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Can I just say....spinoff to bad mom/ dad posts
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Ian&EmmesMommy23
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Re: Can I just say....spinoff to bad mom/ dad posts
Posted by JoJo2010
Posted by BriBri2u
I am all for discipling your children and believe a smack on the asss is deserved in certain situations.
However, I draw the line with smacking a child so hard that you draw blood.
I am shocked at the number of posters who think this ok. I don't care what kind of day your children are making you have, you can't hit them that hard in public to the point of bleeding and not expect someone to say something.
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I never get involed with 'drama' posts, but this is making me sick to my stomach! How can ANYONE say that hitting a child to make them bleed is ok. I totally get a spank on the butt, but a smack to the face with BLOOD? HECK NO!
This thread is utterly ridiculous, seriously...i am SHOCKED. Just because you were smacked around has a child doesnt mean that its okay to smack around your own children. 'my mom did that to me as a child and i came out perfect' umm..no you didnt bc your doing it to your own kids....OY!
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Re: Can I just say....spinoff to bad mom/ dad posts
me too
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Re: Can I just say....spinoff to bad mom/ dad posts
Posted by Diana1215
I didn't read the thread that you're talking about but posters these days seem to be out of control with seeing only a snippet of someone's life and judging their every move.
We all have bad days. We all have dealt with toddler tantrums. A trip with my boys to Target is enough to send me to the loony bin when Jack is on the floor screaming in the toy aisle. Drives me beserk. I could only imagine what people think/say about me while dealing with it.
Do I like it when I hear a parent yelling at a child? No. And I know I hate the way I sound when I'm yelling - but sometimes the situation calls for it. I do not want to raise a spoiled brat - and sometimes they act that way so I need to try to nip it in the bud.
It's so easy to sit back and look at the parent as a bad parent. Everyone wants to be looked upon as the greatest mom/dad out there.
Well said & my sentiments exactly.
I hate that I feel like I am always screaming at my 3 year old. I will proudly admit that I am not the perfect mom. It is an on-going learning process for all of us.
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| Posted 8/8/11 10:25 AM |
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Re: Can I just say....spinoff to bad mom/ dad posts
Posted by JoJo2010
Posted by BriBri2u
I am all for discipling your children and believe a smack on the asss is deserved in certain situations.
However, I draw the line with smacking a child so hard that you draw blood.
I am shocked at the number of posters who think this ok. I don't care what kind of day your children are making you have, you can't hit them that hard in public to the point of bleeding and not expect someone to say something.
ITA
I never get involed with 'drama' posts, but this is making me sick to my stomach! How can ANYONE say that hitting a child to make them bleed is ok. I totally get a spank on the butt, but a smack to the face with BLOOD? HECK NO!
This thread is utterly ridiculous, seriously...i am SHOCKED. Just because you were smacked around has a child doesnt mean that its okay to smack around your own children. 'my mom did that to me as a child and i came out perfect' umm..no you didnt bc your doing it to your own kids....OY!
ITA!!!!!!
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| Posted 8/8/11 10:28 AM |
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