Baby Shower Etiquette

I have a baby shower to attend tomorrow afternoon for my boyfriend's sister-in-law. Originally, when I went to buy a baby shower present, I was a little shocked with how expensive all her items on the registry was. There were perfectly good "cheaper" models, but she picked the most expensive of each item. While I did buy her the baby bath, and some things to go with the bath theme, I'm afraid I didn't spend ENOUGH! Are babies supposed to get high end things now? Also, I'm confised as to whether or not I should my boyfriend's name on the card. He got his own gift for her, and he is the godfather, but I feel he should be included too. HELP!

Re: Baby Shower Etiquette

There are no rules for what goes on the registry. I am sure the parents to be picked the items because it meets saftey guideline or other criteria that was important to them.

I always think shower gifts are from the ladies, since they are the ones invited but you could put your BFs name on the card too if you want. Your gift sounds nice but if you are not sure it's enough you could always throw in a gift card to the store they registered in.

Message edited 3/28/2009 12:47:02 PM.

Re: Baby Shower Etiquette

Since he's getting his own gift for them, I'd say the bath items you got are from you and so the card does not have to have your BF's name on it.

Also, I think every person has the right to choose whatever they want for their registries - expensive or not. I do think, however, that if someone decides they really only like/want high end things, that there should be less expensive items on the registry as well, since not everyone has the same budget. If you got her the bath items from her registry, then do not feel bad that you didn't spend a CRAZY amount! They have to know that not everyone can afford to spend $$$.

Re: Baby Shower Etiquette

Just give what you can afford and don't feel bad. You do not have to get something from the registry, it is just a wish list. You can also add a couple of packs of diapers to make it look like a little more or make up a basket with the bath needs such as powder,shampoo,wash cloths,towels. I am sure you know what I mean. Do not feel bad.