3 years of trying to make a baby...

So sad for you Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon ....there are no words except...never give upChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/11/12 9:58 PM
 

jellybean78
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3 years of trying to make a baby...

I know I posted earlier but I've been thinking about you all day. Continued prayers Chat Icon and hugs for you Chat Icon. I also agree with the PP...have you thought about seeing another RE? A fresh set of eyes. I heard great things about Dr. Tortoriello (he actually did my IVF before he left Columbia). He's easy on the eyes too Chat Icon

I'm now convinced then when you do have your baby they are going to be the next President Chat Icon Good things come to those who wait and you deserve the best!! Hang in there, keep your faith you WILL have your baby.

Message edited 9/11/2012 10:26:09 PM.

Posted 9/11/12 10:25 PM
 

Wishes1111
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Re: 3 years of trying to make a baby...

I'm so incredibly sorry!!!!! Please please please do not give up hope! if anyone deserves a happy ending on this board it's you! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/11/12 10:25 PM
 

Wishes1111
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Re: 3 years of trying to make a baby...

Posted by jacquig

I know I posted earlier but I've been thinking about you all day. Continued prayers Chat Icon and hugs for you Chat Icon. I also agree with the PP...have you thought about seeing another RE? A fresh set of eyes. I heard great things about Dr. Tortoriello (he actually did my IVF before he left Columbia). He's easy on the eyes too Chat Icon

I'm now convinced then when you do have your baby they are going to be the next President Chat Icon Good things come to those who wait and you deserve the best!! Hang in there, keep your faith you WILL have your baby.



Chat Icon I just posted above but I have to agree with this post from top to bottom!! I also read the PP and wondered also if you'd do well with a new perspective and a new set of eyes. Obviously you know your situation & what's best for you. Lots of prayers for you Chat Icon

Message edited 9/11/2012 10:45:48 PM.

Posted 9/11/12 10:44 PM
 

LoLaBlue
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Re: 3 years of trying to make a baby...

Im so sorry you have to go through this Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/12/12 8:11 AM
 

LIRascal
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3 years of trying to make a baby...

maybe the New Year will bring new joy. Chat Icon I wish I had more encouraging word of hope. Chat Icon

Posted 9/12/12 9:50 AM
 

PennyCat
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Re: 3 years of trying to make a baby... *Update and thank you!!*

Posted by BA2008



Now how do I find you on FB???????




I'll FM you! Chat Icon Chat Icon




Thank you so much ladies.. .The support on here is always awesome.. and if my baby does become president, I'll make sure he/she makes infertility/adoption/surrogacy coverage in health benefits mandatory. Chat Icon

Posted 9/12/12 10:20 AM
 

BA2008
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Beth -Ann

Re: 3 years of trying to make a baby... *Update and thank you!!*

Awesome!!!!!!!!!!

Posted 9/12/12 10:59 AM
 

Jax430
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Re: 3 years of trying to make a baby... *Update and thank you!!*

Jackie, I am THRILLED to read this update!!!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Lots of prayers that the cycle now goes in the right direction. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/12/12 12:01 PM
 

PennyCat
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Re: 3 years of trying to make a baby... *Update and thank you!!*

Posted by Jax430

Jackie, I am THRILLED to read this update!!!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Lots of prayers that the cycle now goes in the right direction. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



Thanks Jackie!!! I read the email from Dr.B as I was leaving breakfast and nearly dropped my phone!! Chat Icon

Posted 9/12/12 12:11 PM
 

whateverLOLAwants
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Re: 3 years of trying to make a baby... *Update and thank you!!*

OMG yes yes yes!!!!!!!!!!!!!! im sooooo happy to see this update!!!!!!!!! prayers really do work!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/12/12 12:17 PM
 

MrsM429
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Re: 3 years of trying to make a baby... *Update and thank you!!*

WONDERFUL UPDATE!!!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/12/12 12:24 PM
 

WannaBeAMom11
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3 years of trying to make a baby... *Update and thank you!!*

Yay, so happy for you. Keeping you in my prayers.

Posted 9/12/12 12:37 PM
 

JulieLO
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3 years of trying to make a baby... *Update and thank you!!*

Always, you are in my prayers---prayers to who I refer to as God and also to the Universe (sounds crazy I know) but you get what you give and You have been giving so much of your strength, inspiration, love, prayers, etc. to everyone on this board that we are giving it right back to you...our struggles only make us that much stronger and there IS a BIGGER picture... every time we get knocked down we need to stand back up and fight harder for what we believe in, for what we love, for what we want no matter what it takes...

Its worth every bumo in the road. we all love and support you and are pulling for you as you do for us!

Ain't no mountain high enough, ain't know valley low enough, ain't no river wide enough to keep you from getting your baby!!!!!

xoxoxox

Posted 9/12/12 1:31 PM
 

LadyBug1209
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Posted 9/12/12 3:17 PM
 

DitD
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Re: 3 years of trying to make a baby... *Update and thank you!!*

So excited for this update!

Posted 9/12/12 3:30 PM
 

moonmist09
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3 years of trying to make a baby... *Update and thank you!!*

that's a wonderful update!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
go enjoy your vacation and shop till you drop!!!!!

Posted 9/12/12 5:39 PM
 

AKD
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Re: 3 years of trying to make a baby... *Update and thank you!!*

Posted by moonmist09

that's a wonderful update!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
go enjoy your vacation and shop till you drop!!!!!



Ditto to this!!! Sending you many Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon !

Posted 9/12/12 6:02 PM
 
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