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Michi
My Love
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cheating solo
lets say.. ur SO is away for the week and ur feeling "lonely" so u take "matters into ur hands" and u start fantasizing... BUT u fanatsize about someone u kno...for example a co-worker...is that 'cheating'???
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Posted 11/18/05 4:52 PM  |
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nrthshgrl
It goes fast. Pay attention.
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Re: cheating solo
My definition of cheating is anything I'm doing that if he were doing I'd consider it cheating.
That being said, for me, it's physical contact with someone else other than me or emotional cheating (think those relationships that start over the internet).
I wouldn't care about "thought cheating" but I would never want to know about it if he were doing it.
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| Posted 11/18/05 4:58 PM |
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MommyofG
just the girls
Member since 5/05 9461 total posts
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Janice
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Re: cheating solo
No , I dont consider that cheating.
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| Posted 11/18/05 5:21 PM |
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dooodles
When you wish upon a star
Member since 5/05 11997 total posts
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Because 2 people fell in love
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Re: cheating solo
I don't think fantasizing is cheating - I honestly believe it's healthy
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| Posted 11/18/05 6:07 PM |
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Redhead
You Live, You Learn
Member since 5/05 31871 total posts
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Jennifer
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Re: cheating solo
Noooooooooooo
but if you are fantasizing about a co-work....well i do find that something not so good either. I really would be upset if the DH fantasized about someone he or i knew personally
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| Posted 11/18/05 6:09 PM |
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butterfly22
LIF Adolescent
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Re: cheating solo
Posted by Redhead
Noooooooooooo
but if you are fantasizing about a co-work....well i do find that something not so good either. I really would be upset if the DH fantasized about someone he or i knew personally
I agree completely
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| Posted 11/18/05 6:29 PM |
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BabyAvocado
Happy New Year
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Re: cheating solo
I wouldn't consider it cheating, but if these fantasies continued, it could lead to something questionable so I guess you could consider it the "gateway cheat". 
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| Posted 11/18/05 7:46 PM |
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