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justpeachy
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Name: Joanne
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Am I crazy for even considering this? WWYD??
So on my way to drop DD off at daycare, I see at least 3 times a week a nun walking to the church. I pass the convent and the church on the day to DD daycare. Would it be crazy if I asked her if she wanted a ride? I would be more than happy to drop her off. Would it seem strange, since I would have my DD? When I told DH he thought I was insane for even thinking about it, especially bc DD would be in the car. The convent is over 2 miles away from the church and she is an older nun. Maybe early 70’s. I just feel really bad on these extremely hot days and also on the super cold winter days.
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Posted 6/7/11 10:15 AM |
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BunnyWife
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Re: Am I crazy for even considering this? WWYD??
I think that's very sweet and not crazy at all.
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Posted 6/7/11 10:19 AM |
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PrettyPeonies
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Re: Am I crazy for even considering this? WWYD??
I think its an amazing thing to do! Your a wonderful person to offer!
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Posted 6/7/11 10:19 AM |
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Re: Am I crazy for even considering this? WWYD??
Maybe you can call the church to make sure the nun is legit (how sad that you have to say that in this era).
I think its very nice of you.
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Posted 6/7/11 10:19 AM |
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StaceyWill
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Re: Am I crazy for even considering this? WWYD??
Posted by BunnyWife
I think that's very sweet and not crazy at all.
Ditto
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Posted 6/7/11 10:20 AM |
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AngnShaun
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Re: Am I crazy for even considering this? WWYD??
Posted by FreeButterfly
Maybe you can call the church to make sure the nun is legit (how sad that you have to say that in this era).
I think its very nice of you.
I was going to say the opposite... i tink the nun might be nervous about getting in a car with someone, even someone with a child in the car...
but i dont think its crazy
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Posted 6/7/11 10:21 AM |
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HoneyBadger
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Re: Am I crazy for even considering this? WWYD??
Posted by AngnShaun
Posted by FreeButterfly
Maybe you can call the church to make sure the nun is legit (how sad that you have to say that in this era).
I think its very nice of you.
I was going to say the opposite... i tink the nun might be nervous about getting in a car with someone, even someone with a child in the car...
but i dont think its crazy
I think these are both valid thoughts (sadly but this is the world we live in) but I think it's definitely worth it to at least ask her.
I think what you want to do is a really nice thing.
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Posted 6/7/11 10:26 AM |
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mrsej
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Re: Am I crazy for even considering this? WWYD??
I would totally ask - you would be so sweet to help, especially because the next few days are supposed to be brutally hot.
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Posted 6/7/11 10:27 AM |
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neener1211
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Re: Am I crazy for even considering this? WWYD??
I'd go down to the church to introduce myself and offer a ride in person.
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Posted 6/7/11 10:32 AM |
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jilliibabii
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Re: Am I crazy for even considering this? WWYD??
That's not insane at all. I don't know why he would think it is.
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Posted 6/7/11 10:34 AM |
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Re: Am I crazy for even considering this? WWYD??
I think that is sweet, and I don't know why, but I get the feeling she will decline. If you are willing to offer, you should just do it!
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Posted 6/7/11 10:36 AM |
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PattyCake
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Name: Hope
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Re: Am I crazy for even considering this? WWYD??
What's crazy about offering kindness? I would totally ask her if she wants a ride. If she declines, you still did a good thing.
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Posted 6/7/11 10:40 AM |
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GoldenRod
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Re: Am I crazy for even considering this? WWYD??
Posted by jilliibabii
That's not insane at all. I don't know why he would think it is.
Because offering a ride to a stranger, regardless of what outfit they are wearing, has a potential for danger.
I agree with the others about introducing yourself at the church and offering there.
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Posted 6/7/11 10:46 AM |
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ThePinkGoose
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Re: Am I crazy for even considering this? WWYD??
Posted by neener1211
I'd go down to the church to introduce myself and offer a ride in person.
I would go this route.
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Posted 6/7/11 10:57 AM |
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Re: Am I crazy for even considering this? WWYD??
Posted by AnaMaree77
Posted by neener1211
I'd go down to the church to introduce myself and offer a ride in person.
I would go this route.
I agree. I think this is the safest and most uninvasive option.
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Posted 6/7/11 11:06 AM |
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MrsA1012
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Re: Am I crazy for even considering this? WWYD??
Great idea !
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Posted 6/7/11 11:34 AM |
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bettybcafe
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Name: M
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Re: Am I crazy for even considering this? WWYD??
Posted by Jennie0898
Posted by AngnShaun
Posted by FreeButterfly
Maybe you can call the church to make sure the nun is legit (how sad that you have to say that in this era).
I think its very nice of you.
I was going to say the opposite... i tink the nun might be nervous about getting in a car with someone, even someone with a child in the car...
but i dont think its crazy
I think these are both valid thoughts (sadly but this is the world we live in) but I think it's definitely worth it to at least ask her.
I think what you want to do is a really nice thing.
Yes, I was actually thinking the same thing. Both valid points but I would see it more as the nun should be afraid than vice versa. I would still offer her a ride. very kind of you to even think about it
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Posted 6/7/11 11:37 AM |
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julz33
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Re: Am I crazy for even considering this? WWYD??
Posted by LiveForMoments
Posted by AnaMaree77
Posted by neener1211
I'd go down to the church to introduce myself and offer a ride in person.
I would go this route.
I agree. I think this is the safest and most uninvasive option.
agree!
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Posted 6/7/11 11:43 AM |
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MRsFaTThead
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Re: Am I crazy for even considering this? WWYD??
would you offer the ride to all old people you see walking?
Message edited 6/7/2011 12:27:02 PM.
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Posted 6/7/11 12:26 PM |
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Irishgrl13
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Re: Am I crazy for even considering this? WWYD??
Posted by BunnyWife
I think that's very sweet and not crazy at all.
I agree!
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Posted 6/7/11 9:28 PM |
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marymob
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Re: Am I crazy for even considering this? WWYD??
Joanne, I think that sounds like a very kind gesture!!!! Mary
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Posted 6/7/11 9:34 PM |
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MrsKS
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Re: Am I crazy for even considering this? WWYD??
Posted by neener1211
I'd go down to the church to introduce myself and offer a ride in person.
this is what i was going to say. I would try to meet her first at the church and then mention that you see her walking, etc. and offer the ride.
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Posted 6/8/11 12:11 AM |
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summerBaby10
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Re: Am I crazy for even considering this? WWYD??
you are so sweet! not a crazy gesture at all.
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Posted 6/8/11 6:13 AM |
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HoneyBadger
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Re: Am I crazy for even considering this? WWYD??
So...update?
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Posted 6/8/11 11:43 AM |
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