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Are you planning to get an epidural?

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JTK
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Re: Are you planning to get an epidural?

Posted by greeneyes361708

I've delivered 2 children with epidurals, and 2 without(one at home!). I have had experience with both, and I can say without a doubt I preferred natural.

Epidurals can cause a stall in labor, which in turn leads to more interventions(like pitocin). Once you get an epi you are confined to your bed. There are risks to epidurals as well. Its been almost 4 years since my last epidural and I STILL get pains and numbness in that spot.

By laboring naturally, it allows a woman to move with the contractions. Movement and changing of positions helps the baby turn and move down, and can also help turn the baby to the optimal position.




i totally agree with this post .. i 've done it with and without and by far it's better without.. i will say that with my first having to be induced, being scared of the unknown and in labor for a full 24 hours on pitocin, i don't think i couldve done it in the end without my epidural.. i was 19 hours into labor and i was tired and miserable.. and the pitocin was strong. with my second and 3rd baby it was a walk in the park. not too much pain and i delivered in 8 hours and then in 6 hours..
with this baby i won't be getting one either.

Posted 1/12/09 6:04 PM
 
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Spelldizzy
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Re: Are you planning to get an epidural?

I've already got a running joke with my OB about pre-registering for an epidural. I don't doubt that my body can do without, I just hate pain, and if I could make the experience more comfortable I think it would be best. To each is to own...I'm definately pro pain relief. Sign me up.

Posted 1/12/09 6:14 PM
 

maiden
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Re: Are you planning to get an epidural?

It will probably be recommended that I have an epidural, if not a c-section Chat Icon However, if I can go without one, for health reasons as well as pain, I will not have one. We will see.

Posted 1/12/09 6:29 PM
 

Mere09
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Re: Are you planning to get an epidural?

Yes x1000!

I'm not one of those women who want to even attempt to do it naturally. (although I do understand why a lot of women do)
I just like the idea of making it as pain free as possible.

Posted 1/12/09 6:36 PM
 

butterfly20
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Re: Are you planning to get an epidural?

for me it will depend how much pain im in....

regarding reasons why people wouldnt get one

http://www.americanpregnancy.org/labornbirth/epidural.html

"Though research is somewhat ambiguous, most studies suggest some babies will have trouble "latching on" which can lead to breastfeeding difficulties. Other studies suggest that the baby may experience respiratory depression, fetal malpositioning; and an increase in fetal heart rate variability, which may increase the need for forceps, vacuum, cesarean deliveries and episiotomies. "

Posted 1/12/09 6:40 PM
 

MrsPowers
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Re: Are you planning to get an epidural?

I haven't decided yet!

Posted 1/12/09 6:46 PM
 

NextStopBabytown
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Re: Are you planning to get an epidural?

I do not plan on having an epi! I'm going natural! Chat Icon

Posted 1/12/09 6:46 PM
 

Alli06
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Re: Are you planning to get an epidural?

I'm going as long as I can without one. I would love to go naturally, but I'm sure the pain will get the best of me. I just don't want to slow down labor, and I hate the idea of being confined to the bed.

Posted 1/12/09 6:50 PM
 

ctrain1124
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Re: Are you planning to get an epidural?

YES!!!

Posted 1/12/09 6:55 PM
 

alexlynn7
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Re: Are you planning to get an epidural?

YES!!!!!!!!

i was 8cm when i got my epi the first time, so i definitely experienced labor in all its glory Chat Icon

getting the epi was absolutely, positively, the best thing i could have done. i was then able to enjoy the excitement of what was coming. i didn't mind not being able to move around because my labor was short, and i really didn't feel compelled to move around anymore once i didn't have anymore pain!

my epi was uncomplicated. it didn't interfere with my pushing at all - baby was out in just a few minutes once the pushing started.

i fear that i won't have enough time to get the epi this time around given how short my labor was the first time. but if i can i will be first in line!!!

Posted 1/12/09 6:56 PM
 

Bri
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Re: Are you planning to get an epidural?

I am another one of those people that thought I would never have children because of my fear of pain, but here I am! I honestly can't say right now because I am afraid of the epi and afraid of the thought of not having one- I guess I will have to see how things go- for all I know, I could end up a c-section candidate anyway (I was told that because I am so small that the chances are high that I would need a c-section . . .)

Posted 1/12/09 7:00 PM
 

pandaworm
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Re: Are you planning to get an epidural?

none here - all natural for me!

Posted 1/12/09 7:18 PM
 

JennyPenny
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Re: Are you planning to get an epidural?

Posted by ruby

My plan is to hold off as long as possible on all meds (including an epidural) with the hopes of not having any at all. Not saying I won't cave, but I'm going to try.



This is my plan as well.

Posted 1/12/09 7:24 PM
 

jennandrob
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Re: Are you planning to get an epidural?

most definitely will get one.

Posted 1/12/09 7:46 PM
 

MrsBurtch525
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Re: Are you planning to get an epidural?

Oh hell yes, you don't have to ask me that twice!!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/12/09 7:54 PM
 

gck0708
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Re: Are you planning to get an epidural?

Probably. No objections really but I sort of want to see how it goes. From what I've heard though, I'll be asking for it before I even get to the hospital!!
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Posted 1/12/09 7:54 PM
 

stickydust
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Re: Are you planning to get an epidural?

I will be having a c-section so I will have a spinal. I had the epidural with DD after laboring for quite a bit and it ended up wearing off at the endChat Icon

I think its great to have any idea of what you want but also to be flexible. The process of giving birth is an unpredictable one and we have to just go with flow as much as possible. Some labors are easy others are excruciating. Some don't have time to get an epi and some won't progress without one.

Posted 1/12/09 7:55 PM
 

maryb
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Re: Are you planning to get an epidural?

FOR SURE !!!- im not going to be superwoman that day - just hand me my baby

Posted 1/12/09 9:13 PM
 

Lucky
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Re: Are you planning to get an epidural?

Posted by Mikismom

Posted by JennZ

Yes, I plan on taking whatever they want to give me. BUT keep in mind (as per my ob) no epi until at least 3-4 cm dialated. So you will feel some pain.



unless you are induced for whatever reason

then you can get the epi whenever you want Chat Icon



My Ob told me that he would consent to give me the epi whenever I felt I needed it. He said that he is no-one to tell a woman no when she needs help to manage her pain. I got it at 3cm and will get it early on again this time around.

ETA: I should add that I was induced with pitocin so that may have made me want it earlier on.

Message edited 1/12/2009 9:24:22 PM.

Posted 1/12/09 9:19 PM
 

GenLCSW
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Re: Are you planning to get an epidural?

absolutely!!!

Posted 1/13/09 5:32 AM
 

hoping-4-number2
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Re: Are you planning to get an epidural?

Nope.
I had it in for only one hour with my son. I did not know how dilated is was. I think I can do it on my own for the next one.
I labored for 17 hours without it! I am hoping the next labor will be shorter.

But you never know what will happen.......

Posted 1/13/09 5:44 AM
 

Moehick
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Re: Are you planning to get an epidural?

Oh hell yeah...I was begging for one last time so no doubt this time I am letting them know as soon as I get thereChat Icon

Posted 1/13/09 6:43 AM
 

ARIELSMOM
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Re: Are you planning to get an epidural?

with both of my pregnancies, as with this one, i dont/havent "planned" on it. with DD #1 i got one around 4-5cm, with DS i got one at 9.5cm. I keep all of my options open when going into labor

Posted 1/13/09 8:26 AM
 

MarisaK
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Re: Are you planning to get an epidural?

My 'plan' is to have it if I feel that I need it -
I have ZERO interest in being a hero and 'doing it natural' on principal - that's JMO - If I CAN do it w/o adding another drug into my system, I will - but if not - bring it on !!

Posted 1/13/09 8:56 AM
 

Viviana23
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Re: Are you planning to get an epidural?

I didn't have one with my first DD (but that was more than 12 years ago) and I had a midwife, at the time I was very young and my midwife gave me the mentality that natural is best, so I wasn't even thinking of a choice or requesting one. It wasn't bad at all but my labor was pretty quick considering other experiences I've heard from others.

I do believe there are benefits of going natural, and I will try to do so this time; however, this time, I will also be open minded and know that I have a choice but I don't want to jump into it - I do wonder if the reason my labor progressed so "nicely/quick" the first time was because I didn't have the epi, but at the same time I am aware that my next experience could be completely different

Posted 1/13/09 9:05 AM
 
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