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Couple gift

Forum Opinion Poll
Yes - we get great stuff 33 60.00%
No - I want my own gift 13 23.64%
Obligatory other 8 14.55%
Bah humbug - I say no gifts! 1 1.82%
 

Are you a fan of the couple gift?

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dpli
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Are you a fan of the couple gift?

Do you like receiving "couple gifts" or not?

Posted 12/11/08 1:08 PM
 

beautyq115
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Me

Re: Are you a fan of the couple gift?

Not really but ever since we got engaged that is what we get now

Posted 12/11/08 1:09 PM
 

dpli
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Re: Are you a fan of the couple gift?

Posted by beautyq115

Not really but ever since we got engaged that is what we get now



One of my friends told me that the Christmas before she got married, one of the uncles pulled her FH aside and said, "enjoy this Christmas, once your married, the gifts all go downhill...."
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Posted 12/11/08 1:10 PM
 

steph4777
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Re: Are you a fan of the couple gift?

I don't mind cuz it's usually money or a gc.

Posted 12/11/08 1:12 PM
 

Reese32
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Re: Are you a fan of the couple gift?

I don't mind them; they're usually something for our apt. Which in DH's mind means it's really more for me than him, cause I care more about that stuff. But that's ok. Chat Icon

Posted 12/11/08 1:13 PM
 

CaMacho
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Re: Are you a fan of the couple gift?

Yes, I like them (especially board games or house/kitchen stuff).

Posted 12/11/08 1:16 PM
 

CrankyPants
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Re: Are you a fan of the couple gift?

Posted by CaMacho

Yes, I like them (especially board games or house/kitchen stuff).



Same here

Posted 12/11/08 1:17 PM
 

Cpt2007
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Liz

Re: Are you a fan of the couple gift?

This will be the first Christmas that I think we actually get joint gifts...we'll see!

Posted 12/11/08 1:17 PM
 

MrsKelly
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Re: Are you a fan of the couple gift?

i don't mind as long as it's not all i get... my family is good with doing some of each. the couple gift is usually for the house which i tend to appreciate more than dh anyway Chat Icon

Posted 12/11/08 1:18 PM
 

GioiaMia
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Re: Are you a fan of the couple gift?

Posted by CaMacho

Yes, I like them (especially board games or house/kitchen stuff).



good to hear! this year I did a game theme! Each couple got a board game!

Posted 12/11/08 1:25 PM
 

LoveyQ
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Re: Are you a fan of the couple gift?

Are you talking Christmas gifts? If so, we don't get gifts from anyone except our own parents. They don't do couple gifts, but if anyone got us a couple gift, I would like that! I like the board game idea or things for the house - like a martini glass set or something like that would be nice.

Posted 12/11/08 1:30 PM
 

MeeshMosh
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Re: Are you a fan of the couple gift?

Posted by beautyq115

Not really but ever since we got engaged that is what we get now



ditto 4 me Chat Icon

Posted 12/11/08 1:37 PM
 

dpli
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Re: Are you a fan of the couple gift?

Posted by MrsQ-in2007

Are you talking Christmas gifts? If so, we don't get gifts from anyone except our own parents. They don't do couple gifts, but if anyone got us a couple gift, I would like that! I like the board game idea or things for the house - like a martini glass set or something like that would be nice.



Yes, Christmas, but I guess other holiday gifts too. I celebrate Christmas, so I am not sure if people get couple gifts for Hanukkah or not. Chat Icon

I voted no, but as I am thinking about it, we have gotten a few good couple Christmas gifts. And I have to admit, in many cases, it is much easier to shop for a couple gift if one of the people is really tough to buy for.

Posted 12/11/08 1:51 PM
 

MrsPJB2007
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Re: Are you a fan of the couple gift?

i don't mind it--the holidays can be a time when people are just barely scraping by to buy just a lil something for everyone, that many times a "couple gift" is a little easier on the wallet. i'd rather get a couple gift than nothing at all....and i appreciate the fact that someone just buys for us at all.

Posted 12/11/08 1:53 PM
 

PeasandCarrots

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L

Re: Are you a fan of the couple gift?

I like having the "big" gift be the couple gift because chances are it's something I need/want that I would not buy myself or could not afford, but I like having my own gifts also. I say no to ALL the gifts as couple and yes to the big gift and some smaller household gifts, but still having our own to open. Just because we're married doesn't mean we want the same things

Posted 12/11/08 2:04 PM
 

Kara
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Re: Are you a fan of the couple gift?

Usually the "couple" gifts we get are the best ones! I don't mind at all.

Posted 12/11/08 2:10 PM
 

HeatherRose
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Re: Are you a fan of the couple gift?

I selected other b/c there are just some people who cannot give a good gift (sorry but its true) to the point were they REALLY shouldn't have. For these people I wouldn't mind getting a couple gift b/c that usually means something for the house or gc for dinner or something useful, just not for me.

I probably sound completely ungratefulChat Icon I swear I'm not though!!

Posted 12/11/08 2:12 PM
 

JessInCA
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Re: Are you a fan of the couple gift?

I could take them or leave them - we haven't gotten any really bad ones yet, so my opinion may change in the future!

Posted 12/11/08 2:13 PM
 

headoverheels
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LB

Re: Are you a fan of the couple gift?

yes because what we get is usually geared more towards me than DH Chat Icon (something house or baby-related)

but we don't get too many couple gifts, our families are big fans of the individual gift.

Posted 12/11/08 2:25 PM
 

Ophelia
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Re: Are you a fan of the couple gift?

from immediate family and friends I would be sad lol (but I am always grateful)...but from others just spreading the love/joy, I think it's an awesome way to do so without breaking the bank.

Posted 12/11/08 2:30 PM
 

tourist

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Re: Are you a fan of the couple gift?

I prefer it.

No one really knows me well enough to get me something personal that I would enjoy & use except my mom, but she always buys me clothes that are too small.

My DH & I are even buying ourselves a couple git this year! Chat Icon

Message edited 12/11/2008 2:37:23 PM.

Posted 12/11/08 2:36 PM
 

GioiaMia
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Re: Are you a fan of the couple gift?

Posted by headoverheels

yes because what we get is usually geared more towards me than DH Chat Icon (something house or baby-related)

but we don't get too many couple gifts, our families are big fans of the individual gift.



Chat Icon i am guilty of this. i always get my parents something for the house like Lenox and i am sure my dad doesn't like it but he doesnt mind

Posted 12/11/08 2:57 PM
 

Smileyd17
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Mommy

Re: Are you a fan of the couple gift?

For me,..never rec'd any, but wouldnt mind nor bother me.

For giving, I have esp with the fact that this couple has 4 kids that I have to buy for.

Posted 12/11/08 3:24 PM
 
 

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