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avamamma
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Re: Advice please.. I feel like a loser...
Posted by Natay
You are not alone. I feel guilty about considering not having another and haven't had the guts to tell DH. I thought I would be great at the SAHM thing and looked forward to it. I feel like I have lost myself too (you weren't being too dramatic for me). I feel like nothing ever happens for me or on my schedule even though I know this is not totally true. I'm 35 and feel like I need to decide right away if I am having another but just don't feel ready. I don't really have any advice for you or myself. Just know you are not alone.
Since I am almost 35, I also feel that my decision needs to be made ASAP- which makes it even more stressful.....
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Re: Advice please.. I feel like a loser...
Posted by avamamma
Posted by Natay
You are not alone. I feel guilty about considering not having another and haven't had the guts to tell DH. I thought I would be great at the SAHM thing and looked forward to it. I feel like I have lost myself too (you weren't being too dramatic for me). I feel like nothing ever happens for me or on my schedule even though I know this is not totally true. I'm 35 and feel like I need to decide right away if I am having another but just don't feel ready. I don't really have any advice for you or myself. Just know you are not alone.
Since I am almost 35, I also feel that my decision needs to be made ASAP- which makes it even more stressful.....
Don't feel stressed - I didn't have my first until I was 37!!! I feel the same as you only I'm older so it is always on my mind. Being a mom at 35 - or older - is still young. I've always been told that having another child just to have a sibling for your current child is not a reason to have another. You have to want the child for the child, not just as company for your current child. I think if you are really honest with yourself you already know the answer. Don't feel rushed - you still have some time. Good luck with your decision. 
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